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    Things to do to keep mind off of ex

    The title says it all just broke up last night after 4 years...trying to keep busy but running outta things to do.

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    Hmmmm, well are you much of a Gamer??? If so a few hours on the PS2 might take some time away, gotta find something you can get into.

    If your into MMA you can order UFC 59 on PPV right now and watch that till 1am or so, that might help a little.

    A good epic style movie can help clear the head a little, but these are temporary solutions.

    If you've got yard work or any physical work you can do around the house that would help...........Sorry man, I'm probably not helpin, just a few things I would try out.

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    go have fun with your mates.

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    everytime i see these threads i post the same thing..
    skim down to section 15 and read, you'll feel better.
    http://gunwitch.fastseduction.com/

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    there have been alot of these threads lately. shit sucks ass man i just went through that 2 months ago. 'time' is the only thing that helps getting over someone. just do the things you love to keep your mind off of her. 5 years is a long time. good luck bud.

    by the way do you trail ride?

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    I read it last nite it definatly helped me nice post Bojangles

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    check out this board often.

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    Yah get your friends together, and all go to the stripclubs.. if they're any friends at all, they should all be buying u lapdances all night long.

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    i find my friends take my mind off things like that the most, also i always have my training and diet, along with planning cycles to think about and keep me sane

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    /\ /\ yeh i have a friend like that, only time i see him is when hes just broke up with a girlfriend.

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    lol ya bojangles, same kindda buddy here too

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    all these threads about this... im kinda starting to miss my ex *seriously*

    best thing to do, hang out with ur homies

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    I have decided to get wasted and hang with the homies. Bo that was a great read thanks alot. Klot I used to race cross country(dirtbikes) until I screwed my knee up last July doing motocross. No riding until August but I still go off-roading in the Jeep.

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    cool man, i love dirtbiking, dont own one at the moment though, i got a 2002 banshee 350

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    YEah it's spring time, the time for new love it happens, almost in the same boat tonight, broke up with my girl on tues. but today is the first day she hasn't called me, so I'm like wtf!?!

    I'd go hang with my boys but I know they'd go drink and get me drunk and I'm getting my diet and workouts right for a cycle. I watched the MAyweather rebroadcast but yeah that was only like.....less than an hour with the riot. THat's why I'm here.

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    Wow. Sorry to hear that. It must be rough. My girlfriend broke up with me recently too after dating on and off for fifteen years. There are a few things that help me. This is going to sound weird but I feel that she is always with me dispite the fact that she broke up with me. Nothing can take that away. I also have faith that we will remain friends in the long term and that thought gives me a positive sense of hope about us. Also, I care so much about I want her to be happy. If happiness means ending our relationship than I have to let go. It hurts but at the same time....it's a bitter sweet feeling. I know good things will happen for the both of us.

    I made a choice and I have incredible resolve that I'm not going to dwell on it. Chronic depression has given me those skills. Anyway, I focus mostly on my agenda which is my carreer and my training and I must say....I'm happy. I love training. I'm focusing on my betterment and that makes me feel great. It's self-oriented yes, but there's full control and you rise or fall on your own volition and chance. These things help me feel centered and happy. Also, and this helps somewhat, I'm geting laid by this bisexual chick at work and I wouldn't be doing that if I was with my ex. To every loss there's a gain! Just convince yourself that there are good things ahead and you can bet that there is! No doubt!

    Quote Originally Posted by TexN343
    The title says it all just broke up last night after 4 years...trying to keep busy but running outta things to do.

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    You are all very educated in the matters of the heart. I appreciate all things said as they have soothed the aches. Best regaurds to all and Happy Easter, at least Jesus still loves me.

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    everytime i see these threads i post the same thing..
    skim down to section 15 and read, you'll feel better.
    http://gunwitch.fastseduction.com/
    Good read Bo

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    Jesus still loves me
    yep you can always count on that.

    thats a killer jeep man. i bet its hard to get it stuck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TexN343
    I have decided to get wasted and hang with the homies. Bo that was a great read thanks alot. Klot I used to race cross country(dirtbikes) until I screwed my knee up last July doing motocross. No riding until August but I still go off-roading in the Jeep.
    hey Bro I see that your from Texas, Memorial Day is right around the corner and floating down the Guadalupa river with 2000+ people will help. I never miss a chance to float.

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    Get into yourself. Get a tan, go to the mall and get some new clothes. Get a few dating books to build confidence plus its funny...Better YOURSELF...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bojangles69
    everytime i see these threads i post the same thing..
    skim down to section 15 and read, you'll feel better.
    http://gunwitch.fastseduction.com/


    wow...good site. Very interesting reads...and most of it is extremely true!!

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    I agree. Very interesting read. I'm convinced. Another good read along these lines is called "the art of seduction" by Greenberg, I think.

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    wow...good site. Very interesting reads...and most of it is extremely true!!

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