I realy need some help

**PaRiS2005** · 11-07-2004, 01:37 AM

This girl obviously doesn't know what the hell she wants...in my opinion she wants to keep you on a leash for her every beck and call...not the way to go man. I say continue seein what she wants out of y'alls relationship and if she's not gonna make a valid effort to try to work things out and quit the mind games than y'all need to be apart until she can get her sh!t together...

**seanw** · 11-07-2004, 02:33 AM

Man if that is her in your Avatar I'd be ripping the thong off and showing her who is boss. There aint nothing worse than being pussy wipped and you are. Get rid of her, she is bad news.

**Hardball1783** · 11-07-2004, 07:46 AM

No that is not her in my Avatar that is this one girl i used to date but she moved to Texas with her family. She was not only hot, and a nice body but see was a good girl that would do anything i asked her to do. The type u want to marry and have kids with. She had only been with one guy before i meet her and then it was two with me. She cared about me and my family,and her own family. But anyway my ex called me when she got of from work and we were talking for about 10 min and she was telling me how she hates her job and i said well who likes to work in a Hospital and she said it is a Nurseing home, I said they are pretty much the same thing and she got mad because i kept saying they were the same thing and said " WELL I GOT TO GO BECAUSE U ARE GETING ME MAD" and she hung up.

**SwoleCat** · 11-07-2004, 07:53 AM

I'd put her on IGNORE from here on out.

Just not worth all of this energy on your part, IMHO.

~SC~

**Hardball1783** · 11-07-2004, 07:59 AM

U got a point,now that i have got better from having the flu and the whole thing with the ex-girl i have been training harder and eating real good thanks alot bros. Swole u have been alot of help on my diet along with everbody else so i want to thank u guys.

**Hardball1783** · 11-07-2004, 05:07 PM

Starting back on my cardio strong on monday, and all that worry i had over the weekend i will put it aside and think of me and my family, also friends. Then i will worry about what is going to happen with me and my ex-girl, but for now training is first. I am going to lose that weight and make my goal.

**Panzerfaust** · 11-07-2004, 07:36 PM

IGNORE her!

Train your ass off and start seeing other women. You will thank me in the end.

**Hardball1783** · 11-07-2004, 10:08 PM

Thanks bro, speak of the devil she just called me while she was driving home she said that she was tired and of course she had her attudie ( sorry for spelling) any way she said what are u doing and i said was looking out my windoe from my bedroom and she said at what. I was looking at Natty Bo, there is a big ass picture on the roof of him on the houseing complex across from my house. She said who is that i said he makes beer. Then i said why u did not know who that was and she got smart with me and the said she was getting of the phone. I told her to call me back when she grows up and know how to talk to people and she got mad and hung up. But anyway its cool like i said there are other things inportant then her so i will take care of them.

**NotSmall** · 11-08-2004, 12:50 AM

Sounds like you're turning a corner buddy, take charge, good stuff!

**Hardball1783** · 11-08-2004, 09:22 AM

Yup i am taking charge just got back from do cardio. I was at the gym at 7 am and did cardio for 45 min and i also woked my abs. Then went to the market to get some chicken and other things.

**Hardball1783** · 11-09-2004, 02:01 PM

So waz up guys life seems better now i have been staying busy and not realy thinking about her. I am ready to go to the gym in like a half hour or so. Doing (back/ Bicp) it should be good. Talk to u later.

**SwoleCat** · 11-09-2004, 04:01 PM

Good stuff!

~SC~

**dalcowbag** · 11-09-2004, 05:45 PM

daaaaaaamn straight bro, good sh!t

dcb

**Hardball1783** · 11-09-2004, 06:38 PM

waz up guys man i am so fed up with my ex she called me up about 10 min ago and started to argue with me and i said i am tired of ur bullsh*t, and she called me a loser i said to her u are and she hung up so i called her back and this dumb ass girl picks up that she is with in class and says she dont want to talk to u i said put her on the phone and i dont want to talk to ur little clown ass and i dont even know u so why are u answering my calls off of her phone. Then my ex gets on the phone and starts going on about me taking juice and all that while she is in class and shes told me that she is going to tell my mom and some other people that i jucie up. So what should i do. I am going to say i dont know what she is talking about and play it off. What do u guys think.

