Marriage

**needmorestrength** · 03-02-2006, 12:32 AM

So me and my girl have been talking about it lately.. We're about ready to look at rings

wth am I doing.. LOL jj

**Rob** · 03-02-2006, 01:06 AM

how long have you 2 been together?

**hotstuff** · 03-02-2006, 01:16 AM

oh God....please don't start talking negative about marriage in this thread!!
BC and I have finally set a date.....don't talk him out of it!!!
i'll find out where you all live and use the ninja skills tai has taught me on you all !!!!

**chest6** · 03-02-2006, 01:17 AM

Its a trap!

**chest6** · 03-02-2006, 01:19 AM

Originally Posted by hotstuff

oh God....please don't start talking negative about marriage in this thread!!
BC and I have finally set a date.....don't talk him out of it!!!
i'll find out where you all live and use the ninja skills tai has taught me on you all !!!!

I think his ninja skills are only useful in big boned red ninjas. Im not sure how the skills transfer to someone else

**hotstuff** · 03-02-2006, 02:04 AM

Originally Posted by chest6

I think his ninja skills are only useful in big boned red ninjas. Im not sure how the skills transfer to someone else

they transfer in the ability to kick you a** when you talk crap like that

**DBflash21** · 03-02-2006, 02:22 AM

Marriage? Good luck bro

**palumbo** · 03-02-2006, 02:28 AM

dont worry bro im right behind u

**Auto54** · 03-02-2006, 02:31 AM

Abuse reported

**hardgainer12** · 03-02-2006, 02:34 AM

bro if u love her than do it! dont listen to these non marraige people. If shes really that special than ask her to marry u!

**DBflash21** · 03-02-2006, 02:41 AM

If you want to be locked down, and only have sex once a month, get married.

**palumbo** · 03-02-2006, 02:42 AM

wow flash good one not

**DBflash21** · 03-02-2006, 02:52 AM

Originally Posted by palumbo

wow flash good one not

Somewhat true though bro...people get married and after about 3 years or so, they start loosing interest and tend to fight all the time. Statistics will back this up.

**Booz** · 03-02-2006, 03:56 AM

Originally Posted by DBflash21

Somewhat true though bro...people get married and after about 3 years or so, they start loosing interest and tend to fight all the time. Statistics will back this up.

get the statistics out then mate,i have been with my wife since 1989 had 4 kids and we hardly argue at all

**Warrior** · 03-02-2006, 05:31 AM

You don't get married for convience, don't get married because she looks good on your arm - you get married because you really do love the girl - and know she loves you. A lifetime is a long time... and marriage is easy - divorce is the hard part!

I had the insane trophey wife, beautiful but could drive me crazy... and I don't wish her on anyone. Funny thing is she is getting divorced again! Dumb ass

**Booz** · 03-02-2006, 06:38 AM

Originally Posted by Warrior

You don't get married for convience, don't get married because she looks good on your arm - you get married because you really do love the girl - and know she loves you. A lifetime is a long time... and marriage is easy - divorce is the hard part!
I had the insane trophey wife, beautiful but could drive me crazy... and I don't wish her on anyone. Funny thing is she is getting divorced again! Dumb ass

coulnt have said it better myself!

***G-1000*** · 03-02-2006, 08:24 AM

Hey bro i got married 7 month ago. I do have to say it was the best thing i could have ever done.

**Tock** · 03-02-2006, 08:47 AM

Lots of guys will tell you

there is no woman so beautiful, so charming, so sexy that somewhere there isn't some guy who isn't sick and tired of her.

Not to be down on marriage, but that's how it is . . .

Wiccans have a better deal, where they have a ceremony that marries you for 12 months. After that you can renew or split. Makes much more sense.

Of course, if a baby enters the picture, well, you have obligations to the kid for at least 18 years, and woe to you if you fail in those obligations . . .

Just another perspective . . .

-Tock

**needmorestrength** · 03-02-2006, 10:43 AM

Originally Posted by booz

coulnt have said it better myself!

Agreed! She is beautiful, but shes so loving and caring. Always there for me. Just a great feeling being with her

**Teabagger** · 03-02-2006, 06:14 PM

Go for it!! I have been married only once, to my beautiful bride of 27 years. Its a good life if you don't put it on autopilot.......work at and she will be the best friend you ever had. No one will ever have your back like your woman. Try fvcking with a guy when his woman is around...you'll get your nuts handed back to ya. Don't let the ball bustin' get to ya...they're just jealous

Good Luck dude!!!

