by the girl I thought was the one. could use some enouragment by guys who have been in this situation.
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by the girl I thought was the one. could use some enouragment by guys who have been in this situation.
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Yeah I been there before. I think most of us have. It always sucks to be going through that type of shit, but as most will say. Time will heal all wounds. How come you broke up?
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i haven't been there.............
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there was a few reasons. she just about left me for another guy early in the relationship who she was in love with before me. she's also been best friends with him for a long time. there were arguements about it because I really didn't want her hanging around him. but you can't tell her to drop her best friend either. that and her family wants her to be with him and not me and I was never given a chance by them. its a bitch losing someone this way. oh well..Originally Posted by USfighterFC
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it's harsh mate there's nothing you can do but deal with it. I've been in the same situation. But there is no nice way of saying it.
just get your ass out and get some more pussy
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That sucks.. How long were you together?
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i haven't been there.............
You will be there at some point or another. Trust me you might wanna use the lil happy smiley for that one lol. It's a whole lotta emotional anguish that takes a long ass time to get over. I still aint over my ex g/f from 3 years ago.
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yea and the worst part about it is tonight was suppose to be my birthday celebration (its acually on monday)
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been there done that, was in the same situation, the girl i thought was the one dumped me. I cant tell you "dont think about it" or shit like that coz in the end you will think about it, infact it will probably be the only thing in ur mind for some time. But on other hand you will get over it, sure you will have all the memories, but you will be over her. The advice i have to give is dont have no contact with her, once its over its over for good. Be with ur friends, try having a good time, do stuff that makes u feel good. i know it hurts like hell, as they rather have ur legs broken then ur heart but eventually you will get over her that i can promise. eventually you will get to this point where you change ur life u start living again, and when that happens you will realize how much you actually learned from this shit and i can promise you, you wont ever make the same mistake again. Good luck bro
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thanks bro. I hope I get over this shit. I have a hard time getting over chicks. I didn't get over my ex from 3 years ago until just last year. And I didn't like her half of how I liked this girl. oh well, I'm sure other guys have been through worse than me.
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btw, happy bday brotha
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lol thanks bro. I called everyone I knew last night and told them to come out tonight so it should be a good time.
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ah there u go bro, already starting
now this is what i want you to do for me, get drunk get laid and cum on her face screaming "im rick james bitch"
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Dude I was with my ex for 6 years.We had a child after 4 and she had always wanted to get married.At the end of 6 years I bought us a house a week later I asked her to marry me.3 weeks after that she left the house took my kid didnt give me the ring back and then I found out it was because she was screwing someone else.I wish murder was legal.Well my point is I thought I would never feel normal again but now I am fine.I sold my house and I have my son 3 days a week.Keep your head up.Dont waste your thoughts on somthing you cant change it only makes it harder.The funny part is 6 months ago she tried to get me to leave my current girlfriend and get back together with her
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ah there u go bro, already starting
now this is what i want you to do for me, get drunk get laid and cum on her face screaming "im rick james bitch"I'll do my best, haha. I've been shafting so many girls lately I'm just hoping the chicks will still be all for it tonight.
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holy shit bro.. if it was me im sure i had killed herDude I was with my ex for 6 years.We had a child after 4 and she had always wanted to get married.At the end of 6 years I bought us a house a week later I asked her to marry me.3 weeks after that she left the house took my kid didnt give me the ring back and then I found out it was because she was screwing someone else.I wish murder was legal.Well my point is I thought I would never feel normal again but now I am fine.I sold my house and I have my son 3 days a week.Keep your head up.Dont waste your thoughts on somthing you cant change it only makes it harder.The funny part is 6 months ago she tried to get me to leave my current girlfriend and get back together with her
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i wanna hear all about ur sexy adventures when u get back
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good advice bro. thats my problem with this shit. I always wonder how it could have been. Gotta just forget and move on i guess ehDude I was with my ex for 6 years.We had a child after 4 and she had always wanted to get married.At the end of 6 years I bought us a house a week later I asked her to marry me.3 weeks after that she left the house took my kid didnt give me the ring back and then I found out it was because she was screwing someone else.I wish murder was legal.Well my point is I thought I would never feel normal again but now I am fine.I sold my house and I have my son 3 days a week.Keep your head up.Dont waste your thoughts on somthing you cant change it only makes it harder.The funny part is 6 months ago she tried to get me to leave my current girlfriend and get back together with her
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You got it man.Its hard to see but give it time.I hate to say it but Other women sure helped me pass the time.Maybe not the right way but it worked
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that may seem like the case now, and im sure ul also get the feeling that you will never like a girl asmuch as u did this one. its all shit mate, unfortunately we cant control our feelings youl be fine, and in afew months youl look back and think twice about that statement
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I feel you bro. yah, it's rough. As was said above, def don't have ANY contact w/ her, that will help alot. And honestly, going out and screwing a whole bunch of chicks will take your mind off her for a while, but you'll come out a stronger person if you take it on the chin like a man. Besides, if she the type to do something like this to you, then she ain't worth your time.
