who knows of any, i sure could use some, hook it up bros, i know rubbing one out before getting any helps but thats about it. :banana:
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who knows of any, i sure could use some, hook it up bros, i know rubbing one out before getting any helps but thats about it. :banana:
Well i can give you a few tips... For one deff try not to get to into the sex or your finished. Avoid staring into the girls eyes or face. Try to think of something else, like how much you hate your boss or how much you hate school etc. Also if its possible change positions when to start to get close. Hope these could help. Busting premature is all a mental game bro, when you can conquer your mind, longevity is just around the corner.
just like women have Kegals.. a man can exercise the simular muscles..
when you piss... cut off the stream by tightening the muscles.. do this several times.
same muscles...
think about baseball or something.....and the changing positions thing is good, but you might bust the condom easier. just a thought.
ya just gotta relax. the more sex you have, the more comfortable you'll get. beernutz said it well, dont look into the eyes...
Simply tell her:Quote:
Originally Posted by worldknown
"If you don't cum when I cum, you cum when I come back"
:D
~SC~
hahhaha beernutz reminded me of one chick i was messing with, and her eyes rolled into the back of her head, and all i thought was "yeah, im the best fvck she's ever had" .... that cockiness made me go faster and harder, and then made me busy a nut. :banana:
I last long enough to please the only person that matters......me!
that was suppsed to read "bust a nut" not busy ... the edit feature wasn't working for me.
yup i used to look into my X girls eyes until i relized holy$hit this isnt helping... :lol: beware of the eyes that can really make you bust a nut. Especially if the chick has a nice face.Quote:
Originally Posted by Spyder
I think busy a nut is better.
I have no idea why though.
~SC~
Or you could get some of that tooth numming gel and rub it on your nob :lol:
Best line i have ever heard...Quote:
Originally Posted by LORDBLiTZ
Get a desencetising spray(sp) you wont be able to catch a nut for like 2 hours......... its called stud 1000 you can get it in any of the porn shops.....just try and look at the cashier with a straight face...thats when my paranoia shows its ugly head...i swear I can read his mind calling me a 2 pump chump and ****....**** him!!!
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Originally Posted by mass junkie
Is this what you put in your bum, so ron can go to town?? :eek: :wg:
### THE ULTIMATE ORGASM ###
Note: This document is meant to increase your knowledge of human
sexuality. Because everyone is different, a physician must diagnose conditions and supervise the treatment of individual health and sexuality problems. The information here is designed to help you make informed choices about your health. It is not intended as a substitutefor any treatment prescribed by your doctor.
1. Premature Ejaculation
A. What exactly is premature ejaculation?
- Ejaculation that occurs prior to when a man wishes or too
quickly during intercourse to satisfy the partner.
- When most males ejaculate they tend to quickly lose a usableerection for the simple reason that their discharge has
temporarily released a state of elevated sexual tension.
B. What are the causes of premature ejaculation?
- It seems logical that our prehistoric male ancestors were all rapid ejaculators. The Homo Erectus who could couple quickly
with his mate and rapidly reach ejaculation was then free to deal with enemy tribesman and predatory saber-toothed tigers.
The slowpoke got clubbed or eaten. Therefore, only rapid
ejaculators survived long enough to sire descendants. Thus, if speed of ejaculation were hereditary, we all should have fast ejaculatory reflexes.
- Obviously, the above theory cannot be proven; however, it does contain an element of truth. It is probably "natural" for
healthy males to ejaculate quickly. Lasting longer serves no genetic function that we know of.
- Lasting is a learned behavior, like learning to dance. It can prolong and intensify pleasure for a man. Also, many women like to experience orgasm - or have been socially conditioned to
enjoy orgasm - when the erect penis is inside them. To reach orgasm this way often requires periods of more or less continuous stimulation by the penis.
- Premature ejaculation is sometimes also caused or aggravated psychological factors such as guilt, fear, and performance anxiety.
- The first thing a male must hold in mind is that good sex is unhurried sex. The longer he spends in foreplay prior to his
first orgasm, the stronger and more enjoyable that first orgasm will be. The compacting of blood in the sex organs builds
slowly, inflating the tissues and sensitizing the millions of nerve endings in and around the genitals.
- Think of an orgasm like a balloon: the longer you blow air into it, the bigger it gets and the louder the bang when it
pops.
- Orgasm consists of two stages. One begins with the prostate gland, which encircles the urethra like a tiny donut above the base of the penis, contracts and releases its fluids, along with the contents of the seminal vesicle, into the urethra.
To most males this feels like you are going to start a good
sneeze, but it's too late to stop. Stage two is similar to
the sneeze itself. The pelvic muscle contract strongly around the bulb, forcing the fluid out under considerable pressure.
