Woman Probs HELP!!!

Ok guys and gals, i need some help here. Im stuck in a weird spot with my best friend and a chick he dated for a few months. Both me and him started as friends with her, but he started to date her because he worked with her and saw her more than i did, so he got the chance first. Well a few months went by and the whole thing fell apart, he wasnt happy so he stopped seeing her. Well me and her have been hanging out alot and she talks to me either on the phone or on aim everyday, and even sends me text messages a bunch, even sends one to say goodmorning sometimes. Well when me and her first started to really hangout was right after they stopped seeing each other and he didnt know it, i figured it would be a bad thing to tell him that we had previous plans to go to a rodeo like 2 nights after the stopped seeing each other. Well he got kinda aggrivated and didnt talk to me for almost a month, and i couldnt figure out why, so me and him talked it out last week and we are good to go, everything is cool with us and he told me that he dosent care that i hang out with her. Well my problem is that she is really starting to grow on me and we have tons in common, and haven been hanging out 2-3 times a week now. I dunno what to do guys, i think i need to check in with my best friend that was with her for that short while and make sure that it wouldnt hurt him if some inbetween me and her happen, but if he says it would bother him i would just stay friends with her. So i just dunno what to do, HELP.... :(

He wasn't happy.. so why should he be jealous?

if this is a real friend then check with him! dont let a women come between real friends because women come and go, but friends are forever

me and my best friend of many years had a brief falling out over a woman.. didn't talk to him for three months. the week i tried to contact him to squash it, he killed himself. kick myself in the ass everyday for not bein' around. talk to him, see where he's at.

Well i know he wouldnt kill himself over it, And i kinda agree with chris on this one because like he said straight to my face he wasnt happy with her because she drove him nutz and they didnt have much in common. I dunno, i think im gonna play it cool fora while and just continue hangin out with her and if i see it strating to get more serious than a friendship im gonna talk to my buddy about it first. I'd rather have my best friend that a chick anyday...

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Originally Posted by juicehoe

if this is a real friend then check with him! dont let a women come between real friends because women come and go, but friends are forever

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100000000000000% agreed!

They're the :dg: bro! :lol:

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Originally Posted by Money Boss Hustla

100000000000000% agreed!

They're the :dg: bro! :lol:

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yea dude i was with this girl for 2 years... lost a lot of friends, but didnt think i needed them since i had her. I thought she was "the one". She left and my friends for some reason were still there for me. Ill never make that mistake again :rolleyes:

Why do women have to make things so **** complicated?

ya bro, ck with him, and if its not cool,,..u know what they say,"bro's before HOes"

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Originally Posted by juicehoe

yea dude i was with this girl for 2 years... lost a lot of friends, but didnt think i needed them since i had her. I thought she was "the one". She left and my friends for some reason were still there for me. Ill never make that mistake again :rolleyes:

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It happened to me...it happened to my friends. We make bad choices for pussy. They're evil I tell you...evvvvillllll!! (Has to sound like Grandpa Simpson) :lol:

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Originally Posted by juicehoe

if this is a real friend then check with him! dont let a women come between real friends because women come and go, but friends are forever

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I couldnt agree more!

Bingo........ we have a winner........:hello:

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Originally Posted by juicehoe

yea dude i was with this girl for 2 years... lost a lot of friends, but didnt think i needed them since i had her. I thought she was "the one". She left and my friends for some reason were still there for me. Ill never make that mistake again :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by juicehoe

if this is a real friend then check with him! dont let a women come between real friends because women come and go, but friends are forever

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take the advice homey !!! dont make the same mistakes.

Exactly, couldn't have said it better myself. I would drop her in 2 seconds if I even thought it bothered my buddy.

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Originally Posted by juicehoe

if this is a real friend then check with him! dont let a women come between real friends because women come and go, but friends are forever

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:no: This is a perfect example of what a bad friend would say to himself to justify getting the puss.

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Originally Posted by chrisAdams

He wasn't happy.. so why should he be jealous?

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ok so the way I see it is that you want to maybe to ruin a friendship (possibly 2) to get some a$$?

NOT COOL.. ask him 1st, if he's ok with it then proceed.... but if she bugged the hell out of him.. she'll probably do it to you too... All girls can be cool as hell as friends, but once certain boundaries have been crossed, women just turn wierd....

On a side note.. Once you learn that one woman is evil.. you should relate that to EVERY woman.. UMMMKKK

HBP

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Originally Posted by Philliagorillia

Why do women have to make things so **** complicated?

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That's a million dollar question with NO answer.

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Originally Posted by bornbad71

That's a million dollar question with NO answer.

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Heres your answer.. BECAUSE WE CAN!!!!!!! and you allow us too

is she the only women in thw world or something

or because u are full of ****

It's common knowledge that you don't date a friends ex if it was their last girlfriend/boyfriend, or if they ever said I love you.

~Takara

Bros before hoes dude

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Originally Posted by takara

It's common knowledge that you don't date a friends ex if it was their last girlfriend/boyfriend, or if they ever said I love you.

~Takara

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Ok, to clear a few things up, 1.) She is a really great girl, but my buddy just realized that they didn have much in common and she wanted to do stuff that he didn tlike doing ( this botherd him alot) and it made him feel uncomfortable...
2.) IM NOT DOING THIS JUST FOR A PIECE OF ASS!, If all i wanted was ass i would go to a frat party this weekend and get myself a drunk chick, and **** her senceless and kick her ass to the curb.

Dunno, me and my buddy have talked about it some, but we are gonna be hanging out ths week and plan on talkin about a few more things because he found a new girl that he is pretty interested in, so who knows...

Why cant this be easy!

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Originally Posted by ttuPrincess

but once certain boundaries have been crossed, women just turn wierd....

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Oh hell yes they do! OH FREAKING HELL YES THEY DO!!! PSYCHOS!!!!!! :eek:

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Originally Posted by PuddleMonkey

Oh hell yes they do! OH FREAKING HELL YES THEY DO!!! PSYCHOS!!!!!! :eek:

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Im strongly starting to believe in this, im nothing but nice and i get kicked in the balls for it...

That makes it even worse. How would you feel if the situation were reversed and now when you hang with your buddy your ex-will quite often be there? I think it would be lame in most cases.

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Originally Posted by Philliagorillia

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2.) IM NOT DOING THIS JUST FOR A PIECE OF ASS!.....

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A situation like this couldn't be clearer in my eyes. Assuming you are true friends with this guy, in my world it's at the sole discretion of the buddy who had her previously.

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Originally Posted by Philliagorillia

Why cant this be easy?

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I, wish you much luck.....And would offer you this advice, before you make your decision about her ask yourself a couple questions. Would I want my friend to date my X? Would it bother me to see them out together? If my buddy called wanting to hang out after I already made plans to go out with her would I be embarrassed to admitt to him that I was taking out his X on this night or would I feel the need to lie and say I'm sorry bro but my favorite aunt is in town for only one night.
Also it seems to me that most friendships share some form of common interests, same likes , dislikes and what not so then I ask you why is it she wasn't the right girl for him? Maybe they didn't share any common interest.
Frienships are very different than relationships, and allthough she may make a very good friend she might not be the best choice as a girlfriend.
So again ask yourself Is she worth loosing a buddy over? Is the friendship that you and she share now more important than pressing onward to take it to the next level and risking the loss of two friends?
With that said if I were you I'd just ignore me and my advice though ...after all I am just an evil woman :p Good luck to you. ;)

Too many other women out there ....and besides you're just setting yourself up to hear...."Hey man what does my dick taste like?"