Originally Posted by
ouchthathurts
I just read a rather funny thread on why skinny dudes pull more tail, excuse me, get more girls than the big honkin' dudes. The replies were pretty funny.
I think I can shed some light on this by proposing a few possibilities...
1. Generally, guys that are huge have to spend a lot of time in the gym and when not in the gym, every waking second, watching calories, eating umteen meals a day, and possibly the worst: looking in the mirror every 30 seconds to make sure they still got their pump on.
2. It's a red flag to begin with because if you take away the muscle, what kind of guy is left over? Sometimes, not all the time, a self-centered, insecure, POS.
3. Body odor, excess body hair, stretchmarks, bad breath, and a steady stream of perspiration running down the nose. Women love all of these.
4. If you're that critical of your own appearance, you're twice as likely to be critical of hers and if she's even the slightest bit concerned with, for instance, the size of her butt, you'll never get close enough to admire it. Trust me on that.
Now I'm 5'9, 210. Not gigantic, but big enough. I'd like to share some things that keep me in the game. Believe me, at 5'9 you have to have game because chics usually gravitate toward tall guys. But I will almost always have some girl to squeeze these L-glutes-o-mine because I've trained myself to do a few things...
1. Keep your training TO YOURSELF! Don't go around flexing and wearing the x-small muscle shirt from the glass case at your gym. This says "I'm all muscle baby but besides that, not much else!"
2. Learn an instrument, take some scuba lessons, sh**, something, anything, that doesn't involve getting bigger. Find your confidence in some way that doesn't involve your appearance. Clean up the inside and the outside will eventually look a whole lot better.
3. Don't appear freakish. That flys well in the gym but outside the gym, a freak is a freak. So wear a nice shirt and cover up your freaky parts. You want her to say "I never really noticed, but you really have BIG muscles, giggle, giggle, etc." Get the idea?
4. Don't get insanely jealous and don't put people down. This is just pathetic. Stay above the gossip and if you hear someone trashing a guy while talking to you, it's a good bet they're trashing you when talking to someone else.
5. Be nice fer chrisakes! This sounds easy and obvious but half the time, I don't think guys even know when they're being pr*cks. If you're among friends and you hear someone batantly slash someone to pieces, it takes some real balls to say "Yeah, maybe, but that's just Bob." If a girl is within earshot and she hears this... well, you're gonna be "the nice guy" ka ching!
These things just came off the top of my head but a skinny guy will only score consistently if he is nice, honest, mysterious, etc. But if you have all those good qualities AND some muscle you'll win the gals over easily.
take care bros
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just a thought...
