sooooo Im gonna lose it

[needmorestrength]

So my gf just moved into a new place. On her one of her shelfs shes got a bunch of pictures.. Shes got a lot of guys friends which I am ok with but... theres this guy who is in england, and used to work with her ( he moved over to england about a year ago)... well he's sent her 6 dozen roses at one time, presents etc, he knows that shes with someone aka me.. yet he doesn this... I know she has no interest in him, and they used to be great friends... but.. theres a picture on her shelf, and I just lost it... Was I justified or should I chill? Were both sitting in the same room and havn't spoke in 40 mins

[SwoleCat]

If she loves you she should get rid of that shit.

I'd have already destroyed the picture myself.

~SC~

[taiboxa]

If she loves you she should get rid of that shit.

I'd have already destroyed the picture myself.

~SC~

yep
breaking stuff.. soo theraputic..
go over there now and BReAK IT
and go GRRRrrr!!
BITCH!.. I LOVE YOU!
(if you have seen turrets guy u knwo what im talking about)

[juiceboxxx]

just tell her I trust you but not him. I dont care if you have guy friends but get rid of this dudes pic cuz it hurts me for you to have it up. Like SC said, if she likes you she will do as you say its not a big deal afetr all...

Say it aint cuz your insecure cuz u let her have guy friends and put their pics up etc....but this guy had a history of trying to get with you, show interest towards you etc.. so there for it makes me worried and hurt to see his pic up "even though I trust you"

[hardgainer12]

If she loves you she should get rid of that shit.

I'd have already destroyed the picture myself.

~SC~

true true. simply out of respect for u, she should get rid of it

[Rob]

she should do that but...

i wouldnt of went apeshit

jealousy is the worst trait one can have, so is needyness.

Act as if you dont care....and you shouldnt, if shes truely in love with you and has no interest in him.

[SwoleCat]

Imagine if you had pics of women who would shower you w/gifts?

Would she stand for that?

Never.....

~SC~

[Rob]

I remember my ex had a few pics of her exes in her room...

i never said anything about it...i didnt act jealous or even point those pics out.

I had so much hand in that relationship

[SwoleCat]

she should do that but...

i wouldnt of went apeshit

jealousy is the worst trait one can have, so is needyness.

Act as if you dont care....and you shouldnt, if shes truely in love with you and has no interest in him.

If they are a new couple just getting together, that's one thing and would be jealousy.

However, if they are in love and have a relationship, it's just blatant disrespect.

~SC~

[Rob]

agreed

im still young, and playing 'games' as one would say

when it comes in all seriousness, pic shouldnt be there

[squatdaddy]

don't know man, taking a different approach here, there is a real simple truth here... if she is going to cheat on you, she will...doesn't matter if you b*tch and complain, jealous or not jealous, doesn't matter how much energy you put into your feelings... you already stated that you don't think she will cheat on you, if it really bugs you, I guess mention it but otherwise don't sweat the small stuff, it will only make you a person you don't want to be... if she cheats, kick her to the curb, otherwise, enjoy the ride.

[SwoleCat]

Freakin' women man, see, it's ALWAYS their fault!



~SC~

[Katelette81]

Freakin' women man, see, it's ALWAYS their fault!



~SC~

Now theres a comment that takes a large set.. LOL

but for serious... I agree with Swole's other comments... it is a sign of disrespect, if she wants attention like that she should be looking to you, not other guys.

[SwoleCat]

Yeah, I was only jokin' w/the women/fault comment of course!

~SC~

[taiboxa]

i say u pick a fight w/ da English man!
PISTOLS AT DAWN!
make sure u wear ur lucky helmet!

[needmorestrength]

Imagine if you had pics of women who would shower you w/gifts?

Would she stand for that?

Never.....

~SC~

ugh well maybe thats where the problem lies... one of my ex's seems to be trying pretty hard lately. I believe it to be a friendship, but my girl thinks more

[taiboxa]

ugh well maybe thats where the problem lies... one of my ex's seems to be trying pretty hard lately. I believe it to be a friendship, but my girl thinks more

contact w/ EX's should be minimal if ur in a true relationship.. but that could just be me
but i wouldnt want my woman all freindly w/ a guy who boned her ><

[chest6]

That aint good man. My old ex had like 2-3 pics up on her massive picture wall and she wouldnt take them down when I asked nicely like twice so I just tore them up and she went all crazy..so I brought all my pics back from my ex and put them up Needless to say she got all pissed and walked home..rofl thats how women are though...

[needmorestrength]

contact w/ EX's should be minimal if ur in a true relationship.. but that could just be me
but i wouldnt want my woman all freindly w/ a guy who boned her ><

well shes a virgin so i dont have to worry bout that

[needmorestrength]

Now theres a comment that takes a large set.. LOL

but for serious... I agree with Swole's other comments... it is a sign of disrespect, if she wants attention like that she should be looking to you, not other guys.

I know.. shes got her registered nursing exam this week... Im going to wait till after that and then lay down the law

[HORSE~]

well shes a virgin so i dont have to worry bout that

Can you help her fix that problem??