Orgasm is what a man feels when all this is happening. He
has probably learned for himself that it is possible to
ejaculate without having an orgasm, but he may not yet
realize that he can also have an orgasm without ejaculating.
That's exactly what you want to learn to do.
- The average male in his twenties takes less than three
minutes from the time of insertion till he comes. This cheats him of a lot of fun and satisfaction and doubly cheats the
unfortunate female he prematurely has an orgasm into.
C. How do I prevent premature ejaculation from happening?
- The most common treatment of premature ejaculation is to
become more familiar with the feelings and sensations
surrounding the time leading up to ejaculation. By learning to become more familiar with these sensations, you can slowly learn how to predict when the upcoming ejaculation will occur and gain more control over them. This is known as your point of no return.
- If you want to be able to enjoy long periods of intense
pleasure without ejaculation, you need to discover your point of no return. Masturbate and concentrate on you feelings.
There is a point at which you will not be able to control your ejaculation anymore. At that point, as hard as you try, you
cannot stop yourself from ejaculating. You will have to
ejaculate because ejaculation is a reflex: your brain sends
messages through your spinal cord to your sex organs and
orders ejaculation.
- Once you have successfully discovered your point of no return do not let your arousal reach this point. You can either change your position or stop moving.
- Other techniques you may consider are the "stop and start" and the "squeeze" methods.
- The "stop and start" method. When, during thrusting, you feel yourself getting closer, cease all movement and press the pubic bone (under your pubic hair) against your mate's pubic bone, thus pushing your penis in all the way. Then both stop moving.
(Tell her, "Resting time, love.") When the urgency to ejaculate subsides, start thrusting again. Do this several times in a row.
It can also be practiced solo, using your hand instead of a
vagina. A variation of this technique is to make several
voluntary twitching movements of the penis while you are resting.This can be done by rapidly flexing and relaxing the muscles that control the flow of urine. Try to identify this muscle contraction next time that you urinate. This muscle is known as the PC muscle and is described clearly in the Multiple-Orgasm section below.
- The "squeeze technique" method. This method, which has been
proven highly successful in training men to last longer described
in a book by Dr. Herbert E. Vendervoort and Rev. Ted Mcilvenna.
This technique can also be practiced alone during masturbation.
- One stimulates himself until he has had a firm erection for a
while, squeezes, and repeats the process several times. After
several squeezes, one should have much more intense ejaculation
than usual.
- During the no-intercourse period, the couple should explore
one another sensually, caressing one another's bodies with
hands and mouth or by any other means, short of intercourse,
that are pleasurable to both. If the man's penis becomes erect
while his mate is caressing it, she can, at any time that feels
right to her, apply the squeeze to his penis. Preferably this
should take place before the man feels himself on the verge of
ejaculating. IF the women does the squeeze several times at
her discretion, it can become part of her lovemaking technique.
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2. Multiple Orgasms
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- The vast majority of men do not reach sexual maturity with an
ability to enjoy multiple climaxes. This unusual ability is a
talent that must be developed.
- Dr. William E. Hartman, one of the nation's most respected
sex researchers said "The control of the pubococcygeus (PC)
muscle is probably the most simple and the most direct answer
to a man becoming multiply orgasmic."
- The PC is the largest of the muscles in the pelvis. It gets
its weird name from the fact that it stretches from the pubic
bone in front to the coccyx or tailbone in back. In most men
it is a very weak muscle because they use it only when they
come, and they come only infrequently and not powerfully.
The process of strengthening your PC muscle consists of a series
of flexing or tightening the muscle, then trying to hold, so at
the moment of orgasm the male is able to hold back the fluid
and refrain from ejaculating while still having orgasm.
- You need to experiment with it as you approach orgasm by
tightening. The worst that can happen is that you'll ejaculate
, and with continued training you'll no longer slip until you
want to. Why is this beneficial? Well, aside from the obvious
reasons of increased male pleasure, it seems to me that the
male's inability to function over long periods has been on of
the major contributing actors to the poor state of sex in
America. And the fact that he's been taught that he's all
through when he comes, rather than that he could go on
indefinitely. If you simply spend a few minutes a day
exercising the right muscle, then you would doubtlessly have
many grateful partners through the years, rather than having
trouble erecting, coming too fast and so on.
- The two exercises that you will need to be doing to enhance
your sexual power are named "cut-offs" and "Kegels". All males
and females more or less unconsciously perform a few cut-offs
when they are through passing urine and forcefully expel the
last few drops. When you perform a forceful cut-off you are
literally turning off a a faucet; so when the machinery within
your faucet (PC muscle) becomes powerful you will easily be
able to turn it off at the point of orgasm.
