Question....does she have kids from another relationship? Do you have kids from anther relationship? Do you WANT kids of your own? Does she WANT to have anymore?
It's probably TOO soon to think about having them....but that's a MAJOR issue when you are dating a woman that is that much older. I have been in that situation 2x and recently got asked out by a guy that was 10 yrs younger. Went to dinner...started talking about kids and he said yes...I want one and I want a girl and her name will be..... I said...well it's been a great evening but before we go any further....this body is NOT producing anymore kids so....before either of us get attached...and I soooo could have.....better we pull chocks NOW.
We are still friends but that's it.
Not trying to rain on the happiness.....but after a year and half dating a guy that I was madly in love with.....it ended......and why???? because I can't/won't go through childbirth and rearing again. My heart still hurts when I see him.....and I don't want to see anyone go through that.
1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!
Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!