I think that you are doing well with establishing consequences for actions ... but I do think that I would find another punishment. I agree.....don't pull him out of football. One...he needs the outlet for the extra energy that 8 yo's have....and second...he's part of a TEAM and the team suffers as a result. I would say talk to the coach and maybe give him some EXTRA duties... make HIM clean up gear or some extra laps, etc.
Taking away the things he enjoys....TV, Games, playing with his buddies, etc. All great tactics!!!
You are doing well.
You def need to consult with your wife and discuss options, etc so that you provide a united front....never ever ever let him see that you don't support one another 100% or you loose your authority.
Peace C.B.
1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!
Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!