Originally Posted by BWhitaker
I consider myself strong in my christian beliefs, however, i completely disagree with things happening for a reason. I have much to say on that topic, but another place another time. However, i have a very strong philosohpy that seems simple but is invaluable to me---Always look to make the situation as positive as it can be, and dont stress over things you can change. You must look at the tori situation and positively as possible realizing that a girl who would do that is not who you want to spend the rest of you life with etc. You must look at the drunk driving accident and realize that there is nothing you can do about it. You must learn from the past, but NEVER dwell on it. Even if something in the past was your fault (which this definately is not) you can do nothing about it, only make amends.
A last piece of advise: People will say fuk girls. But you know what, not all girls are like that. Just like there are men who are cheating little pricks, etc, there will be girls who are the same. Just dont allow yourself to lose trust in people or females.
Good luck, Preservere