03-15-2004, 09:50 AM #1
am i the only one who just doesnt care for women right now?
i might get flamed up for this 1 but w/e here it goes..........
all my life my parents raised me on the impression that i shouldnt waste my time with women UNTILL im married and ready to get a real life going.well for now even though im sorta on the young side still, i just cant seem to have any sort of thought of any girls in my head.if i do it just basically side tracks me and i wont get **** done-either gym wise or just meal wise.everyday everyday everyday, i go into the gym with the mentality that im gonna work my ass off the be the biggest kid this city has ever developed and someday i might compete and get my procard.
for now, i basically realized that i have put all my friends on hold, all the girls i usually get with have tried to call but im just not really pickin up.when im really serious about workin my ass off to become the best i just cant see myself partying on the weekends or spending non sence time with some girl who wont get my any positive outcome.eveyday i go into the gym, theres those same people who criticize and say im on something, but in reality im really not- not yet atleast, so **** em right?
i dunno i just had to get this off my chest, does anyone else feel this way or am i just weird as hell?
03-15-2004, 09:53 AM #2
Wrong forum bro!!!! Try the lounge.
03-15-2004, 09:58 AM #3
03-15-2004, 10:09 AM #4
Yeah, wrong forum....But dedication, even if extreme, is acceptable if you're seroius about your goals.
Hit the lounge with it though Bro...
03-15-2004, 10:15 AM #5
im confused.....are this bro's goals getting big and ripped like the 7th warrior?? im down for those goals but they must take a back seat to getting laid
03-15-2004, 10:27 AM #6
yup, you're the only one
03-15-2004, 11:21 AM #7Originally Posted by asymmetrical1
03-15-2004, 11:26 AM #8Originally Posted by itsallmental
03-15-2004, 11:41 AM #9
The benefit of sexual activity is keeping mentally healthy and having a good well being.
03-15-2004, 11:53 AM #10Originally Posted by asymmetrical1
-ability to have strength not an average joe has
-good physical appearance
the list is almost endless........
03-15-2004, 11:54 AM #11Originally Posted by RJM03
03-15-2004, 11:57 AM #12
A mature person can handle both a relationship and still achieve their goals...... JMO
03-15-2004, 11:59 AM #13
why dont somebody move this thread
03-15-2004, 12:01 PM #14Originally Posted by TheMudMan
03-15-2004, 12:05 PM #15Originally Posted by itsallmental
good physical appearance- what good is that if not for the ladies bro?
this is the last time i post on this idiotic thread......if you don't like women than that's cool....do what you do
03-15-2004, 12:11 PM #16
if i dont get laid at the very minimum a couple times a month im a miserable son of a bitch
jerking off just isnt the same
03-15-2004, 12:47 PM #17Associate Member
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buddy, maybe your gay
regular sex is SOOO important, just watching them scream....well i wont get into details, but you know what i mean
as for comparing sex and jerking off..... waht would you rather do, watch a video of people riding a rollercoaster, or acutally ride the rollercoaster???
03-15-2004, 12:58 PM #18
Please be respectful to the opposite sex in your replies
03-15-2004, 02:23 PM #19
All I can say is IMHO you gotta be true to your own values even if yours are different from everyone else's -and even if it makes you feel weird.
03-15-2004, 05:10 PM #20
Many choices in life Grasshopper....choose wisely.
03-15-2004, 05:28 PM #21Originally Posted by itsallmental
03-16-2004, 02:08 AM #22
Here in Dallas, Texas, missing sex is considered a misdemeanor . . . the more you miss it, de meaner you get . . .
But in the many-colored spectrum of sexual behaviors, if you don't have any inclination to bother with sex, that would put you squarely in the "asexual" (meaning "no sex") camp. No dishonor with that, most priests and nuns are that way, as are most married couples after about 10 years of marriage.
Different things can make a person asexual. For some, it may be an organic problem (disease) like low testosterone , for others it may be lack of interest in what's available to 'em. Others, and this is where I suspect you may be, are preoccupied with things you consider more important. If this is the case, if you are determined to do everything possible to make a name for yourself in this sport, you have nothing to worry about. On the other hand, if you are devoting lots of time to training because it allows you to avoid things you really should be doing (like taking care of kids or doing schoolwork, or earning your keep), then you have an issue you should take some time and think about.
But from what you've posted, I wouldn't worry at all. Keep on keeping on, you'll make new friends similarly dedicated who understand what you have to do, and sooner or later (like when you start on some sort of test) your interest in sex will pick up rather noticibly.
Ya, you're doing just fine . . .
03-16-2004, 04:23 AM #23
03-16-2004, 10:44 AM #24
I have to stick up for him here. He said he is still young, and girls are not all he thinks about, rare but good. That will all change eventually, but I say stick with the weights, and find a woman when you are ready. I have too many stories of how my life would be different/better if I didn't get involved with women young, or even in HS. Make your goals, stick to them, and get jacked. When your ready to be with a woman, your selection will be SOOO much better! Good luck bro!
03-16-2004, 02:08 PM #25Originally Posted by Tock
03-16-2004, 02:20 PM #26
i never get emotionally attached to any B*tch i just f*ck and thats all anything will ever be right now i am still young i got goals b*tchs are just more weight on my shoulders but i play the game to get my d*ck wet and then i move on to the next ho i got goals and me getting emotionally attached will just slow me down haha f*ck them hoes
03-16-2004, 04:28 PM #27Senior Member
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Vagina = Good
03-16-2004, 07:37 PM #28
[QUOTE=TooSmallif i dont get laid at the very minimum a couple times a month im a miserable son of a bitch
jerking off just isnt the same[/QUOTE]
Dang Dude, make that a 5 or 6 times a week!
03-16-2004, 07:45 PM #29AR Hall of Fame
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03-17-2004, 10:05 AM #30Originally Posted by GearAholic
lol..........if you only knew how stupid you sound!
03-17-2004, 10:17 AM #31
okay it sounds wierd.. but yeah im the same way.. i never look for a chick to date or mess around but if the opportunity arises, which on many occasions it has, i would jump on it just to clear my head. i stoped caring for women a while back cause of a bad relationship and now its just like a passtime. I would not go out of my way to impress some chick just to get laid, but if shes obvious about it then yeah dinner and a show and then we go back to her place. the thing is that when you get into a relationship and your a weak minded person you become dependent on that other person and everything else in you life falls apart since you have concentrated all your efforts on pleaseing him/her. that becomes extreamly unhealthy and can lead to a psyche problem. so like someone here said play the game but dont get emotianly attached, the first time you got "**** i wonder where and what he/shes is doing and why arnt they here" you have to realize that you are emotianlly attached and the more you become attached the worst the break up is going to be as well as the aftermath.. just my two cents..
03-17-2004, 01:05 PM #32Originally Posted by Danielle
LOL You beat me to it.
03-17-2004, 01:59 PM #33
03-17-2004, 03:03 PM #34
Before i met my last girl... i was like that. Just worked out and worked. Made sure i kept with my eating and all that. Only had one goal and that was to get big. partys, girls, etc... was just going to slow me down
03-17-2004, 04:21 PM #35Originally Posted by Elliot
03-17-2004, 04:34 PM #36Originally Posted by Danielle
03-17-2004, 04:36 PM #37
Originally Posted by GearAholic
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