Over here boys!

[Katelette81]

Okay guys curiousity is getting the better of me.

For you really muscley dudes, when you want to date, granted your life probably consists of training and dieting with little time for anything else... but anyway, do you want to date a woman who is also very muscular? Does an average woman's body turn you off?

What do you think of women who work out all the time? Some jack ass once told me that because I work out as much as I do I must be high maintenance, and I'm actually the exact opposite.. do you respect women more if they work out regularly?

I'm interested to hear your opinions on this stuff... will be interesting to compare it to how I think from a womans point of view..

Thanks!

[QuieTSToRM33]

i love a woman who works out and keeps herself in shape

not being high maintenance also helps

[Timm1704]

i like the average female body, never been with someone who looks like they work out really. i would like to get myself a girl that is into working out in some capacity, just because that way she will likely understand my lifestyle. a bodybuilder chick turns me off, but some of the fitness competitors... phew!

[RA]

i love a woman who works out and keeps herself in shape

not being high maintenance also helps

Ditto. It's just HUGE female body builders that don't do it for me.

[Pooks]

[mg316]

I love a girl who works out and takes care of her body, Girls who are just totally swoled up are disgusting, being swoled up is for the man, not the woman.

[Pooks]

I havent banged a gym rat girl yet.. but i'd love to!
Its a fantasy of mine, to turn a gf into a gym rat chick! LOL
but most of them would rather go shopping :-(

[Timm1704]

I havent banged a gym rat girl yet.. but i'd love to!

here here! i could definately go for a tight piece of ass right now

[Katelette81]

I figured that would be the consensus... I agree, but opposite.. lol, meaning I wouldn't want to date a guy that didn't take care of his body in the gym and at the dinner table for that matter.

I once lived with a guy who was disgusted with the least bit of out-of-shapeness, and I"m talking small ... it was weird.

I know you hold yourselves to very high standards, anyone who works out hard usually does, I know I do.. but do you hold women to those as well?

I'd take the gym over shopping any day!!

[Mizfit]

Guys what's too big?

[stunner5000pt]

I figured that would be the consensus... I agree, but opposite.. lol, meaning I wouldn't want to date a guy that didn't take care of his body in the gym and at the dinner table for that matter.

I once lived with a guy who was disgusted with the least bit of out-of-shapeness, and I"m talking small ... it was weird.

I know you hold yourselves to very high standards, anyone who works out hard usually does, I know I do.. but do you hold women to those as well?

I'd take the gym over shopping any day!!

EXCELLENT!!

a lot of the girls i know do work out... but dont haev a clue as to what they are doing, though. Usually they overtrain and get sick. Afterwrads they say the working out is too stressful for them and they quit.
I try correcting some mistakes... doesn't work, though.

i also find it weird that they are willing to deadlift/squat/ even row, but they wont bench becuase htye feel it will make them too 'big'... becuase it's that easy

[1buffsob]

I find it easier to hold a relationship with someone that shares the same lifestyle. The things bodybuilders have to do, dieting mostly, seems to intimidate the average insecure female.

I love women who work out and take care of themselves. I find it a huge turn on. But I'm not attracted to the 'big' girls who can deadlift more than I weigh.

1buffsob

[QuieTSToRM33]

I'd take the gym over shopping any day!!

Will you marry me ?

[Mizfit]

I havent banged a gym rat girl yet.. but i'd love to!
Its a fantasy of mine, to turn a gf into a gym rat chick! LOL
but most of them would rather go shopping :-(

That has been said to me before, when a guy tried to pick me up

"I've never banged a fit chick before"

There was no date 2

[stunner5000pt]

Guys what's too big?

for me its that Dettwiller girl... that's the borderline for me.. also she shouldnt be bigger than me!

[Mizfit]

I find it easier to hold a relationship with someone that shares the same lifestyle. The things bodybuilders have to do, dieting mostly, seems to intimidate the average insecure female.

I love women who work out and take care of themselves. I find it a huge turn on. But I'm not attracted to the 'big' girls who can deadlift more than I weigh.