**DBflash21** · 03-02-2006, 06:31 PM

Originally Posted by booz

get the statistics out then mate,i have been with my wife since 1989 had 4 kids and we hardly argue at all

This is the Census Bureau's often-cited "50%" rate, the proportion of marriages taking place right now that will eventually divorce, which has since been revised downward to roughly 43% by the National Center for Health Statistics but was moved back up to around 50% by the Census Bureau in 2002, with even more ifs ands and buts than usual. Most recently, according to the New York Times, it has been revised downward to just over 40%.

I can't find it right now, but I read somewhere that 70% of the divorces occur within the first 3 years of mariage, in other words...starts out great, then you find out what the person is really like, and you hit the skids...

**Warrior** · 03-02-2006, 10:05 PM

Originally Posted by DBflash21

I can't find it right now, but I read somewhere that 70% of the divorces occur within the first 3 years of mariage, in other words...starts out great, then you find out what the person is really like, and you hit the skids...

Actually a poor marriage is usually wrapped around poor communication skills and financial problems... you should already know what your girl is like - unless it was an arranged marriage or something...

**Animal Cracker** · 03-02-2006, 10:16 PM

Lots wrong with it!.
Listen to Tom Leykis.. www.blowmeuptom.com

***Narkissos*** · 03-02-2006, 10:33 PM

Originally Posted by needmorestrength

So me and my girl have been talking about it lately.. We're about ready to look at rings

wth am I doing.. LOL jj

I think that's cool.. Good luck man.

I hope to be doing that about 2 years from now

**tycin** · 03-02-2006, 10:50 PM

i just recently got engaged... if u think ur ready and u know shes the girl u wanna spend the resta ur life wit its all good. i cant wait personally.

**speedtraining** · 03-03-2006, 07:15 AM

ohh its wedding crashing season baby, pack your bags up.

***Doc.Sust*** · 03-03-2006, 09:19 AM

hey what the hell you live once, roll the dice and give it a shot!

**needmorestrength** · 03-03-2006, 09:23 AM

Originally Posted by Warrior

Actually a poor marriage is usually wrapped around poor communication skills and financial problems... you should already know what your girl is like - unless it was an arranged marriage or something...

agreed

**needmorestrength** · 03-03-2006, 09:24 AM

Originally Posted by tycin

i just recently got engaged... if u think ur ready and u know shes the girl u wanna spend the resta ur life wit its all good. i cant wait personally.

thats exactly what she is!
and good luck Nark, its a great feeling!

**JR.SHRED** · 03-03-2006, 10:19 AM

Originally Posted by speedtraining

ohh its wedding crashing season baby, pack your bags up.

Did you get my suit ready

**taiboxa** · 03-03-2006, 01:20 PM

so yeah.. i was married once.. for a few years.. didnt have 1 argument for first year and half..
last half of 2nd year .. not so good.. hence forth why i live at home now and im 25.. i gave her the money/house/everything.. just to get out of it

**Bigen12** · 03-03-2006, 01:36 PM

Run...

Run like HELL!!!

I hope my wife doesn't see this.....

**speedtraining** · 03-03-2006, 04:03 PM

Originally Posted by JR.SHRED

Did you get my suit ready

yeah sleep over at my house tonight we have some stuff to go over.

**Theatrix** · 03-03-2006, 04:17 PM

Prenup!!

**taiboxa** · 03-03-2006, 05:51 PM

yes DO NOT LET HER TAKE YOUR NINJA SWORD ><

**NotSmall** · 03-03-2006, 06:03 PM

Dude, I'm not down on marriage but you have only been with her what, 7 months? - you're still in the infatuation stage IMO.

**needmorestrength** · 03-03-2006, 07:18 PM

Originally Posted by Bigen12

Run...

Run like HELL!!!

I hope my wife doesn't see this.....

Im thinking about it.... i mean uhhhhh

**needmorestrength** · 03-03-2006, 07:19 PM

Originally Posted by NotSmall

Dude, I'm not down on marriage but you have only been with her what, 7 months? - you're still in the infatuation stage IMO.

known each other bout 1.5 years, been dating about that long.. I will wait at LEAST 6 months before I pop the question.. I still have some insecurities