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yea thanks guys. I've never been in this situation before so I don't really know how to handle it. I'm used to breaking up with girls before I get close. This is the second time I've been dumped. The first time was hard but this is like 10x that right now. I appreciate the advice.
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happend to me not to long ago. i was depressed like a bitch for a couple months. keep lifting, focus on other things to get your mind off of her, i found once i met another chick i totally forgot about the slut
thats how i do it everytime. weird.I'm used to breaking up with girls before I get close.
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Another thing that sucks is I booked the most expensive hotel room for us a month and a half ago at a friggin castle and now I can't cancel the reservation. I hope all the rich basterds won't mind me throwing a hotel party, lol.
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read section 15, may enlighten you ..
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Wow that acually helped. Kinda changed alot of my thinking just reading it. I'm gonna read it later a few more times and get it to sink in. Very clutch bro.
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have to say, that shit was really good bro.
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been there. twice. and the second time i kicked myself cuz i thought i'd never love again.
the first time still hurt more though cuz it was my first love and i was with her 2 years and seven months. I was distraut. i wanted to kill myself or join the army cuz i wanted to kill myself while killing arabs.
I t wrecked me. I took over a year to feel normal inside but after 6 months your brain rewires itself so yo can function. after there is also a stage a numbess and emotional flatness that you might have which i belive was a defense mechanism to stop the stress of losing her. Its like if soemone died. everyone knew i was ****ed up too, especially my parents when they saw me cry like a little bitch and and barf my brains out from drinking a whole bottle of bacardi just to kill the pain inside.
But the second girl/time i had only scene her a few months, and then she dumbed me. Nobody even knew i cared. It bothered the hell out of me, but as bad as it was it wasnt as bad as the first one. The second one still bugs me cuz i wa a few months ago. sometimes i wonder if some guy is fingering her right now.......RGGGGGGGGG. But you cant entertain the thought. the first girl i was so upset that i stopped lifting. i never stopped lifting the second time. if i could have anything, i would still have the first girl, if i had one wish in this world.
The second girl scared me cuz she was so perfect( a virgin too, i finger virgin even, as was the first). i just wonder what would have happened if we went out a year and then been dumped. would i be suicidal again? i dunno.
All i can say is....dont kill yourself. this might sound shallow, but..... if you kill yourself you wont ever be able to do anymore sexual abominations.
Im pretty sure thats why i didnt kill myself. it may sound shallow,but when you havent "done it all" yet, you think about these things....hard.
the less time you were with her...the less it might hurt...but it all depends.
and yes other vaginas will help you forget, as will beating up ppl you hate. try to do fun stuff. even though in the midde of the fun you mind will drift to her and you will feel plastic and think " i dont want any of this".
try to do "dark" fun stuff, like maybe...(i know this sounds stupid)...but try entering a cage fight without training, or bangin really skanky chicks in "anger sex" fashion. Use didldos and weird stuff. make it as degrading as possible. sometimes doing stuff with you frineds you "phase out" and you think of what you really want in life...her, not these stupid drunks. However, getting drunk with yourfrinds helps, but drinking alone can et ugly. you might kill yourself or poisen yourself. But if your sure you wont kill yourself then get drunk everynite and have a bucket with you.
maybe even start eating thinks that you know are bad for you just so you will get a heart attack and die.(not actaully that it will kill you but this makes me kinda feel better)
i dont know how bad your pain is, so some of this may not be for you, but if you can take from it something, thn tats good.
I use women like the whores they are now. i hope to god i never meet another finger virgin. I just want WHORES.
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actually now that i think of it, i think what bothers me the most is as AnabolicBoy said, the thought of some guy who only wants her for her pussy bangin her...