1buffsob

well said .. someone who can appreciate the lfiestyle and your deidcation and hopefully be able to go with you too.. not all the time

[Mizfit]

for me its that Dettwiller girl... that's the borderline for me.. also she shouldnt be bigger than me!

she was pretty at one time.. Too much test does that

[Pooks]

Personally i try not to judge other people... I try and look for positive in everyone. Gotta understand that maybe if we were in their shoes we'd prolly be just like them..

but when it comes to relationships/What gets me horny LOL.. than yeah thats a whole different ball game.. but once u get to know people standards tend to drop from what i've noticed, to a small degree.. so i feel theres prolly a lot of leevay (if thats spelled right) The best is tho, if the girl likes the same type of foods u like.. but even more important is a girl that feeds me..

I noticed that really is into atleast my heart.. give me food!!
Chicks at work that bring me food to eat.. I LOVE EM!

[1buffsob]

Guys what's too big?

When more people comment on her 'buffness' instead of mine. I like abs and toned muscles on a woman, not size.

1buffsob

[Mizfit]

When more people comment on her 'buffness' instead of mine. I like abs and toned muscles on a woman, not size.

1buffsob

but doesn't mean she is bigger than you..

It's funny i dated a guy last year for 3 months and he got really upset when his firend stopped complimenting him and started complimenting me.

He was a lot bigger than me, but couldn't deal with me getting noticed more than him

[stunner5000pt]

she was pretty at one time.. Too much test does that

mmm then a girl who stays off the test! Or tren for that matter!

anavar is fine tho

[Katelette81]

I agree, dieting can really be a problem if you're dating someone that doens't understand or need to. I have certain meals that I eat in a day and usually specific times as well, and gym times for that matter.. nice to be with someone who can keep a similar schedule and not pressure you to go to KFC for dinner.. blech.

It's also fun to have someone else around to keep me company when I'm planning and making my lunches for the next day... or thiers

[Timm1704]

I agree, dieting can really be a problem if you're dating someone that doens't understand or need to. I have certain meals that I eat in a day and usually specific times as well, and gym times for that matter.. nice to be with someone who can keep a similar schedule and not pressure you to go to KFC for dinner.. blech.

It's also fun to have someone else around to keep me company when I'm planning and making my lunches for the next day...

awwwww bless. how fars canada from england? could i get a train?

[1buffsob]

but doesn't mean she is bigger than you..

It's funny i dated a guy last year for 3 months and he got really upset when his firend stopped complimenting him and started complimenting me.

He was a lot bigger than me, but couldn't deal with me getting noticed more than him

I can handle the woman getting more attention than me. I couldn't care less. I'm not the jealous type, as long as she's with me when all said and done.

But when people take specific notice of her for her size, as in "wow, you are a really buff chick", that's when it gets too 'big'. When people make comments like "wow, you are really toned and lean", that's just right.

1buffsob

[stunner5000pt]

I agree, dieting can really be a problem if you're dating someone that doens't understand or need to. I have certain meals that I eat in a day and usually specific times as well, and gym times for that matter.. nice to be with someone who can keep a similar schedule and not pressure you to go to KFC for dinner.. blech.

It's also fun to have someone else around to keep me company when I'm planning and making my lunches for the next day... or thiers

mmm a girl who eats as healthy as I would be awesome
BUT I WILL NOT SHARE POST WORKOUT NUTRITION
everything else is good though

[Timm1704]

mmm a girl who eats as healthy as I would be awesome
BUT I WILL NOT SHARE POST WORKOUT NUTRITION
everything else is good though

lol that is so true! get your own damn shake, fruit, potatoes and tuna!

[1buffsob]

I agree, dieting can really be a problem if you're dating someone that doens't understand or need to. I have certain meals that I eat in a day and usually specific times as well, and gym times for that matter.. nice to be with someone who can keep a similar schedule and not pressure you to go to KFC for dinner.. blech.

It's also fun to have someone else around to keep me company when I'm planning and making my lunches for the next day... or thiers

If I can find a woman to pack my diet for the next day, I'm not letting her go. Those women are keepers. Few and far between. I've only met one, and she's engaged to my best friend. haha. Where are they hiding?

1buffsob

[stunner5000pt]

If I can find a woman to pack my diet for the next day, I'm not letting her go. Those women are keepers. Few and far between. I've only met one, and she's engaged to my best friend. haha. Where are they hiding?

