jealousy

**Haggis** · 10-26-2005, 09:47 AM

I'm doing a cycle of now

50mg prop ed
250mg of deca ew

I'm 4 weeks into it and I've known my new girlfriend was going to see a boyband for like a month but only the other day when i realised she's going to be screaming at some pretty boys on a stage did it bother me.

We've had an argument about it now and each person i ask seem's shocked that i see a problem in it, I cant work out if its the gear or if I'd actualy be bothered by it any other time.

I mean imagine your girl screaming paraletically at a bunch of pretty boys on a stage, how does it make you feel? and why's she screaming? I just cant get my head around it, I know she's not going to leave me for one of them or anything but still the thought that she's screaming at them bothers me, I'm jealous and I do feel maybe i shouldnt be, but the more i think about it the more I find fault in it.

I dread to think how it'd make me feel if she said she was going to see some male strippers one day heh.

Opinions ?

Thanks

**shortie** · 10-26-2005, 09:50 AM

Do you go to tittie bars? It is the same deal bro-It's the gear getting to ya, think your way thru it.

RA · 10-26-2005, 09:50 AM

dammit..I read it wrong...

**Dally** · 10-26-2005, 10:15 AM

that is all I'm gonna say.

**ttuprincess** · 10-26-2005, 10:17 AM

your jealus of her going to a concert? thats a bit more of your own insecurities then jealousy... please one girl out of 1000's at a concert i doubt they will notice her, if thats what your worried about... its not the stuff your on, its your own problems

**eGGz** · 10-26-2005, 10:26 AM

Hey, she is obviously attracted to men. Be glad about it. Maybe when she gets back she will jump your bones and imagine you are one of the band members.

**ttuprincess** · 10-26-2005, 10:37 AM

Originally Posted by roidattack

Did I not get this right?? She is going to the concert with another guy??

not what i read but i could be wrong.. and if a guy was going with her to see a boy band he probably isnt interested in her if you get what im saying

**shortie** · 10-26-2005, 10:41 AM

Are you saying most male N'synch fans walk on the other side of the tracks??

Who'd a thunk! LOL

RA · 10-26-2005, 10:42 AM

Originally Posted by ttuprincess

not what i read but i could be wrong.. and if a guy was going with her to see a boy band he probably isnt interested in her if you get what im saying

LMAO!!

**beuleux** · 10-26-2005, 12:02 PM

Originally Posted by eGGz

Maybe when she gets back she will jump your bones and imagine you are one of the band members.

Id take advantage of that bro and give her a good nailing before she dumps your sorry ass for being such a control freak

**GoldieTheMack** · 10-26-2005, 12:29 PM

Unless you're planning to discuss roid rage regarding this boyband and beating on your woman, this is in the wrong forum.

Oh, and it's just a concert dude, she's not going to Chippendales. Get a grip, and some self esteem.

**magic32** · 10-26-2005, 12:46 PM

Originally Posted by GoldieTheMack

Unless you're planning to discuss roid rage regarding this boyband and beating on your woman, this is in the wrong forum.

Oh, and it's just a concert dude, she's not going to Chippendales. Get a grip, and some self esteem.

LOL!!!!

If he can't handle a concert where the guys are way up on stage, he better keep her away from the gym. With the predators we have...

...she'd be lunch!

M.

**marqui678** · 10-26-2005, 12:50 PM

Why worry?? Unless you catch her ****ing another guy, why waste the energy to worry about it.

**SEBASTOP** · 10-26-2005, 01:13 PM

Originally Posted by Haggis

I'm doing a cycle of now

50mg prop ed
250mg of deca ew

I mean imagine your girl screaming paraletically at a bunch of pretty boys on a stage, how does it make you feel? and why's she screaming?
Opinions ?

Thanks

Just one. Don't expect women to make sense to you. They won't. And we probably don't make sense to them. Women cry when they are happy and they cry when they are sad. Go figure. So to try to figure out why they scream at a concert is beyond male reasoning.

**Haggis** · 10-26-2005, 01:39 PM

Originally Posted by GoldieTheMack

Unless you're planning to discuss roid rage regarding this boyband and beating on your woman, this is in the wrong forum.

Forum elitism, love it cheers.

Anyway I know its totally stupid but for like 20 minutes or so it'd get in my head, wind me up then I'd be over it, its just nothings ever bothered me in this way before and I didnt want to start blaming every little feeling i get on the gear with out some opinions.

Its probably a combination of my shock of her terrible music taste and a bit of jealousy caused by the gear and at her screaming at some mincer on a stage.

Heh anyway cheers for the replies

**big_C** · 10-26-2005, 01:56 PM

How old is she..14? I have never met a boyband fan over 14...it's just a show bro, those little fags on stage are pulling way better bitches than your girl, beleive me...i think your safe!! Now, any REAL questions??

**stupidhippo** · 10-26-2005, 02:23 PM

IMO if u think ur mature enough to do gear u should be mature nuff to control ur mind even if u do FEEL jealous. Ur brain is still working and u have to know this is dumb from ur side ... deal with it and if u cant dump the gear.. and if that doenst help see a shrink..

