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    what would you do?

    if your ex-gf or bf who you loved so much and who kicked u out when you were down in luck ask you for help! specially when you are there she puts you down expects you to help becuase it you that wants to help her. kind of reversal of role!
    that happened to me I walked away! did I do wrong I couldn't take it anymore!

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    Just depends on what kind of person you are..........I dont think you need advice on a situation like this.......Everyone has their limits......some people can take more crap from others before they decide to walk away

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    Definately walk away man. Where the hell was she when she didn't need any help right. And let who ever she has been with since then take care of helping her, not your prob anymore........

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    If shes got your kids, b*tch or not, You gotta eat crow and help her out. Other than that, imho you ain't responsible for any of her probs if shes kicked you while you were down.

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    just dont punch her in the face with a brick... you dont need any jail time..
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    walk away...seems like i was in a similar situation - or at least i felt that way...

    after finally realizing how bad it was...i've finally walked away...

    like mass said...everyone has their limits...mine had been surpassed...how about you?

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    no kids! 2 years with her though! thanks for the advices. I don't feel like I am alone!

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    mine has been surpassed for a long time now!

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    you did the right thing. sometimes x's go too far and expect way too much!

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    You did the right thing........ if she can't show you respect then she doesn't deserve any either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2timer
    if your ex-gf or bf who you loved so much and who kicked u out when you were down in luck ask you for help!
    Fück her bro, don't look back... you did the right thing.

    When the shoe was on the other foot it was used to kick you... kick you when you were down... don't you forget it... ever. The only real justice in this world is "what goes around comes around".

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    yep! I thought I did the right thing,

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    u should have pretended to help her, then back out,, and say **** you ****..lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yankeebstrd
    If shes got your kids, b*tch or not, You gotta eat crow and help her out.
    Eat crow? wtf Does it taste like chicken? If it does I'll eat it, but if its tastes like squid or something, real rubbery, I'll have to pass.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roccoswello
    Definately walk away man. Where the hell was she when she didn't need any help right. And let who ever she has been with since then take care of helping her, not your prob anymore........


    Rocco, is that a dodge stratus in your avatar? Pure balls.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by PuddleMonkey
    Eat crow? wtf Does it taste like chicken? If it does I'll eat it, but if its tastes like squid or something, real rubbery, I'll have to pass.
    it tastes like a cross between manatee and giant sea turtle hatchlings.

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    no, no, no, its like a cross between a pole cat and a bat eared prarie dog.. tender, but not too tasty...
    ohh- and you did the right thing.. calmly walk away- serinity now....


    Quote Originally Posted by PuddleMonkey
    Eat crow? wtf Does it taste like chicken? If it does I'll eat it, but if its tastes like squid or something, real rubbery, I'll have to pass.

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