Oversensitve MEN
Just got back from requalifying with my handgun for my police department job. (436 out of 500...I'm pissed I should have done better 
) Anyway, ran into the officer I usually ride with and he asked to talk to me.
So....I meet up with him (officer one) in the parking lot....and he asks me if the Reserve Program Coordinator spoke with me. No...why? Well apparently he and another officer (officer two) were bsing in the lunch room....typical "guy" talk and I came up in the convo. Officer One and I are pretty close and we talk about EVERYTHING under the sun. He's a great guy, I trust him with my life. I've been to his house to meet his wife and kids and it's all good. He's the only guy at the PD that I have that sort of relationship with. Officer Two is the only other officer on that force that I really trusted (professionally) and I learn a lot from him. ANYWAY, during this convo Officer two tells officer one that I made a "comment" that made him uncomfortable....officer One laughs and says that I had done the same thing with him. What was the comment? After about 8 hours in a bullet proof vest, you start sweating under it, sweat drieds and you start itching. It never fails that you get an itch where you can't reach it. For me it's right on the upper part of my rib cage. It is IMPOSSIBLE to get to it by shifting. So I unbotton one button in the middle of my shirt or if in my long sleeves....the buttons are actually replaced with a hidden zipper....and get the to the itch.
Mind you, I have an underarmor shirt on under my vest so Im not revealing ANYTHING! Nor did I make a lewd comment or suggest he itch it for me.
Ok so at the end of the conversation, Officer Two goes and reports it to my advisor! Rather than tell me I made him uncomfortable or just drop it.... he fuking reports me. Now thankfully, the advisor didn't say anything to me cause I would have been pissed.
SO what pisses me off is....he didn't just talk to me. I'm a pretty easy going person. I don't offend easily. I don't fly off the handle. But most of all, I have never disrespected him in any way. I'm always mindful of the fact that they are all married and Im sure the wives don't appreciate having women on the force around their men....esp attractive fit women.
I was playing with the idea of resigning when I leave for Iraq, because when I return, I hope to be focused on my man, my love and even starting a new family. This just adds fuel to the fire. Now Im down to one officer that I am comfortable with. The others are lazy and frankly frighten me from a safety stand point. However, if I only ride with only Officer One all the time, the rumors are sure to start!
Tired of this crap. I don't get paid to do this....well not all the time....so I don't need to stick with it and put up with the stress.
Ok done venting....sorry so long!
Last edited by Commando_Barbi; 04-25-2005 at 03:31 PM.
1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!
Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!
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Originally Posted by BigJames
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