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Hi guys/ladies, can anyone help me with a question about low sex drive in women?
My wife has a very low sex drive and has for awhile, she is too shy to go aske her doctor, so I am looking into it for her.
I know for us guys stuff like tribulus helps...it does for me anyway, but I dont know if it would for a women or how much she could use.
Anyone have some ideas?
thanks
I heard yohimbe is good for women??? I dunno, maybe Im mistaken, just tossing ideas around? :scratch:
One thing that definitely works on women as well as men is a topical testosterone cream. I know it sounds a little bizzare but it really does work. Women have a small amount of Test circulating in their system as men have a small endogenous amount of Estrogen in theirs. Increasing it temporarily using a topical preparation is both rapid in its effect and non-harmful to the woman's system. You would simply reduce the dosage prescribed for men (listed on the tube) by appx. 50%.
My ex-GF and I used it periodically with great success. The actual amount of Testosterone her system is very small--perhaps 15-25 pg/dl. By the way, it was recommended by a physician who indicated it couldn't do any harm.
Other supplements such as Tribulus or Avina Sativa are intended to boost the bodies natuaral production of Testosterone which, in women is minute even under the best conditions. I'd say the best approach is using a topical preparation. Plus, these preparations are pretty easily obtained since they're viewed as being low risk.
If yu decide to give it a try, let me know how it works out.
hate to say it, she might just have low interest level.
If she is taking any kind of anxiety medication or depression medicine this can be very bad for female sex drive. My wife takes medicine for anxiety and she had to change it because she didn't have any sex drive at all. Other than that sorry but I can't help you. Just throwing this out just in case she takes one of the above.
in my experience i found that a lot of what drives a woman is emotions. the nicer you are to them the more responsive they will be.
no no no, you need to be the guy she fell in love with and wanted to romp all the time.. not a nice wuss.
100% correct.Just have her go to the doctor.He will perscribe her some test cream.It will work wonders.Quote:
Originally Posted by Magnum II
My wife finds a tremendous boost to sex drive off DHEA. The amount of testosterone generated by DHEA not so dramatic for men for men but for woman its perhaps generates more blood testosterone then those topical creams and because women have so few testosterone receptors body wide, it only takes a little bit to turn them into a total nympho. Of course the legendary Spanish Fly is actually 100% tribulus and it too has a stronger effect on women then men because smaller amounts of testosterone go so much farther with women.Quote:
Originally Posted by Magnum II
BTW you have to watch DHEA with women because it is well known to generate sufficient amounts of testosterone in women to bring about increased body hair and facial hair growth so use it like once a week as opposed to daily.
Bump that! Smart man right there!Quote:
Originally Posted by trailrider38
I have to be really nice and affectionate when on cycle that way the wife is willing to go at it all the time! And she even said to me that she feels that way (horny) because I'm treating her different...better.
here is another one to think about, I bet if you were nice enough and played it just right she would even be willing to fulfill some of your wildest fantasies!
Ya know you may just want to evaluate the relationship before turning to medications. Also is there a Gardner or Plumber or Milkman near?
i've heard the same about topical test creams. but before using any form of medication. suggest some new things in bed, such as some different "toys"
This all sounds like a load. I mean most of the guys on this board are big and muscular... in my skinnier less muscular days my wife was frigid a lot but since I been doing roids and getting built up, my wife is just all over me... sometimes I have to beg for her to let me rest and give me a break... I mean night after night she rides me, doing all the work, gets a load out of me, then she cleans me up and wants to blow for hours, sometimes I can blow a second time but its like honey, I am on deca this time, I cant make so much of the stuff you want, got to give me a break. Anyways we dont need no toys. If you do for the woman, then.... hmmm I would be looking to see if she is checking out other women maybe a little too much, maybe she is not as straight as you'd like her to be. A good straight woman should have no problem on period or off to get plenty horny when her man is all butch and macho with muscles. A woman that likes other women might be one that the more manly and muscular YOU become the more turned OFF she becomes. Or I donno, I know guys from high school that got a divorce because one day the wife came and told him she wants a divorce because she's a lesbian, sorry to ruin your life and not tell you earlier.Quote:
Originally Posted by scotttiger54
I heard viagra works for women too?? Is that true?
bro it was a suggestion for him . i have absolutely no problems or complaints with my sex life. have you ever thought of factors such as age, physical health, etc? there are many factors that can influence a woman's sex drive, you bein married should know how complicated their anatomy is. try not to be to quick to call a man's wife a lesbian or completely deflate what pride he has left.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ntpadude
well thanks to those with real suggestions, and the rest..well I figured I would get some real dumba$$ coments.
f.y.i to those that are serious she visited a new doctor and in conversation HE told her he can tell she is under alot of stress (her job is pretty tough) she was too embaressed to ask about the low drive but stress has a huge effect in sex drive.
been married 8yrs and sex with her is great, but she has always said she doesnt think about it much or need it anywhere near as much as I do.
I will try either the tribulus or the topical cream ( I take it that has to be prescribed?) if so she will have to get the nerve to tell her Doc.
s for the Tribulus or dhea, how much would she take?
I use ultimate nutritions trib, and take 2 a day after a cycle
thanks again