03-16-2004, 12:39 PM #1
Ever meet a girl that makes you go... WOW... I did!!!
As of the last few months, I've been spending almost no time here.... Got a new job, with a software company.... Got a new car, basically everything was going great, but I was having crappy luck meeting interesting women.... SO I...
yes, I told myself that I would never do it, but I tried the online dating thing....
So this past Saturday, I went out with a girl that I met online...
All I can say is WOW WOW WOW....
I have this friend that is always claiming to fall in love with women that he meets, and I always tell him that he's full of BS, BUT NOW I UNDERSTAND him.
This girl is amazing... From the moment that she walked out of her apt, wearing the **** sexiest LBD (little black dress), backless, short, little black high heels, perfectly done toes in red... BLUE EYES and BLACK HAIR... OH, my god, and her vibe was so cool and laid back. I personally thought that the first date would be uncomfortable and a bit weird feeling, but nothing like that at all! Amazing thing number one!
So we went to a club up in SF, and when we showed up, the place was dead, so I started tripping about it, no party scene, nothing going on, will I be able to keep her interested, will she get bored, all the usual first date things....
So we got talking, and talking and talking,... and we just connected, on everything, not a single moment where we felt uncomfortable or felt a lack of topics to talk about... we jumped from topic to topic, laughed, she started doing the "touch my arm" thing (a good sign), leaning in on me, I loved every minute of it. Amazing thing numer two!
Then the club filled up with people, and then we started dancing.... Thats where it got crazy.... I usually dont dance much, not that Im not good at it, but most of my friends dont, as we usually sit around BS, and all that. This girl, well, she told me up front that she loves to dance, and we danced most of the night, from about 11:00pm till 3:00 am, and let me tell you bros....
Most clubs, you have a tiny bit of floorspace, and thats all you get, but when this girl came out on the dance floor, everybody gave her room to do her thing, people would stop and watch her dancing.... guys, girls, everybody was watching her. At one point I walked outside for some air, and a pretty hot girl comes up to me and tells me "you're that guy that's been dancing with that girl all night, everybody is watching you two!' ****, made me feel good.
But the kicker... three times I went to the bar to get something to drink for us, I had three different random dudes walk up to me and give my props (high fives and all that) and each one told me something to the effect...
'Dude, I just want to give you props for being with that girl!"
I mean we stayed out all night after that... talked, laughed, it was **** perfect....
Too boot, im 29, almost 30, and she is turning 23 in a few days...
And already, I have another date this week, as well as taking her out for her birthday a few days after that. She also already, that night, told me that she'd love to see me again!
Too boot a second time, she's an art student, is an amazing painter, has her ****e together, doesnt party, never has, doesnt smoke, doesnt really drink! Wow, all I can say is that I havent felt like this about a woman that I met, in a VERY long time!
i just had to share this with all of you... I have been on cloud nine for days now... I think now Im going to go to lunch and give her a call, maybe go see a movie this coming thursday!
Last edited by BlocRoc; 03-16-2004 at 12:43 PM.
03-16-2004, 12:50 PM #2Member
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jus make sure you keep grounded bro. don't jump in too fast.
03-16-2004, 12:51 PM #3
Sounds like u had a great time bro! Good luck with her!
03-16-2004, 01:02 PM #4
sounds like a great date Bro. Hope you have many more.
03-16-2004, 01:03 PM #5
Good luck man... hope everything works the way you want it to
03-16-2004, 01:08 PM #6
Good for you bro............ Yep, I've had that feeling and I will be getting married to her in November.
Good luck with this one!
03-16-2004, 01:11 PM #7
Now that you got all the bubbly stuff out in this post..........the next post can be more graphic right?
J/J bro.......hope it works out for you.
03-16-2004, 02:12 PM #8
I am jealous...good work finding a good woman out there man.
Hopefully things workout for the both of you
POST SOME PICS OF HER
03-16-2004, 02:19 PM #9
here are two pics of her!
So what do you bros think? Honestly!
03-16-2004, 02:40 PM #10
Sounds awesome dude, I've had times like that before.
Just make sure you don't get too keen, that can make the chick get scared off.
Being unavaible every now and then can make them really miss you.
I picked up a girl about a month ago in a club, seen her about 10 times now
things are all going sweet. (keeping my fingers crossed) She's 18 and i'm 22.
She's everything i dream of.
Best of luck with your chick.
03-16-2004, 02:47 PM #11
Always good to hear of bro's meeting a special girl.....yes I have met a woman that just made me go WOW.....I went to Boston to visit and I had talked to her awhile on the phone and things....well I'm standing in the airport waiting for her to come pick me up and in she walks.....the moment I layed eyes on her I heart started thumping....and when she walked up to me and smiled....that was it.... I like the fact that we can actually carry on a conversation and yet feel comfortable not saying a word.....
Good luck bro...I hope it all works out.... just remeber, go slow... rushing into things usually lead to disaster.
03-16-2004, 03:08 PM #12
lets no forget
Hey bro, its nice to see that you found a (cough cough) good woman but lets not forget that YOU SHOULD NEVER TRUST HER !
everyone is evil
03-16-2004, 03:28 PM #13
Does she have a sister??? JK, she's beautiful. congrats bro!
