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Thread: Like Sands thru the Mother****ing Hourglass, so are the days of my life!

  1. 03-11-2005, 07:42 PM #1
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    Like Sands thru the Mother****ing Hourglass, so are the days of my life!

    ****! ****!!!!! She did it again! We went out for dinner , came home, she got an attitude and said "That's it, I'm done, sell the house I'm leaving!"

    I just told her at dinner I didn't feel safe because of this type of behavior. That it was causing me to disconnect. WTF???? Man what should I do? I hate this uncertainty.

    For Swolecat............I also got 8 bitches pregnant!
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    Quote Originally Posted by 1victor
    ****! ****!!!!! She did it again! We went out for dinner , came home, she got an attitude and said "That's it, I'm done, sell the house I'm leaving!"

    I just told her at dinner I didn't feel safe because of this type of behavior. That it was causing me to disconnect. WTF???? Man what should I do? I hate this uncertainty.

    For Swolecat............I also got 8 bitches pregnant!
    Everytime you soften up and try to be the "sensitive" guy they say they want, you get sh1t on. SO, better to be a macho prick almost all the time.
    THIS IS ADVICE FOR PEOPLE MARRIED 10 YEARS plus.

    I feel you pain... Don't give her the satisfaction of showing any weakness.
    Stay strong bro.....
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    I am....................fuk her...........I am starting to resent her
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    Quote Originally Posted by 1victor
    I am....................fuk her...........I am starting to resent her

    I've seen this crap start to affect my kids so do not forget their mental state. Be strong and calm for them.....As much as possible.

    You might need some solo time bro.
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    Yeah I am chilled...................too chilled if you know what I mean,...........almost not giving a chit chilled.
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    Are you the established alpha male personality in the house or is she? As a woman she should know not to get out of line. It is ok for them to say how they feel, but they should never hit a certain octave or say things too out of pocket. If that isn't established and you been together for a long time maybe you should leave and chalk it up to experience for the next one.
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    Well it is established , she is insane, literally............I don't want a next one but I may have no choice.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 1victor
    Well it is established , she is insane, literally............I don't want a next one but I may have no choice.
    If she is insane then that's more than enough reason. Who wants an insane woman? Only someone that is a glutten for punishment.
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    I have thought of that, it's the I wanna fix it male ego thing.
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    You can't change them this late in the game without facing assault charges. You have to teach them how to act in the beginning.
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    Hang in there, bro...
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  12. 03-11-2005, 08:55 PM #12
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    I'm not married, never been. I had a 4year relationship and i was a prick...a good prick though..........then one day i felt bad and decided to jump two feet into the relationship again after we broke up and that was the end of that. got ****ted on. best advice is to keep the alpha male attitude. it works
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    Man up and get a divorce already lol.
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    Roll out and set up another franchise!
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    I want to guys but it is some scary ****................
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lozgod
    You can't change them this late in the game without facing assault charges. You have to teach them how to act in the beginning.
    Totally agreed.

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    I agree you should have handled this type of stuff from the start....good luck ....
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    yep my last marriage i was "the bytch" >< and tried to change this after 1 year of marriage.. i strived and tried for another year or so to be the alpha but no.. she wouldnt let me have friends or stay out past 9:00 i guess thats what happens when you marry a chick thats 7 yrs older than you because she's an unbelieveably good lay
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    It would all be so much easier if we didn't have real estate and a kid together. There's no quick fix to this even in divorce.
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    Quote Originally Posted by taiboxa
    yep my last marriage i was "the bytch" >< and tried to change this after 1 year of marriage.. i strived and tried for another year or so to be the alpha but no.. she wouldnt let me have friends or stay out past 9:00 i guess thats what happens when you marry a chick thats 7 yrs older than you because she's an unbelieveably good lay

    Wrong reason to get hitched bro LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by Explosive215
    Wrong reason to get hitched bro LOL
    LIER! RIGHT REASON!! wrong woman
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    Vic there comes a time when ENOUGH is ENOUGH. It took me 9 yrs to get my divorce! Don't let it drag out. Either she gets her **** straight or she goes. If she changes her mind again.....draw the line. She get's help and she stops threatening. If she threatens again....she packs!

    THis is too much for you and those kids!
    1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
    2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
    3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!

    Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

    For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.

    What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
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    did u know about 63.2% of american Couples are divorced and about 82.73% of all statistics are made up on the spot? >:\
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    Quote Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi
    Vic there comes a time when ENOUGH is ENOUGH. It took me 9 yrs to get my divorce! Don't let it drag out. Either she gets her **** straight or she goes. If she changes her mind again.....draw the line. She get's help and she stops threatening. If she threatens again....she packs!

    THis is too much for you and those kids!
    I agree............. I would let her know the next time she does this you want her packing and out the door............ If you have to then you pack her stuff and send her on her way.......... she will either stop all this BS or go either way your life will be better.
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    Thanks guys I need to get a plan together, because this is never gonna end IMO. I just don't get it, If I can get a big sale I can lay mt hands on 5k or so and make a move
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    baww.. if push comes to shove.. higher a hit man.. i dont have a concious...
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    victor, I am in the same situation as you, a mixed family. sometimes you just got to take the good along with the bad. learn how to bend over and take it like a man. you will be happier.
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    Victor - remember that PM Isent you - you need to deal with it in that way
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    get some evidence of her being crazy. video tape, tape recorder.. you know what i mean.. then next time she threatens, call her bluff. if things turn out that you get a divorce.. you got something on her that will let you have control in the legal situation.
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