Have you ever started a conversation with someone

[Mizfit]

And knew it could go bad or good and really didn't know how to steer it back in the right direction?

[biglouie250]

usually those conversations involve speaking with the opposite sex. something gets lost in the translation.

[Prada]

Personally I've always been a good "bullshiter" so I could sway the conversation either way. Confidence helps.

[Hackamaniac]

I hate it when you start a conversation and it's just perfect then for some reason it goes south and you feel awkward as hell.

[Mizfit]

I hate it when you start a conversation and it's just perfect then for some reason it goes south and you feel awkward as hell.

Bingo you got it on the nail

[DDDNTZ]

Bingo you got it on the nail

Right on the nail eh

[Hackamaniac]

Bingo you got it on the nail

It's happened a few times and I just want to get the fack out of there it's so weriod how a conversation can change so fast.

[firmechicano831]

all the time, thats my job. Realtor

[taiboxa]

oh man i love it when im talking w/ my woman about somethign funny and we both giddy all of a sudden she brings up my ex wife and outta spite i say somethinglike coulda been worse and i name something from her past..


MAN those were the times!

[Pooks]

I've been told many times i'm a great conversationist..
but there are times... 2 pop up in my mind real quick.. one a couple years ago, and one actually a few days ago.. where basically i took dumb big risks with the subject.. and both ended up in convo failure/tortourous misery LOL

Basically don't tell people things that you would only tell people u knew for years LOL. it yields high risk\very low reward. 2nd don't be an asshole even if u think u might be able to get away with it, unless u really know the person well.

[taiboxa]

yeah like.. ur a ninja and going to stalk/kill them in 2 yrs?

[Pooks]

yeah like.. ur a ninja and going to stalk/kill them in 2 yrs?

YES! but every ninja knows u got to be stealthy!

so DOH!.... telling them DUMB! DUMB! DUMB!
easy to guess.. no second date..
no second date means no third date..
no third date means no date in 2years where u stalk/kill em.. DOH!

[taiboxa]

YES! but every ninja knows u got to be stealthy!

so DOH!.... telling them DUMB! DUMB! DUMB!
easy to guess.. no second date..
no second date means no third date..
no third date means no date in 2years where u stalk/kill em.. DOH!

but hunting in cameo is so much easier than hunting in bright orange vest..
just making the hunt more fun? ><

[Rob]

the topic of sex and my parents gets akward

[RA]

I just quickly move on to something else. It still feels like a let down.

[stee]

never had that problem my parents only had sex twice, funny enough they concieved my sister and i during.

[Tren Bull]

And knew it could go bad or good and really didn't know how to steer it back in the right direction?

haha yea, thats how 40% of all male conversations go. hostilities cause drama even when you're trying to avoid it

[taiboxa]

the topic of sex and my parents gets akward

OMG
u think thats awkward CHECK THIS OUT
ok
in the end of my marriage my wife(at the time) called my parents to come over and talk to me about why it isnt working ><

we get on topic of attraction and how im not attracted to her anymore and stuff like that.

THEN MY DAD IS LIKE

ARE YOU.. GAY?!
then he is like kUZ at your age YOUR MOM and I were CRAWLING ALLLL OVER eachother!!!!


talk about awwwkward...

[Mizfit]

Well the person in question talked to me today again - note to self - when ex's contact you 2 years after you dated - it's usually not for a damn good reason

Here is an exert from today's conversation

L : hey, you get up early
me : hi u, ya I do
me : i go to the gym at 4am
L : ah, that explains it..
me : i guess ur dont sleep alot either
L : nope...
me : ahh. you thinking too much or just sleep troubles
L : hormones..lol
L : once you get a serious hard on, you have to take care of it or you won't sleep
L : lol
me : im a girl.. we don’t have that problem - we dont get hard ons
L : yes i'm well aware..lol
me : haha plus the gym helps get rid of some of my energy
L : good point

I left MSN at this point..

[taiboxa]

Well the person in question talked to me today again - note to self - when ex's contact you 2 years after you dated - it's usually not for a damn good reason

Here is an exert from today's conversation

L : hey, you get up early
me : hi u, ya I do
me : i go to the gym at 4am
L : ah, that explains it..
me : i guess ur dont sleep alot either
L : nope...
me : ahh. you thinking too much or just sleep troubles
L : hormones..lol
L : once you get a serious hard on, you have to take care of it or you won't sleep
L : lol
me : im a girl.. we don’t have that problem - we dont get hard ons
L : yes i'm well aware..lol
me : haha plus the gym helps get rid of some of my energy
L : good point

I left MSN at this point..

