View Poll Results: I've read a number of threads about cheating and I wonder why some of you cheat.

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  • Because I trust no one and they're probably doing the same thing.

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  • Because I can get away with it.

    5 21.74%

  • Because I was cheated on before.

    3 13.04%

  • Because I'm a vile evil sociopath with no concern for others feelings or consequences.

    8 34.78%
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  1. 02-07-2006, 03:16 PM #1
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    Why do you cheat?

    I've read a number of threads about cheating and I wonder why some of you cheat in relationships.
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  2. 02-07-2006, 03:19 PM #2
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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    I've read a number of threads about cheating and I wonder why some of you cheat in relationships.
    That's a question my therapist has yet to answer... My reasons are completely selfish and shallow.

    I hope that there is a better reason for it.
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  3. 02-07-2006, 03:20 PM #3
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    Cant really vote cuz I dont. My opinion is if ur gonna cheat on someone why are you with them. I dont get it.
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  4. 02-07-2006, 03:21 PM #4
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    Option 4 is a reference to my ex.
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  5. 02-07-2006, 03:21 PM #5
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    Quote Originally Posted by timvds
    That's a question my therapist has yet to answer... My reasons are completely selfish and shallow.

    I hope that there is a better reason for it.
    I think you're an option 4.
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  6. 02-07-2006, 03:22 PM #6
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    thats how mine was. Heartless in other words. Doesnt care how others feel.
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  7. 02-07-2006, 03:22 PM #7
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  8. 02-07-2006, 03:22 PM #8
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    That was my vote yeah... The first three are just excuses that cover up the real problem.
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  9. 02-07-2006, 03:23 PM #9
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    i used to cheat because i can get away with it.

    i get bored of the person physically and sometimes emotionally and search for something else, and usually get it very easily.

    i stay with the girlfriend because it's convenient affection.

    i was an ass, plain and simple
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  10. 02-07-2006, 03:25 PM #10
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    I use to be bad at it, but no more. I have a good one now.

    When i did, it was because i had a girlfriend that cheated on me and lied straight to my face and another girl was realy Flirtacious.....<---SLUTS all of them. Well not the one i have...........LOVE YOU BABY.

    Anybody that wants a girls number that is a Whore PM me...........LMAO
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  11. 02-07-2006, 03:25 PM #11
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    When you start searching for someone else, its time to break up with the gf. Imagine how you'd feel if she was searching for someone else and you were her fallback guy.
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  12. 02-07-2006, 03:26 PM #12
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    Quote Originally Posted by chest6
    Cant really vote cuz I dont. My opinion is if ur gonna cheat on someone why are you with them. I dont get it.
    I'm not a cheater either. If I don't want to be with someone I break up. Cheating is too much work. Why sneak around when you can just dump them and get someone new.
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  13. 02-07-2006, 03:29 PM #13
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    Quote Originally Posted by chest6
    When you start searching for someone else, its time to break up with the gf. Imagine how you'd feel if she was searching for someone else and you were her fallback guy.
    you're right, you're right


    just took me a while to figure that out. actually now i dont commit to anybody. thats an easy fix!!!
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  14. 02-07-2006, 03:32 PM #14
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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    I'm not a cheater either. If I don't want to be with someone I break up. Cheating is too much work. Why sneak around when you can just dump them and get someone new.
    I figured cuz of the wording of the thread. Thats the way it should be. Exactly my opinion