- Discharged semen causes a loss of tension, but when the semen
flow is cut off and retained, you can keep your "member in good
standing" and come again and again (without ejaculation).
- Cut-offs will help you identify your PC muscle and become
familiar with its strength. Every time you urinate, stop the
flow forcefully at least six times. The first time you try
this, don't worry if all you can manage is a momentary
interruption in the flow.
- Kegels can be performed anywhere at any time. They consist
of tightening the anal sphincter (rectum) and the muscles at
the base of the penis. When you do a correct Kegel your penis
will move slightly. You are doing Kegels when you have an
erection and you tighten to make your penis move up and down.
- Once you get use to tightening and flexing your PC muscle
there are other ways this can be performed using your
erection and a bath towel; you simple hang the towel over
your erection and forcefully raise and lower your penis from
50 to 100 times. The idea is to give the penis some extra
work to do. As the muscles get stronger, the erection will
get harder, partly from the increased blood supply the
exercise is causing your body to provide. Go slowly at
first, but within a week or 10 days you should be able to
perform 300 forceful Kegels a day and within two months your
muscle will be several times as strong as when you started.
- Kegels can be unobtrusively performed (without an erection)
while walking, sitting or lying down. If you do them with an
erection it's a good idea to hold a warm wet towel or wash
cloth over the top base of the penis afterwards; this soothes
and relaxes the vigorously used attachment muscles.
-Within approximately six weeks after you've begun doing
cut-offs and Kegels daily, you'll be having longer, stronger,
and better orgasms than ever before and closer to both climax
control and the sustained pleasure of multiple orgasms.
Cut-offs will give you the feel of turning off your faucet
and they will enormously benefit your control. The Kegels
will further develop control and your PC; without a powerful
pubococcygeus muscle you cannot hope to become multiorgasmic.
-The male who possesses a really powerful PC can maintain a firm
erection for hours and enjoy more ecstatic orgasms during one
sex episode then most men enjoy in a month. So get started on
this simple sex-strengthening program and turn your female's
fantasies into fact.
good post - another thing that works pretty well is to have her on top first and keep it close - let her cum 3 or 4 times like that then flip her over and put the grind in, still keeping close - she cums another 3 or 4 times - then you can flip her up to doggy or just start hammering - generally you will need to hammer by then to get off - rest..............................rest............ ......repeat cycle a few times if she can still cum (if she can no longer contract, she is pretty much out of the game)
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Originally Posted by CYCLEON
when i come before her i usually donkey punch her so either way she still out of the game.. but they don't call back :frown:
if u jerk off a couple times before banging her ur dick is desensitized
I have a problem of lasting too long. after an hour or more chicks are always like just fuking cum already haha. But my buddy had this problem and his bro told him to eat lots ice cream that same day, apparently it worked. I have no idea why or how but i guess it did.
that was perfectly put, go team donkey punch! :afro:Quote:
Originally Posted by Elliot
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Originally Posted by CYCLEON
a little high on urself obi-won! :wg:
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Originally Posted by Elliot
Bahahahahah!!!! :D
somehow I think you are doubting me but I wasnt trying to be hyperbolic - that is my average experience - youth has its advantages but experience does too :wg:Quote:
Originally Posted by Kato
and besides, I focus on her climaxing, not me - I can do so anytime, thats easy - getting her to break a record...much more fun :D
had to look up hyperbolic. i guess i don't know what to say. bet thats amazin for her/them. 7-8 times, crazy.
once the first one is out of the way, the next ones just seem to get bigger and bigger and BIGGER :D - they have to work on their kegel muscles as well because once they cant contract anymore they are done for awhile - just like when you cant get it up - record so far for her is 12
wait wouldnt that be overtraining?! :lift:Quote:
Originally Posted by spywizard
damm, I thought I was the only one with that **** down pact!Quote:
Originally Posted by CYCLEON
it has to be the LOTR secret powers you command...Quote:
Originally Posted by CYCLEON
ever have one pass out on you ? (yes she was sober) screamed and then passed out..Quote:
Originally Posted by CYCLEON
scared the crap out of me..
no i didn't finish.. but the blowie was great when she came around..
you should have pulled the tony danza to wake her up.Quote:
Originally Posted by spywizard
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Originally Posted by spywizard
:bow1: :bow1: :bow1: --spywizard
Try rubbing one out before, drink a strong cup of Coffee, take an 800mg of ibuprofen, and call me in the morning to let me know what happened. :banana:
dude if i JO before i hook up, then in in her for like 3 hours..lol
Go Donkey punch