test level and sex drive

I posted my lab results a couple of hours ago in the steriod question room, let me just repeat what my test level was as of last friday my Doc told me my total test level was 31,912 ng/dl. I want to fu** all the time. By the way Im 36 y.o ,as i said I want sex all the time now but not with my wife. I have not cheated on her but after 11 years of with each other, God I want to just have some thing different. ANy one have any thoughts on how to re kindel the desire for a long time mate who you love but just want to f*** every other women that comes along. I dont want to lose my wife or kids over this but my head(ha ha) is thinking other things.Your thoughts and advice welcomed.

My advice, go out and buy some porn. You'll never forgive yourself for cheating on her, especially when you've been together for that long and there are kids involved. Think about it, your going to hurt your kids too, not just your wife, and I'm sure you love your kids too much. The problem with cheating and getting caught is that if you nail some hot chick thats good in bed, you want it more and more, and sooner or later you'll go do it again and get caught. Then you'll probably go on Jerry or Maury Povich, and who wants that??

Also, after 11 years, you've probably done almost everything you can to make it new and exciting, there isnt much left, go to the porn shop my man

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Originally Posted by stayinstacked

Also, after 11 years, you've probably done almost everything you can to make it new and exciting, there isnt much left, go to the porn shop my man

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sounds like some good advice! You are right I love my kids so much and realy dont want to hurt my wife, so if any one has a good site send a recomendation. One last thing if I got caught looking at porn my wife might just consider this cheating as well, I geuss I just have to deal with things as they are. Thanks again

I say find a nice little young lady for a discreet relationship and f**k your brains out.

If you weren't having these thoughts before you started the cycle, think long and hard before you do something irreversible. This may simply be the test talking. It makes me feel the same way. Wait till you get off cycle before you make any decisions.

thanks bro

Cheating can cost you your Wife, Kids, Home and most everything you have....if it's worth it go ahead!

Rocket

i know how you feel, when im on test i hit up on just about anything with a fine body. it makes my mouth water just thinking about sticking a different women. and yes i have kids too and a fiance, but i just take it out on the fiance, i like to go down on her for awhile and just concentrate on the Pusse.

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i know how you feel, when im on test i hit up on just about anything with a fine body. it makes my mouth water just thinking about sticking a different women. and yes i have kids too and a fiance, but i just take it out on the fiance, i like to go down on her for awhile and just concentrate on the Pusse.

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yeah i know it would coast me my world just to f*** something new and I dont want to risk my kids, but God these level of test can realy "test" you.

Buy your lady a few wigs.

Benches loan him some or the wigs you an Maraxus share :lol:

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Benches loan him some or the wigs you an Maraxus share :lol:

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Thats funny guys. We have done it all over the course of the years if i only at one food all the time i would grow very tired but if it ment my life I geuss i would stick with that one food and dream of fudge sundays.

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I posted my lab results a couple of hours ago in the steriod question room, let me just repeat what my test level was as of last friday my Doc told me my total test level was 31,912 ng/dl. I want to fu** all the time. By the way Im 36 y.o ,as i said I want sex all the time now but not with my wife. I have not cheated on her but after 11 years of with each other, God I want to just have some thing different. ANy one have any thoughts on how to re kindel the desire for a long time mate who you love but just want to f*** every other women that comes along. I dont want to lose my wife or kids over this but my head(ha ha) is thinking other things.Your thoughts and advice welcomed.

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weigh out your options if loosing everythign u have gained uptill now is less than cheating than , go ahead n cheat , if u cherish what u have then consider a sacrifice , and patience my friend always pays off ! :lift:

i've gone through this same crap. while on TEST i can't even step out on a windy day.
After a few months off my cycle my drive slowed down and my wife was happy as hell.
at the time she had asked me to seek help ...(not another woman)

Just wait until PCT, you will be fine. You dont what to loose a family for a few minutes of fun:) Or hour. I gaurantee when you are done you would feel like scum if you did cheat on her. Rub a couple out in the day get some porn and let it be. Once you hit PCT you will forget about sex for a while.

I think that the test acts like a catalyst. It takes little things that annoy you at home and makes them into big things. You could try to make this a positive experience by figuring out what is going on in your head ( boredom, feeling unappreciated, anger, unresolved conflict) then consider counseling when your levels normalize and you can think straight.

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I think that the test acts like a catalyst. It takes little things that annoy you at home and makes them into big things. You could try to make this a positive experience by figuring out what is going on in your head ( boredom, feeling unappreciated, anger, unresolved conflict) then consider counseling when your levels normalize and you can think straight.

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Thats why I love this board ,people are always here to help. Thanks all.cj

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Originally Posted by cj1capp

I posted my lab results a couple of hours ago in the steriod question room, let me just repeat what my test level was as of last friday my Doc told me my total test level was 31,912 ng/dl. I want to fu** all the time. By the way Im 36 y.o ,as i said I want sex all the time now but not with my wife. I have not cheated on her but after 11 years of with each other, God I want to just have some thing different. ANy one have any thoughts on how to re kindel the desire for a long time mate who you love but just want to f*** every other women that comes along. I dont want to lose my wife or kids over this but my head(ha ha) is thinking other things.Your thoughts and advice welcomed.

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.... she might be saying no.. but she wants you to take her and treat her like a dirty little whore..

that way she can say... the big bad man made her do it..

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.... she might be saying no.. but she wants you to take her and treat her like a dirty little whore..

that way she can say... the big bad man made her do it..

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sounds like a fun game , when the kids go to their grand parents this weekend,were going to play this one .

My lady walked and read this thread over my shoulder. She suggested that you read the book "The French Maid". By talking with your partner and developing a strong fantasy life you can breath life into sex life.
My lady started it with saying one night "I want two men at the same time" and let me tell you, it was game on for me. Ever since then we have some wild ass fantasy talk. To date we have not acted on anything but it sure has improved our time together.
Bottomline, stepping out on your marriage will not satisfy in the long term.:unsure:
This is just my experience and of course I could be wrong.

ITS THE TEST--im on my first cycle and im going thru the roof,
between heavy workloads,juggling 2 small ones, trying to eat right,
work-out with intensity, and now im the walking hard-on, just what i needed
and the wifey is a social butterfly/part-time student, here i sit at the computer
with tonights big choice--HMMMMM JENNA JAMISON OR someone new,LoL

whatcha gonna do bro---wait til after pct to bust a move

HOPE IT WORKS OUT

KILLLLLLLLLAAAAAAAAA

instead of cheatn ask her to join the swinging lifesyle - lol, at least you wont be cheatn never mend i just read the date, i guess i am like 3months behind - sorry

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instead of cheatn ask her to join the swinging lifesyle - lol, at least you wont be cheatn never mend i just read the date, i guess i am like 3months behind - sorry

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i agree try swinging wow what a lifesyle, nothing like a bit of girl on girl i say :wg:

just have your wife give you head while watching porn and pretend she is someone else! ha ha! dont cheat thought becuase it wont be worth it in the end! unless shes ****en like carmen electra or some chic like that!

I've been married 20 years just started the test and I have the same problem, with the want ing to fu** all the time. Me and the wife went out and shopped forsex toys and sexy undergarments, crotchless panties, garters, g-strings. I lay her clothes out and come home from work and fu** her brains outand shes loving it! We are both 44years young