**Haggis** · 10-26-2005, 02:26 PM

Yeh i should get off the gear, since I started she's refusing to swallow since it tastes bad.

Heh and I think some of you may be taking this more seriously than I had intended with it

**stompin** · 10-26-2005, 02:33 PM

i thought i was a jelious person

j/k bro

***D7M*** · 10-26-2005, 03:13 PM

Originally Posted by GoldieTheMack

Unless you're planning to discuss roid rage regarding this boyband and beating on your woman, this is in the wrong forum.

Oh, and it's just a concert dude, she's not going to Chippendales. Get a grip, and some self esteem.

I second that! It's not the gear (you're running that much anyway!)....it's you!

**Haggis** · 10-26-2005, 03:17 PM

Yeh i know I'm totally mad, if she goes again I'm gonna stab her!

**ttuprincess** · 10-26-2005, 08:59 PM

Originally Posted by Haggis

Yeh i know I'm totally mad, if she goes again I'm gonna stab her!

WTF? if you dont trust her to go out without you ... YOU HAVE ISSUES!

**goose** · 10-26-2005, 09:04 PM

PLEASE

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goose4.....

**operationgetbig** · 10-26-2005, 09:11 PM

i would post this topic in the AR lounge

**RJstrong** · 10-26-2005, 09:19 PM

If she was to ever read this and was smart... she would run like hell from you and never look back.

**Lavinco** · 10-26-2005, 09:20 PM

dude you are gonna so lose her by trying to control her. Jealosy shows insecurity and no woman wants an insecure guy.

Most guys have thoughts about what their g/f's might be doing when they are not around but don't dwell on it. It will drive you nuts and certainly push her away.

I am totally the opposite of you. When I lift, I feel like all the ladies want me, a secure feeling, and if she ****s up and does some stupid shit, I did'nt have to waste hours of worrying, it tells me that I don't want that bitch anyways and I will quickly move on.

**Dalton5** · 10-27-2005, 02:49 PM

Originally Posted by Haggis

Yeh i know I'm totally mad, if she goes again I'm gonna stab her!

I recomend getting your head checked.......and possibly growing some ballz if your jealous of someone like nick carter.

**ScottyShotty** · 10-27-2005, 03:02 PM

No it could be the gear. I'm on test and when my girl said a guy on tv was cute, I punched 3 holes in the wall and smashed the tv. Thats that end of that!

**timvds** · 10-27-2005, 03:07 PM

Bet that wall had it comin to it though huh?

**Dalton5** · 10-27-2005, 03:08 PM

Originally Posted by ScottyShotty

No it could be the gear. I'm on test and when my girl said a guy on tv was cute, I punched 3 holes in the wall and smashed the tv. Thats that end of that!

Are you serious?

**timvds** · 10-27-2005, 03:08 PM

Originally Posted by ScottyShotty

No it could be the gear. I'm on test and when my girl said a guy on tv was cute, I punched 3 holes in the wall and smashed the tv. Thats that end of that!

That was the end of what... your sanity?

**ScottyShotty** · 10-27-2005, 03:11 PM

Originally Posted by timvds

That was the end of what... your sanity?

Yeah shes never leaving the house either!!!!!!!!!

**Phreak101** · 10-27-2005, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by ScottyShotty

when my girl said a guy on tv was cute, I punched 3 holes in the wall and smashed the tv

It's a good thing she didn't say her gynocologist was cute...

**timvds** · 10-27-2005, 03:21 PM

Originally Posted by ScottyShotty

Yeah shes never leaving the house either!!!!!!!!!

LOL, Freak!

**timvds** · 10-27-2005, 03:22 PM

Originally Posted by Phreak101

It's a good thing she didn't say her gynocologist was cute...

He would have been like...

**Smedman101** · 10-27-2005, 03:34 PM

Originally Posted by timvds

He would have been like...

This thread is crackin me up

**Dalton5** · 10-27-2005, 04:12 PM

Originally Posted by ScottyShotty

No it could be the gear. I'm on test and when my girl said a guy on tv was cute, I punched 3 holes in the wall and smashed the tv. Thats that end of that!

At least you wouldnt get any gyp-rock in your eyes with those awesome safety goggles you wear.

**timvds** · 10-27-2005, 04:19 PM

Originally Posted by Dalton5

At least you wouldnt get any gyp-rock in your eyes with those awesome safety goggles you wear.

**tripmachine** · 10-27-2005, 04:25 PM

Originally Posted by Lavinco

dude you are gonna so lose her by trying to control her. Jealosy shows insecurity and no woman wants an insecure guy.

Most guys have thoughts about what their g/f's might be doing when they are not around but don't dwell on it. It will drive you nuts and certainly push her away.

I am totally the opposite of you. When I lift, I feel like all the ladies want me, a secure feeling, and if she ****s up and does some stupid shit, I did'nt have to waste hours of worrying, it tells me that I don't want that bitch anyways and I will quickly move on.

^^^^^^
Excellent advice!!! That helps me out a lot as well... makes me open my eyes. Thanks a lot for that post, I mean it!

-j0sh