Touchy Question....
Ok here it goes.....don't flame me or get mad......I'm not trying to offend ANYONE but...
I recently met a guy by chance. Very intelligent, owns his own architectural business, into bodybuilding (getting ready for a natty show in Aug), 30, single, no baby mama drama....wants to get to know me.....all good things.
BUT there's something naggin at me.
Sometimes when we talk there's a bit of a feminine "tone" to his voice. Our early phone convos were pretty cool...didn't really touch on sex too much. Which as much as I LOVE and MISS sex......I enjoyed because it was nice to hold adult conversation with a man that didn't center around sports or sex. ANYWAY, the other night we were talking and sex did come up and he asked me if I liked anal. I told him truthfully NOT REALLY! He tells me ah thats too bad...So I ask him if he's one of those guys that likes to give but freaks out if you come near his a$$ with a hand, finger, tongue etc. I expected him to say yes.
He did NOT.
He says oh ya I like it when a woman slips in a couple fingers, even thought about letting her slip a dildo in
The convo went south from
there. Likes to be spanked,
hot wax, the works.
SO.....what makes me nervous is the whole "men on the down low" thing. I've read a few articles on it and its kinda scarey. He has made it VERY clear that he likes women and according to him while he's not homophobic (my ex was) he doesn't understand it.
I don't care if he's gay....or bi. We can be great friends. But for me, the last thing I want to do is start dating a guy that bats for both teams.
Im not trying to sterotype here......at all.....but something makes me uneasy.
What do you guys think?
1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!
Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
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