If so fix it real good!!!!

[taiboxa]

I know.. shes got her registered nursing exam this week... Im going to wait till after that and then lay down the law

i be waiting for that thread in a week!

[firmechicano831]

Just start putting all your exs pictures up as well. See what she says

[Mizfit]

she should do that but...

i wouldnt of went apeshit

jealousy is the worst trait one can have, so is needyness.

Act as if you dont care....and you shouldnt, if shes truely in love with you and has no interest in him.

Agreed.

all my pictures are in a box.. No one needs to see the past life of someone they are dating

[taiboxa]

she should do that but...

i wouldnt of went apeshit

jealousy is the worst trait one can have, so is needyness.

Act as if you dont care....and you shouldnt, if shes truely in love with you and has no interest in him.

im neeedy

[Timm1704]

i agree wholeheartedly with squatdaddys and mizfits comments. there is no need to have pics up and around the house of exes, and i would understand if a woman i was dating saw her arse over the whole thing. BUT, myself, lately, do not show my jealousy one bit, like Rob. i would not have gone apeshit, and would not have ripped them up or even touched them, it is not my place or property. if a girl did that to my pictures, it would do her more harm than good as far as a relationship goes. like squatdaddy says, if she is gonna cheat, she is gonna cheat. what is the point in trying to stop them? in my mind, its not the actual cheating that is a problem, its the fact that she either wants to, or will when she gets a good offer.

[Mizfit]

You also can't ask someone to make the past disappear either.. The best thing to do is put thme in a box where no one can find them.

[Anabolios]

girls always get to do stuff but if i guy did it theyd flip...i say you throw a hot "spot of tea" in that english guys face and then beat him senseless with a spice girls cd

[Tren Bull]

imo the best thing to do in a relationship is have total blind faith that your girl is being faithfull...

unless you have a legit reason to believe she is cheating on you

[needmorestrength]

haha K, recap... theres no doubt in my mind that shes faithful, this guy was one of her best friends, and for the first couple months of our relationship he would not respect us ( he kept asking her out, sending her flowers).. she laid it out for him they got in a huge fight and didnt talk for a few months, well I just noticed this picture on her shelf yesterday, and I thought it was a bit disrespectful, so I told her that this morning, and she understood!

[Tren Bull]

haha K, recap... theres no doubt in my mind that shes faithful, this guy was one of her best friends, and for the first couple months of our relationship he would not respect us ( he kept asking her out, sending her flowers).. she laid it out for him they got in a huge fight and didnt talk for a few months, well I just noticed this picture on her shelf yesterday, and I thought it was a bit disrespectful, so I told her that this morning, and she understood!

sounds like this punk is the one with the problem bro



give me his adress and il go put some fear in him

[needmorestrength]

sounds like this punk is the one with the problem bro



give me his adress and il go put some fear in him

yea man unfortunatly hes in England... hahah... he just wouldnt leave her alone, I mean when a girl says im madly in love with him (me), and if you dont stop its going to ruin our friendship, most guys would lay off lol

[Tren Bull]

yea man unfortunatly hes in England... hahah... he just wouldnt leave her alone, I mean when a girl says im madly in love with him (me), and if you dont stop its going to ruin our friendship, most guys would lay off lol

you would think so... maybe hes not the sharpest tool in the shed

[needmorestrength]

you would think so... maybe hes not the sharpest tool in the shed

well he is from england hahahahah JJ..... yea whatever I was just overly touchy last night and over reacted

[Timm1704]

well he is from england hahahahah JJ..... yea whatever I was just overly touchy last night and over reacted

dude, why u hating on england? ozzy osbourne is from england! oh..... i see

[needmorestrength]

dude, why u hating on england? ozzy osbourne is from england! oh..... i see

LOL... no hating enfland actually bud, my mom's from there!!! Just hating on this particular tea dinking crumpet eating beatch lol

[Timm1704]

hahaha, well, with all the recent gun and knife crime going down over here mate, any of us in this quaint little country of ours could find our lives to be out of season at any time lol, he may be out of your hair for good!

[boxingbean]

yes....just take it.........toss in toilet.. pee on it

then tell her....if she grabs it and cleans it.......*GET RID OF HER
if she says your a prick and leaves.......*KEEP HER

JMO

[needmorestrength]

hahaha, well, with all the recent gun and knife crime going down over here mate, any of us in this quaint little country of ours could find our lives to be out of season at any time lol, he may be out of your hair for good!

[OSTIE]

If she loves you she should get rid of that shit.

I'd have already destroyed the picture myself.

~SC~

Swoles right... if she really loves u, she wouldnt be parading this sht... she is either CRAZY and not the one, or she feels something is missing from ur relationship, which means she could be posting up these oldschool pictures to get u pissed and maybe have u open up to her??? if shes doing it for the fck of it... dump her @ss on the curb cause shes crazy... its already been stated, but when is it alright for a guy to decorate his room with past female conquests???????