03-16-2004, 04:08 PM #14
Yeah no shlt. Nice to have a GOOD thread about a hooking up with a girl. None of this "did you fvck her or what not, or a thread asking about advice. You had a good time and everything went well. Thats the way life should be. None of this "she cheated on me or what should I do about her" crap.
03-16-2004, 04:45 PM #15
Awesome stuff man, good luck.
It seems almost impossible for me to find a good girl, I think it may have to do with my age. At 26, most of the girls I'm running into are young 18-21, or a little older 29-35. Not that there is really anything wrong here, but being at diff points in out life turns out to be tough.
Well, enough for me almost thread-jacking about myself here. Again, good luck, and take your time to savor every second of what could be the beginning of something special. If it is then you won't get to fell like this (specifically the brand new feeling) again.....
03-16-2004, 05:15 PM #16
Hey BlocRoc.... PM me the name of the online service you used.....
03-16-2004, 05:47 PM #17Anabolic Member
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Yeah I have... we clicked on the phone and when it came time for her to come here (she did not live in So Cali) we clicked in person right away....it was like we already knew each other...it was the greatest feeling!
B loc...I hope it works out for you bro...she sounds and looks like a great lady!
03-16-2004, 06:17 PM #18Originally Posted by BlocRoc
03-16-2004, 06:25 PM #19
I married mine !!
03-16-2004, 06:28 PM #20
yo BLOC, dancin' till three? SF? sounds like my stompin grounds...was it Ruby Skies?Sound Factory? Monaco? Im in the 510....sounds just like a girl I met from FIDM (a college in SF). Right on though bro,cloud ninez awesome.
03-16-2004, 06:45 PM #21AR Hall of Fame
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Congrats man, big pimpin' you are....
03-16-2004, 07:52 PM #22
Yeah, I met a girl that makes me go WOW. Then I married her. Seriously though, I can't say enough for meeting the right woman. Mark
03-16-2004, 07:54 PM #23AR Hall of Fame
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1) engagement ring
2) wedding ring
J/K, being a kid was great, having your own family is tops.
03-16-2004, 07:59 PM #24
awesome deal bro.. shes a hawtie! i met a girl that makes me go WOW.. we allready been together 4 months.. here she is
03-16-2004, 08:45 PM #25
Sounds like you really have it for her, if so then don't ruin it by making a wrong move on her. I know your not looking for advice, but this is what my bud told me to say to my WOW Woman and it worked, we have been engaged now for 5 years.
I really wanted to make a move on her but I knew every guy has tried that with her and she walked away from them, so I said this to her, "I enjoy spending time with you and I am very interested in being your best friend and lover, but I respect your boundaries." It worked like a charm. Here is a picture of my little lady....
Good Luck with your new love !!!!
03-16-2004, 08:55 PM #26
simple answer - no
03-16-2004, 11:10 PM #27
03-17-2004, 12:06 AM #28
LOL, only thing left to do is marry her and give her half your sh it !!!!!
03-17-2004, 02:02 AM #29Originally Posted by Stove
03-17-2004, 02:38 AM #30
I've got an ex-girlfriend that still takes my breath away every time see her...
03-17-2004, 08:15 AM #31
She looks very beautiful bro....good luck with your new relationship
03-17-2004, 11:27 AM #32
Thanks guys... A few things that you all mentioned that I never thought about... And people say that this place is only for juice talk! Baaaa
03-17-2004, 12:05 PM #33Female Member
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Hey- I hope girls are allowed to post.....I think it's great! Some one wrote it's nice to be a kid but it's top having your own family....so true. I feel that way all the time...from the first time I saw my husband 7 yrs ago to every evening when he comes home from work. You know when you have a good thing-keep it going & best wishes to you & your girl.
03-17-2004, 01:08 PM #34
Rockin, I even had a few of the female members post... And ladies, of course your input is ALWAYS greatly appreaciated... So how about some.... Pointers, ideas, things to NEVER do, things to always do... What do you want and dont want from a guy when you first start going out?
03-17-2004, 01:13 PM #35
Just treat her with respect, allow her "her" space, make her feel special......... do what you would want done to you when in a relationship.
03-17-2004, 02:41 PM #36Female Member
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Best wishes to you & your girl and to anyone else out there starting out or together for years......
03-17-2004, 04:01 PM #37Originally Posted by ironfist
I feel the same with some of my ex's.. at least some people can admit it.
03-17-2004, 07:28 PM #38
The internet dating thing is GREAT and it is also VERY BAD. Its a good way to weed out people before you actually meet. You can get to know one another before you spend time and money on it. You meet people you would normally never meet by coincidance.
The bad thing about it is: People whom already have boyfriend/girlfriends sometimes go to these sites to flirt and hook up. They find it is easy to get away with cheating since it is more controlled. The whole AOL chatroom thing has broken up A LOT of relationships that normally wouldnt have been broken up.
Yes, I have an ex whom I would give up my current situation for.
03-17-2004, 07:58 PM #39
Originally Posted by ItalianMuscle
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