I'm in trouble with the GF!

Hi everybody,
I need some help! I had sent an email to my girlfriend, that I want to recover before she reads it. I thought she had blown me off a few times, but it turns out she was really sick in the end. I had essentially broken up with her in an email, but I still want to stay with her. I have probably three days to get ride of the break-up email before she reads it. How can I get into her email to discard this? It's a hotmail acount. Is there anything I can do?

please pm me if anyone has any ideas! Otherwise I'm going to be in real big trouble!

Thanks.

just simply get her password and log in to her account....

oh man youre screwed! j/k. lilvito is right, only sure way is to get her password and log on. or try to attempt to answer her secret question to get the password. oher than that you may try to contact hotmail but i'd doubt if they would even entertain you since accessing another email address whether its your girlfriend, mom etc etc is illegal.

I have no-idea of what her email password is, or the answer to her secrect question. Man am I ever screwed! Hotmail is not able to do anything, I really need to get the email stopped or something. Is there anything I can do to get her password? I don't know what to do at this point... I don't want to lose her over some miscomunication. If I could block it, or prevent her from reading it some how...

Thanks for any ideas.

Didnt they make a movie about this? Just borrow your friends car. Drive cross country encountering numerous obsticals that would never happen in real life and then at the very last second, when she goes to read her email, all the power goes out frying her computer and saving you from a break up.
Thats my advice. Hope it helps.

Send her another email saying sorry.
Or send her another email saying the first one is a virus that your friend sent out and if she opens it, her computer will be wiped out.

well if its hotmail or yahoo i think if u just keep trying to log in it will freeze the account for 24 hours at least it will buy u more time

Nah ,don't do that, you'll end up getting yourself in deeper ****. Just tell her that you changed your mind, you were out of your f'in head, make something up and kiss her ass and be as romantic as possible and hopefully she will get over it and you'll stay together. But unless you know her password you might end up screwing things up worse.... IMO

dont tell her that you accidentally sent her a virus, it makes it suspicious. Telling her a lie not gonna make it better, just tell her that you were in upset mood but you changed your mind after you thought about your relationship, buy her a dozen roses with a apology note attached.

Bermich says it right

call her today and tell you got a virus. tell her to delete all emails from you without opening them or she will get the virus.

Broke up with her in a email???

You're kidding right??? Not exactly cool...

anyway

Afraid to say you're probably screwed on this
one unless you know how to hack into a Yahoo
or Hotmail account as they are the easiest to
hack into and hopefully that is what she uses
for her email...

Man, don't try nothing but the truth...Just explain what you thought was up, for whatever reason you thought it. You are human and you do make mistakes, you know. After all miscommunication is the reason they call it miscommunication, isn't it? If all else fails and worse comes to worst...you can always say it was a stupid joke done by a friend/sent accidently? If she's a woman and has it in her, she does know men can do :banana: stupid things at stupid times.

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Originally Posted by adamw1

well if its hotmail or yahoo i think if u just keep trying to log in it will freeze the account for 24 hours at least it will buy u more time

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Not true , it will freeze the account from you trying again and again but if the person that owns the account comes in and uses the correct password it will open right up for them...

Hope you get it worked out with your girl, but very uncool to dump someone over the net , should have called her or at least faced her (face to face) to do something like that. My suggestion would be to tell her the truth, explain to her your reasoning behind the email and she MIGHT understand why you done this in the first place.

Good luck
-LL

I know I'm a dumb idiot, and should never have thought about dumping her in an email. I thought she might be cheating on me, and was very pissed at the time. In the end, she wasn't and I was just paranoid. It may come across that I don't trust her now. Man am I ever in deep ****! I'm still going to try and get into her email acount to get rid of the email, as well as trying to come up with a back-up plan. I like the virus email idea, that might work. If it doesn't though, I'm in deeper than ever.

Just be honest brotha... Believe it or not in a case like
this it may just work... Just explain to her like you did
with us right here... You made a mistake and you're
sorry... Not like you cheated on her or anything, just
step up to the plate... Most women can respect that...

yeah you're screwed, maybe next time you wont make assumptions...

Grovel!!!!! Thats all there is to it... knowing you, you'll delete it and forget to delete it from the recently deleted file and BAM she sees it.. J/K I dont know you.. so I dont know if you'll do that or not...

