Well I have a delemia....
My mother is getting married for the 4th time. Now to a man I truely think is the scum of the Earth. I don't like him, her best friends don't like him, even my boyfriend who has met him once doesn't like him. They have been dating for 6 month, and me moved from Dallas to Austin to be with her, and not only to Austin, but into our house. All of this happened after a month.
Well now they are engaged. But my mother didn't tell me they were engaged... her assistant let it slip, "oh your not coming home for the wedding?"... me "what wedding????"
Then when I confront my mother I am asked... "Oh I didnt tell you , I thought I told you", which 5 minutes later turns into "well we didn't tell many people because we don't want any big parties or anything"... LIES LIES LIES!!!!!
So now the wedding is set for June 11th, and the only people who are going to be there are his 2 daughters and me and my sister. I'm sorry but if you want that small of a wedding, go to the court house!
The only reason I feel I am being asked to come is because his daughters live with their mother 7 hours from Austin (where the wedding is taking place) which is only one hour from where I live, and I was asked if I could drive them back up here, so that my mother and evil man could go on thier honeymoon.
I don't want to go for many reasons...
1) I feel Im being used, just so they can get his kids back to thier mother
2) I don't want to ride 6 hours with a screaming 3 year old and a 7 year old (granted it would be perminate birth control for the next year)
3) I don't want to drive back home, 6 hours by myself, because my boyfriend can't come, and i think it's BS that he cant come!
4) Its her 4th wedding.. I have been IN all of them except for the 1st because I was in her stomach!
Sorry this is long, I just wanted to know anyone elses opinion on it... am I being a bad daughter for not going??? Or am I justified???
Thanks
The Princess