WOMEN DOO TOO get MICROBONERS!

[Mizfit]

WOMEN DOO TOO get MICROBONERS!

hahaha well we get fuller..

[Oki-Des]

I think the worst time I can think of was when I caught my ex girlfriend in bed with another hot chick! Things could have worked out alot better for me if I didnt screw things up from my obvious immediate anger. I tried to play it off, but could not get things back on track. As I mentioned she is now my ex. She would have been anyway, but I wish I had better memories or her and her friend.

[oldman]

that reminds me of a conversation I had with my wife the other day.. she was telling me she loved me and I slipped and said "Look at that chicks tits.. WOW!!" The conversation went south for some reason.


J/K


I have had conversations in business that I was trying to explain something and went way off track and lost a deal.. One time in particular I was talking to a new client about their website and what I could do for them.. Things were going great and I said "well I know we can make the site look much more professional than what you currently have" she came back and said.. "I built that site myself" ooops.. insert foot in mouth.. I was like.. ummm.. well it's not that bad since you don't have much time to work on it.. ummm ummm. Well over all it worked out fine and they have been a client for almost 5 years now.

~Old

[IBdmfkr]

Hmm... sounds like he was calling for a bootycall Missy......... and got denied. lol

[stunner5000pt]

Well the person in question talked to me today again - note to self - when ex's contact you 2 years after you dated - it's usually not for a damn good reason

Here is an exert from today's conversation

L : hey, you get up early
me : hi u, ya I do
me : i go to the gym at 4am
L : ah, that explains it..
me : i guess ur dont sleep alot either
L : nope...
me : ahh. you thinking too much or just sleep troubles
L : hormones..lol
L : once you get a serious hard on, you have to take care of it or you won't sleep
L : lol
me : im a girl.. we don’t have that problem - we dont get hard ons
L : yes i'm well aware..lol
me : haha plus the gym helps get rid of some of my energy
L : good point

I left MSN at this point..

did you leave MSN because you were disgusted, or you had to satisfy your own craving ?

[Rob]

that bastard...

flirting with my mizzy

[Mizfit]

did you leave MSN because you were disgusted, or you had to satisfy your own craving ?

Funny boy.. i didnt know what to say...but i wasn't gonan coerse him into providing more details.

[Mizfit]

that bastard...

flirting with my mizzy

well we dated..
and i told him i had a boyfriend. i think he wanted to see if i would take the bate..

There was more the night before..

[Hackamaniac]

what a looser but give him an A+ for trying

[Flagg]

Hmm, once an ex always an ex. I dunno how people can stay in contact with their exes afterwards and be "friends".

[Hackamaniac]

ex's can be fun for a night or two

[Mizfit]

Hmm, once an ex always an ex. I dunno how people can stay in contact with their exes afterwards and be "friends".

he found me on my space.. i don't stay friends with ex's.

It's not fair to their replacement

[TADOLFI]

i don't stay friends with ex's.

It's not fair to their replacement

Well said!
Your situation is a perfect example of what some people call
"The Hex of the Ex"
You can't get away from them!

I say good call on leaving the convo.

[stayinstacked]

internet shit dont count, people talk shit easy behind a PC

[boxingbean]

hahaha well we get fuller..

aint it the truth......are u talkin on internet?? or at a bar or sumthing??? cuz thats usually when i say hey do u wanna go play darts?? or pool?? or leave...or if she starts it, n im not interested, ill say, hey i gotta tellyou, my friend is probly pissed cuz he been eyeing you, and ill intro them and dip!!!!!!!

[taiboxa]

internet shit dont count, people talk shit easy behind a PC

oh can it FATTY!

[stunner5000pt]

Funny boy.. i didnt know what to say...but i wasn't gonan coerse him into providing more details.

im not THAT young you know...

i know this is cliche but
ive been told that i look older.. about 24 - 25...
i wonder if i am supposed to take that as a compliment or an insult
i just stand there and go

[Mizfit]

im not THAT young you know...

i know this is cliche but
ive been told that i look older.. about 24 - 25...
i wonder if i am supposed to take that as a compliment or an insult
i just stand there and go

I'm told i look 24 or 25 too..

cool huh

[stunner5000pt]

I'm told i look 24 or 25 too..

cool huh

[Flagg]

I'm told I look younger than my age which is WAY better than looking older than your age.