But seriosly.. GROVEL!!! go all out... 1st call and say.. Before you read that email.. please meet me and let me explain someting to you! Take her out/or make her a very nice EXPENSIVE ROMANTIC dinner.. roses (I suggest a dozen), teddy bear, some kind of neglige, candy and a card (YES I KNOW IM SPOILED!!!!)

If she knows you juice (Im assumeing you do) tell her your coming off your winter bulker and it was the clomid talking! (Maybe some tears right here would help). And that you were so emotionally distraught that you could not think correctly!

DO NOT break into her e-mail... stupid move right there...

Good luck... and next time, call, visit or something BEFORE you log on in a rage!

The Princess

The virus idea seems best.

probably to late now huh?...if your're using outlook...you can recall unread messages to people you send to...It basically deletes them from their inbox and replaces it with a text message saying that the email has been recalled. If your using hotmail or yahoo...I doubt they have that feature...try searching google for info on how to recall messages. Still probably a little too late.

:lol: you dumbas$!! j/k bro... yeah, you need to get her password.. try to guess it. either that or just let her read it then hit your knees and start begging for forgivness

Just tell her the truth bro...If she still cares and maybe loves you...She'll forgive you. Of course, that doesn't mean you have some major sucking up to do as well as maybe a nice dinner/flowers/etc...but do what you gotta do.

just tell her one of your buddies was just messing around

ft-

go to hackers forums and ask for help, hotmail is easy to break :)

I figured i would just bump this old ass thread since people keep replying to it anyways. i really have nothing to add to the pot. It has been over 2 weeks since his original post ad if he hasnt come to a solution than he is single by now.

Nice avatar abstrack! Dude never ever show any women that you are insecure of her screwing on you. With that said call her tell her what was on your mind and dont ever show jealousy, insecure feelings or half assed ussumptions again! Just trying to help

He had 3 days 2 weeks ago to get the email......

i guess she said piss off........ cause we don't have an outcome from him.........

LMAO @ this thread!

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Originally Posted by buff87

Broke up with her in a email???

You're kidding right??? Not exactly cool...

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word...call her before she reads the email and explain!

the best way to get peeps info from personal computers it to use a key logger, in your case its to late to put one on, since when she logs on to the computer she will probably check her email before you even get the password from the key logger - almost all the women here say you should tell the truth, although i like the virus one the best - the only thing wrong with the virus one is if she checks the email at public place like a school or library, then she will probably open it for sure. You could also send her like 40 of the same emails all saying "i love you" and hopefully she gets sick of reading the same message after the 20th one and just deletes the rest of your emails - the problem with this one is that if she wants to show her friends how sweet you are by showing them all the "i love u" emails and gets to the 41st email, which is the "i hate u", then your in trouble and i'm just confused.
Tell the truth do what the ladies say they should now whats better
good luck
ignore what i said since its been two weeks

Just face the fact that ur fu*ked and send her round to mine

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Originally Posted by Chemical King

Just face the fact that ur fu*ked and send her round to mine

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This happened over 8 months ago. I don't think he needs anymore advice on it.

Look man, in a lond lasting relationship, there will be ALL kinds of things going on at different times in your life. therefore, honesty and communication is the main thing.

1- You were an asshole for breaking up with her....via e-mail
2- You are still being an asshole for trying to find ways to cover it up
3- you underestimate her by not being willing to share with her what happen

So, DO TALK WITH HER "BEFORE" she opens your asshole e-mail and just say......hey, remember those days when you were sick and I did not hear from you at all: well, I got really upset with the idea of lossing you and i sent this stupit e-mail that at the end, I did not mean to.....

I could have tried to retrieve the e-mail, etc, but....i feel that honesty is very important (even though we all know that you ARE a smuck that DID try to cover it up)

At the end, I am sorry to tell ypou but 3 things will take place:
1- she will give you a hard time WHICH, you deserve, but will move on
2- she will be un-flexible, in which case either you are better off without
3- or, whe will be unflexible, but only due to the fact that you are not treating her right, in which case, you deserve it, so that you can learn and be a better man next time.

Give her a call right now, if you can see her in person, do it now, if she is in a different city, etc, talk to her asap

why dont u try to get her B friend or friends to delete it for u. girls always share email accounts and stuff like that GOOD luck