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yeh i have to say i stumbled upon it one day when a girl who said "shed love me forever UNCONDITIONALLY" started acting distant and confused about our relationship, it was going on for so long that when i read that i knew what was happening, i believed this girl was psychic, that she really could predict the future and would in turn love me forever like she said.. the words rebounded in my head every minute everyday as i was sinking into a pit realizing she was losing attraction for me (and i always held the insecure thought that attraction = self value, i was wrong, attraction = your fulfillment of someones demands at a particular time in life, sometimes peoples demands change).. ive since evolved far past that, which is whay you need to do too my friend, if you can extract some type of meaning or knowledge from this break up, that will be far better then any bullshit line some girl throws at you in the future.
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its called kharma : )
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what do u mean ?
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my rule of thumb is never put yourself in a position to be dumped. I have a feeling that since you thought she was "the one" you gave her your all. you always have to be LESS INTERESTED in the girl than she is in you. if you are more interested, FAKE IT. the person with LESS INTEREST HAS THE POWER in the relationship. if you can feel her losing interest (always look at her actions, not her words) and that the relationship is on its last legs... WALK AWAY! always be the dumper, not the dumpee.
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you see that was the whole thing though. That was exactly how I would think before I met her. She convinced me that it was okay to open up and to give her my all and everything would be for the better. So thats what I did, I gave it my all and put my trust in her that if I did it would all work out like she said. I know that rule like you said applys to almost every woman but she made me beleive that wasnt the case with her. But I guess it was all BS. I learned alot from this though and I wouldn't trade it.
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Oh yeah, forgot to add: Say the girl insists that you take a "break" (that is womanese for her holding the scythe over your head). in your head you backtrack a couple of months and analyze her actions over these last months. you realise she's about to walk and she's trying to let you off easy (women rarely like to tell you the truth when they're about to walk). In this instance you'll say "sorry baby, I don't do breaks. it's been nice knowing you. ciao.". And walk away. do not call, do not hang out. A funny thing will happen: all of sudden she will have a newfound love for you and start begging to take you back. DON'T FALL FOR IT! It's her ego wanting to be stroked. in the end she will walk out on you. remember: always be the dumper.
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kharma, what goes around comes around.what do u mean ?
sometimes a girl will dump her bf for someone a million times worse, a guy who seems appleaing to her, plays the gentlemen role, f ucks her.. then dissappears. Then shes can relish in the whorish side effects of being played by someone she came to realize was actually a million times worse than the guy she dumped..
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That's standard woman talk man! They ALL want you to open up to them and tell them your feelings. IT'S A TRICK. one thing that women love in a man is MYSTERY. the more you hold back, the better. if you want to show her how you feel about her, do it through ACTIONS. you can tell a woman that you love her but only if she says it first. and keep the verbal shit for special occasions. use your actions... stroke her face, her hair, kiss her passionately out of the blue.... but only once in awhile. these things must be performed spontaneously and with caution. if you start displaying more affection for her than she is for you, you're dead in the water. that indicates a lack of challenge... a lack of mystery.... and slowly the woman will start lose interest.
as she starts to lose interest, guess what happens? 9/10 times the guy's interest will begin to rise because she turned the tables on you. this is where most guys think that showering her with love, affection, and presents will raise her interest level. WRONG. it will only lower hers and in turn raise yours. then you're dead in the water.
always care (or pretend that you care) less for the girl than she does for you. be mysterious. be a CHALLENGE. and you WILL NOT get dumped ever again.
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They always come running back. When they do you gotta spank their bare ass.
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godamn i have too much to say about this shit, very true /\ /\ its boils down to control, in society men typically have more CONTROL then women, the only real leverage women have is sex, that becomes their control. Women will always be competing with a man for control but are secretly looking for a man who will hold his ground (which defines alpha male) and what women have always been attracted to since prihistoric times. Men control women with labels like slut, whore, bitch, but those labels always come back to haunt us (ill talk about that some other time) She dumped me and is ****ing some else that slut!!! It was her social fear (generated by words and perceptions of sluts) and repression of sexual impulse by being scorned with these labels that drove her into a LOGICAL conventional relationship. (problem is LOGIC is death for attracting women) Eventually her nature (sexual desire and desire to test other waters) swelled so large inside her, she was driven to explore them regardless of the consequences. Whore is a word i never use in a serious manner, its a misunderstanding or a side-effect of shit we dont understand, confusion makes us mad, anger generates labels..
ok i have to quit now
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