hmm what to do

**map200uk** · 01-06-2005, 12:34 AM

hey guys,

wellll, as lame as this sounds there's a girl I realllly like, met her hmm 5 or so weeks ago in the evening back at uni. Anyway everytime she sees me she comes upto me, we speak etc, but for some reason i never bothered to make any further progress (or at least attempt to)!

Ive been thinking about it for a longtime, and spent a longtime talking to a friend about all of this crap, as i was previously unsure if i did like her or not, anyway, i do, i think:P

i just cant figure out what to do, ill *probably* see her on monday at route 66 (club 5mins from uni) but not sure what to do/say....its so much easier when i dont actually like them:P

urgh i really like her, but worry that things wont turn out as id like

well sorry for my normal rambles of crap

map

**seanw** · 01-06-2005, 12:48 AM

Originally Posted by map200uk

hey guys,

wellll, as lame as this sounds there's a girl I realllly like, met her hmm 5 or so weeks ago in the evening back at uni. Anyway everytime she sees me she comes upto me, we speak etc, but for some reason i never bothered to make any further progress (or at least attempt to)!

Ive been thinking about it for a longtime, and spent a longtime talking to a friend about all of this crap, as i was previously unsure if i did like her or not, anyway, i do, i think:P

i just cant figure out what to do, ill *probably* see her on monday at route 66 (club 5mins from uni) but not sure what to do/say....its so much easier when i dont actually like them:P

urgh i really like her, but worry that things wont turn out as id like

well sorry for my normal rambles of crap

map

You will never know if you dont have a go. If it doesnt work out then thats what was meant to be, but you gotta try before you will know. Just ask her out and see what happens, I know its hard for a lot of guy's but suck it up and go for it.

**tbrocato** · 01-06-2005, 12:48 AM

Just get her number. Call her, then ask her out to the movies. That simple.

**map200uk** · 01-06-2005, 12:50 AM

Originally Posted by seanw

You will never know if you dont have a go. If it doesnt work out then thats what was meant to be, but you gotta try before you will know. Just ask her out and see what happens, I know its hard for a lot of guy's but suck it up and go for it.

yea i know thats true man, but i just have this odd feeling that somehow it wont workout how id like it to,which makes me slightly want to not bother

**justin2305** · 01-06-2005, 12:51 AM

go for it for sure agree with every reply so far

**map200uk** · 01-06-2005, 12:51 AM

Originally Posted by tbrocato

Just get her number. Call her, then ask her out to the movies. That simple.

lol you make it sound so easy, and it is when you arent the person doing it:P but like i said i just think somehow itd all go wrong:|

**tbrocato** · 01-06-2005, 12:52 AM

Originally Posted by map200uk

lol you make it sound so easy, and it is when you arent the person doing it:P but like i said i just think somehow itd all go wrong:|

Ah stop being so negative. Why do you think it will all go wrong ?

**map200uk** · 01-06-2005, 12:54 AM

Originally Posted by tbrocato

Ah stop being so negative. Why do you think it will all go wrong ?

Honestly dont know, just have that mindset ya know, everything seems to have gone wrong for me recently so i kinda feel like it just would

**tbrocato** · 01-06-2005, 12:55 AM

Originally Posted by map200uk

Honestly dont know, just have that mindset ya know, everything seems to have gone wrong for me recently so i kinda feel like it just would

Hey, its the new year. Maybe its your lucky day. Yall may end up falling madly in love with each other in a month.

**Latimus** · 01-06-2005, 01:13 AM

whatever you do....dont tell her how much you seem to enjoy animated porn.

lol

**tbrocato** · 01-06-2005, 01:14 AM

Originally Posted by Latimus

whatever you do....dont tell her how much you seem to enjoy animated porn.

lol

AHAHAHAH!

**Sprout** · 01-06-2005, 01:27 AM

would you rather go the rest of your life wondering and having this regret or at least having the satisfaction that you actually tried regardless of the outcome?

**needmorestrength** · 01-06-2005, 11:12 AM

Man if you feel a bit hesitant.. give her your number, that way its on her to call you, tell her you wanna get to know her better and just give her your number, I swear its the best policy

Spyder · 01-06-2005, 11:18 AM

Do you have 'FOR' ... Fear of Rejection?

I am like you ... I can talk to girls I have no interest in all the time, and I come across as the nicest, sweetest guy; but your throw in a chick im into, and i get all self-conscious.

There have been many opportunities in my younger years that I passed up and regret today. Best thing to do man is just approach her and tell her you'd like to take her out sometime "maybe coffee" ... dont blow it up to be a whole nite out, dinner and a movie package. See her reaction. If she goes for it, ask her for her number and tell her you'd give her a call to set it up.

You will be able to tell if she's lying to you by her reaction!!! That's the key here. If she seems enthusiastic, your in. If she's just like "uh, yeah ok" she's jerkin your d1ck. You have nothing to lose man.