**SwoleCat** · 11-09-2004, 06:41 PM

Why did u answer?

That's the thing.......she knows you'll bite on her line, hook-line-sinker.

Wish I could help, but the only advice I have is to NOT TALK TO HER. Calling her back after arguing "loser, no you are a loser" etc., ain't going to get it done.

I really can't think of what to tell ya bruh.........

~SC~

**Hardball1783** · 11-09-2004, 06:52 PM

What should i do about the jucie that i have and what should i do if she tells people about me taking jucie and all that.

**NotSmall** · 11-10-2004, 12:52 AM

It really sucks bro but I think you've put yourself in the position where, if you think she will go through with it, you have no option but to, apologise, kiss her a$$ and ask her not to tell. Like I say it's a horrible option but I can't think what else you can do now. You just have to say something like: "I'm so sorry things got so fvcked up between us, if I said anything nasty to you it's only because I care about you so passionately. If you ever cared about me at all please don't tell everyone that I use steroids ." She will undoubtedly use the opportunity to make you eat sh1t but I can't see what else you can do unless you're ready for her to tell people.
If it does come to her telling people I would take a leaf from the politicians handbook and admit a little and deny all else, i.e. "I did try it once, just tablets mind you - I would never inject myself, but then I thought about all the health risks and realised what I was doing to my body and flushed the rest of my two week course down the toilet." People always think 'there's no smoke without fire' so by admitting to a small fvck up it gives the rest of your denial credibility.
Once this episode dies down FOR GOD'S SAKE STAY AWAY FROM THIS GIRL!

**Hardball1783** · 11-10-2004, 09:17 AM

it all cool i talked to her today and she said that she is not going to say anything about that to anyone, she was just mad yesterday and she said those things. But it is all cool now so thats good.

**NotSmall** · 11-10-2004, 10:02 AM

Yeah, it's all good until the next time she gets angry. If I were you I would distance myself from this girl. JMO.

**Panzerfaust** · 11-10-2004, 12:23 PM

Originally Posted by Hardball1783

waz up guys man i am so fed up with my ex she called me up about 10 min ago and started to argue with me and i said i am tired of ur bullsh*t, and she called me a loser i said to her u are and she hung up so i called her back and this dumb ass girl picks up that she is with in class and says she dont want to talk to u i said put her on the phone and i dont want to talk to ur little clown ass and i dont even know u so why are u answering my calls off of her phone. Then my ex gets on the phone and starts going on about me taking juice and all that while she is in class and shes told me that she is going to tell my mom and some other people that i jucie up. So what should i do. I am going to say i dont know what she is talking about and play it off. What do u guys think.

You moron, we have told you to IGNORE her! How hard is that to understand, now you are farked as she is gonna talk all kinds of **** about gear etc...(If she even mentioned it, don't trust her to think she won't talk)You dug your whole, lay in it!

**NotSmall** · 11-10-2004, 12:29 PM

Originally Posted by muriloninja

You moron, we have told you to IGNORE her! How hard is that to understand, now you are farked as she is gonna talk all kinds of **** about gear etc...(If she even mentioned it, don't trust her to think she won't talk)You dug your whole, lay in it!

The thing is bro it is easy to give good advice from an outside perspective. When you're all fvcked up over a girl you still know what is the right thing to do but it aint always that easy.

**Hardball1783** · 11-10-2004, 01:40 PM

U know that from now on i will not talk to her on have anything to do with her. I am starting as of now. Fu*k her i am not playing her little games anymore i told her that on the phone a little more and that was it. If we see each other out then we will speak and all that but i am done with her and all the BS i got from her it is final.And that is for sure.

**Hardball1783** · 11-10-2004, 01:40 PM

U know that from now on i will not talk to her on have anything to do with her. I am starting as of now. Fu*k her i am not playing her little games anymore i told her that on the phone a little more and that was it. If we see each other out then we will speak and all that but i am done with her and all the BS i got from her it is final.And that is for sure.

