Well I have a similar problem, I have been married for twelve years but the relationship is hanging on by a thread at the moment, but because of kids and living circumstances i.e we dont live in our own country anymore, we are staying together. My wife found some Nolvadex in one of my pants pockets (I know, dumb arse). Well she went and looked Nolvadex up on the internet and all she saw was steroids and automatically assumed Nolvadex was steroids. I was in another country at the time, and given her hatred for anything unnatural and the state of our relationship, I told her I was on them for HRT. I actually found a legitimate link that stated this, I emailed it to her but she never believed it. Well she brings it up occassionaly but my attitude is, if she doesnt like it, too bad, its my body and my life.