1buffsob

i guess u could look for one in a gym...
one that knows what she does, though

[Katelette81]

I definitely believe two people have to have fitness/diet in common when it's at this level... otherwise the one who doesn't do it just won't get it and will always be fighting for time and attention that theyre not going to get, unless they lace up the runners and hit the gym too and start eating right as well. Also, what better way to live in a relationship ... you can take care of each other that way.. helping with meals, PWO nutrition, getting/giving gym tips.. it's awesome... at least in my opinion.

But I just wasn't sure of what guys thought, if you even thought about that stuff... I think really muscley guys get stereotyped as confirmed bachelors or unapproachable, or "on the market" etc.

[stunner5000pt]

I definitely believe two people have to have fitness/diet in common when it's at this level... otherwise the one who doesn't do it just won't get it and will always be fighting for time and attention that theyre not going to get, unless they lace up the runners and hit the gym too and start eating right as well. Also, what better way to live in a relationship ... you can take care of each other that way.. helping with meals, PWO nutrition, getting/giving gym tips.. it's awesome... at least in my opinion.

But I just wasn't sure of what guys thought, if you even thought about that stuff... I think really muscley guys get stereotyped as confirmed bachelors or unapproachable, or "on the market" etc.

is there any truth to this?

i have heard, and seen, muscular guys getting approached by girls, first. Quite evident with bouncers... but maybe those girls have a thing for bouncers...

[Timm1704]

But I just wasn't sure of what guys thought, if you even thought about that stuff... I think really muscley guys get stereotyped as confirmed bachelors or unapproachable, or "on the market" etc.

exactly, from what ive noticed most girls wont approach a bodybuilder. obviously its either because they dont find it attractive, or they assume we are self-obsessed, boring meatheads that know of nothing else. or, like in most cases, maybe they are just too shy. just because we strive and work to make a better body, doesnt mean we neglect other aspects of life/social behaviour

[steve0]

I agree, dieting can really be a problem if you're dating someone that doens't understand or need to. I have certain meals that I eat in a day and usually specific times as well, and gym times for that matter.. nice to be with someone who can keep a similar schedule and not pressure you to go to KFC for dinner.. blech.

It's also fun to have someone else around to keep me company when I'm planning and making my lunches for the next day... or thiers

AAA i need a woman like you !!! i posted a thread a few days back asking how im supposed to explain my lifestyle because im back in the dateing scean again after a two year relationship the person your with dosnt mind how you eat/train ect... but now its hard to find someone that will click with you when your lifestyle is diffrent than most.

[Timm1704]

is there any truth to this?

i have heard, and seen, muscular guys getting approached by girls, first. Quite evident with bouncers... but maybe those girls have a thing for bouncers...

good point. but, im a bouncer, i get lots of attention, these girls are usually drunk and have the bottle to go up and ask questions. the majority of bouncers gets attention though, its part of the job, regardless of build

[stunner5000pt]

good point. but, im a bouncer, i get lots of attention, these girls are usually drunk and have the bottle to go up and ask questions. the majority of bouncers gets attention though, its part of the job, regardless of build

then i must become a bouncer!

[Mizfit]

I will talk to someone regardless of their size if i find them attractive.

Some women are intimidated by muscular guys, just like some men are intimidated by certain aspects of women.

I don't find any of these issues in Toronto.

[Katelette81]

I agree with you Tim.. are those the type of women that guys like to be approached by? Drunk ones that need booze to get up the courage to talk to a guy, regardless of how massive his muscles may or may not be? LOL

I jsut know that most of the body builder-ish gusy that I know are single, I'm not too sure as to why, i'm not gonn ask them... so I'm asking you guys! Haha.

If the guy I'm seeing works out hard, eats right .. basically has the same lifestyle I do.. and looks like you guys, you'd better believe I"m gonna take care of him... lunches, dinners, shakes.. whatever it takes.. but I like to be needed/wanted... especially when you have that stuff in common, makes it more fun. Of course it's 50/50 though, it has to be balanced or it won't work..

[BADASS323]

a woman who act's like a woman,no matter what phisical trates she may posess.my wife is not what people on this board would consider fit.although i find her to be a sexy well minded woman.i consider any man too be lucky to find and settle down with a woman who is not SYKO!!!!

[Mizfit]

There has to be a balance between feminity and muscularity.

[G-1000]

Female bodybuilder are to big.


Female fitness is good.

[Mizfit]

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