**Hardball1783** · 11-10-2004, 01:42 PM

I am done with her for good and that is final, I told her on the phone today.

**Hardball1783** · 11-10-2004, 06:11 PM

Sorry about the the same post being there twice but i hit the quick reply twice.

**dalcowbag** · 11-10-2004, 08:05 PM

HELL YES BRO. . .what an inspirational thread hehe

DCB

**Hardball1783** · 11-13-2004, 12:07 PM

She still trys to call me but i dont pick up, then she came down to my house, and i let her in at the point she started kissing me and then we had sex but it was hard because i hurt my foot and it is hard to stand so l layed on the bed and she got on top. LOL after that she got dressed and we ate then she left. This **** happened today and it was kind of weird. Dont know but it was good.

**josh8416** · 11-13-2004, 10:58 PM

i hate mind games, its like highschool all over again. good luck though bro!

**seanw** · 11-14-2004, 07:19 AM

Originally Posted by Hardball1783

She still trys to call me but i dont pick up, then she came down to my house, and i let her in at the point she started kissing me and then we had sex but it was hard because i hurt my foot and it is hard to stand so l layed on the bed and she got on top. LOL after that she got dressed and we ate then she left. This **** happened today and it was kind of weird. Dont know but it was good.

So "Days of Our Lives" continues. God I love this thread

. Ok so now that you dumped her then fukked her, what the hell are you going to do now ? Personally I would continue the dumpung process, at least you are getting plenty of pussy that way

**Hardball1783** · 11-14-2004, 01:44 PM

Lol LOL, i might just keep it like that. She has not called me because she thinks that i will call her but i am not i want to see how see is going to act now that i am acting like i dont care, but i still do care for her but with the BS that she does it makes me want to distance myself from her. But love hurts in many ways.

**NotSmall** · 11-17-2004, 10:22 AM

Originally Posted by Hardball1783

No that is not her in my Avatar that is this one girl i used to date but she moved to Texas with her family. She was not only hot, and a nice body but see was a good girl that would do anything i asked her to do. The type u want to marry and have kids with. She had only been with one guy before i meet her and then it was two with me. She cared about me and my family,and her own family.

Is that really your ex-girl in your avatar?
I only ask because some other dude in England has that exact same picture as his avatar, you weren't lying now were you?

**Hardball1783** · 11-17-2004, 10:33 AM

No, I was not he copied my pic off of my avatar and saved it as his. Its cool just a pic he wanted the pic so he took it fine with me. But ya she was my ex. She is nice looking ha.

**NotSmall** · 11-17-2004, 10:55 AM

Hmmm... OK bro but what is the fvcked up looking caption at the bottom right?

**Hardball1783** · 11-17-2004, 10:59 AM

She has a web cam on the internet that is live but u have to pay to see her. She e-mailed that pic of her to me.

**NotSmall** · 11-17-2004, 11:04 AM

Originally Posted by Hardball1783

She was not only hot, and a nice body but see was a good girl that would do anything i asked her to do. The type u want to marry and have kids with. She had only been with one guy before i meet her and then it was two with me. She cared about me and my family,and her own family.

Sounds like a nice girl, and now she has a webcam and you can pay to see her live?
Doing what exactly?

**jimmyivory** · 11-17-2004, 11:50 AM

I'm callin BS man, that's Kate from Kate's Playground and she's from Canada. Any dedicated porn surfer knows that. If I'm wrong I apologize, but I'd put $50 down right now on it.

As for your ex, I can sympathize 'cause my I'm still a little ****ed up over one of mine from way back who came back into my life. She's nutty as hell but she sure is cute and fun. Sounds like you playing hard to get have turned the tables on her, so that's probably what she wants instead of you being a pushover telling her you still want her. A lot of people only want what they can't have.

-j

**Hardball1783** · 11-17-2004, 12:39 PM

Sorry to burst ur buble but her name is CIA and she is from baltimore. She does what ever u want on the web cam as long as u join or pay a fee to view her. Also thats why she moved and thats why i broke up with her because i found out that she was doing things behind my back. So much for the nice girl act. But its all good life moves on. Thats all there is to it.