    Quote Originally Posted by heavyrotation92
    you're right, you're right


    just took me a while to figure that out. actually now i dont commit to anybody. thats an easy fix!!!
    well there ya go..theres a solution. Probably the best one if you have had problems being loyal.
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  15. 02-07-2006, 03:34 PM #15
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    IMO numbers 1 and 3 have a direct relationship
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  16. 02-07-2006, 03:51 PM #16
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  17. 02-07-2006, 04:12 PM #17
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    i did all thru college so that i wouldnt get attached to the girl i was with and it couild keep me in control of how i felt, bc if i cheated on her, then i coudlnt just really love her, u know what im saying..
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  18. 02-07-2006, 04:19 PM #18
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    Quote Originally Posted by decadbal
    i did all thru college so that i wouldnt get attached to the girl i was with and it couild keep me in control of how i felt, bc if i cheated on her, then i coudlnt just really love her, u know what im saying..
    Why were you afraid to commit?
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  19. 02-07-2006, 04:21 PM #19
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    it was college, i didnt wanna be tied down, i went out with the same chick all thru HS, and i just wanted to enjoy time and so on, most of the girls i dated knew i wasnt gonna settle down, and so on, they just came along for the ride.. i didnt outright try to hurt them, or anything, i just did what i wanted, i dont now bc i love my girl i have now.. but way back, i was a huge POS
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  20. 02-07-2006, 04:21 PM #20
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    never cheated either
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  21. 02-07-2006, 04:21 PM #21
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    cheat on the gf's never cheated on the wifey.
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  22. 02-07-2006, 04:23 PM #22
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    Im very happy in my marriage and just dont think about it(cheatin)...it's not worth it, BUT...if i was single, and dating someone, you better believe I'd cheat only cuz I could get away with it. I hurts me to hurt chicks feelings, even if i dont have feeling for them...
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  23. 02-07-2006, 04:25 PM #23
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    Quote Originally Posted by system admin
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    Yep that's it right there
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  24. 02-08-2006, 12:07 AM #24
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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    I've read a number of threads about cheating and I wonder why some of you cheat in relationships.
    The Normative Question.
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  25. 02-08-2006, 12:10 AM #25
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    Not enough options in the survey. I do it because I get no sex from my wife. Simple as that !!!
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  26. 02-08-2006, 12:22 AM #26
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    because the female species are each unique and i want them all.
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  27. 02-08-2006, 04:24 AM #27
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    i'm in college now and me and one girl just dosen't happen...there are too many fish in the sea, and i want to try them all...I want to slow down here in the next 6 months because i've gotten a lot out of my system already but still want to taste what's out there...

    downfall to this is you pass up a lot of good girls in the process
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  28. 02-08-2006, 05:24 AM #28
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    not sure how to explain this, but i never feel like sleeping with the same girl more than once.
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  29. 02-08-2006, 08:37 AM #29
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kale
    Not enough options in the survey. I do it because I get no sex from my wife. Simple as that !!!
    Actually ... that is a legitimate reason. If she's not giving it to you at home what the hell does she expect you to do.
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  30. 02-08-2006, 09:59 AM #30
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    i just did it becasue i could it was there and i had the opp, im young to man i dont see an reason not to, i told the girl i was with that i did a few days after, and she was upset but she didnt leave me, so thats her problem, because i did it again and again, and told her again and again, and she keep forgiveing
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  31. 02-08-2006, 10:03 AM #31
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    Quote Originally Posted by steve0
    i just did it becasue i could it was there and i had the opp, im young to man i dont see an reason not to, i told the girl i was with that i did a few days after, and she was upset but she didnt leave me, so thats her problem, because i did it again and again, and told her again and again, and she keep forgiveing
    That would make you an option 4.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    That would make you an option 4.

    NO NO i think it would make me otion 2......becasuse i can get away with it, see i would sleep with other girls and tell her, and she would not leave me so i would do it again and again, and i would still tell her and she would not leave me
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  33. 02-08-2006, 10:11 AM #33
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    because women are like Baskin Robbins!! so many flavors you need to get out and try em all!!!
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    There is no need to cheat for me. I would just tell my wife and go from there.
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  35. 02-08-2006, 10:27 AM #35
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    after beeing with the same girl for a while its just not as exciting as it once was, plus when im in a relationship i want every hot girl i see walking by but when im single im just a lazy bum.

    PS. its only ok for ME to cheat on my gf coz i know it wasnt any feelings involved but if my gf cheats on me ill bitchslap her back to stoneage.

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  36. 02-08-2006, 10:30 AM #36
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    Quote Originally Posted by farrebarre
    PS. its only ok for ME to cheat on my gf coz i know it wasnt any feelings involved but if my gf cheats on me ill bitchslap her back to stoneage.
    Why the double standard?
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  37. 02-08-2006, 10:49 AM #37
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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    Why the double standard?
    to be honest i have no idea. maybe coz my 2 last gf's were two timing hussies and it ****ed my head up and now my view of women is so screwed that i see them all as hoes and i take every chance i get to cheat and hurt their feelings so that when she tells me "oh i cheated on you by accident" ill be like "Ha biatch! got you first!"
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    I don't cheat... thats not to say the second we "take a break" I'm not gonna hookup with someone... and the more u get away with the more likely you are to do it, its alot like shop lifting
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    People always think grass is green but taking another option sometimes complicates things.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mizfit
    People always think grass is green but taking another option sometimes complicates things.

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    yea, the grass looks way greener on your side mizfit
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