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    Unhappy Ok, so I'm 25, dating a 36 year old woman...

    But she is smokin'...
    This girl's hot, but she has two 16 year old twins, going through a divorce, and well, is 11 years older than me..

    Has anyone else ever dated a much older woman,or been in a similar situation?

    We like each other and she's great, but i aint marrying her.. i figure we're just kinda helping each other out (if that makes sense)..

    So, what do you guys think? should i end it and find someone younger and with no kids? or keep on bangin' her? knowing the longer we're together the more we will like each other and thus, making it more difficult for us to end it in the future.

    oh yea, i have no kids by the way.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tazwell
    But she is smokin'...
    This girl's hot, but she has two 16 year old twins, going through a divorce, and well, is 11 years older than me..

    Has anyone else ever dated a much older woman,or been in a similar situation?

    We like each other and she's great, but i aint marrying her.. i figure we're just kinda helping each other out (if that makes sense)..

    So, what do you guys think? should i end it and find someone younger and with no kids? or keep on enjoying being with her? knowing the longer we're together the more we will like each other and thus, making it more difficult for us to end it in the future.

    oh yea, i have no kids by the way.
    Man, I thought I was bad when I dated a mom with a 3 year old....but 16 year old twins? Lol, this is one place I wont advise you one way or the other.. All I'll say is that I decided to go back to the younger chicks and leave those older women to the 40 year old mid life crisis guys with red sports cars......

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    I'd date her for two more years, then try to get into a threesome with the then two 18 year old twins.

    Win win!

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    lol .. are you "dating her" or are you shall we say friends with benefits? very different situations. I had my self a friend with benefits she was 38 i was 29 when it started i made it clear up front that that was all it was ... worked for a while bout a year then she wanted more of course that was it for me .. i tell you what there is a reason old men with money have 21 year old trophy wives hahhahh i say hit it until you become tired of it or actual feelings develop.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SwoleCat
    I'd date her for two more years, then try to get into a threesome with the then two 18 year old twins.

    Win win!

    ~SC~
    haha.. you aint lying.. one of the girls is gonna be real pretty.

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    ... you know you are probably over thinking things. If she is going through a divorce i seroiusly doubt she is looking at you as anything more than a casual "relationship". Let things play out....worry about things when they come up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ProtienShak3
    lol .. are you "dating her" or are you shall we say friends with benefits? very different situations. I had my self a friend with benefits she was 38 i was 29 when it started i made it clear up front that that was all it was ... worked for a while bout a year then she wanted more of course that was it for me .. i tell you what there is a reason old men with money have 21 year old trophy wives hahhahh i say hit it until you become tired of it or actual feelings develop.
    i guess dating.. i don't sleep around, nor do i like my girls to..

    so, after a year did you get too "attached" to her? that's what i don't want.. i know we're going to have to end it eventually. I don't want to get all sad and shizt over it, i can deal with missing her but not being sad over her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tazwell
    i guess dating.. i don't sleep around, nor do i like my girls to..

    so, after a year did you get too "attached" to her? that's what i don't want.. i know we're going to have to end it eventually. I don't want to get all sad and shizt over it, i can deal with missing her but not being sad over her.
    im a man i have the ability to seperate love from sex hahhahaha ...*pokes all women in the ribs*

    you cant really control how you feel about someone so if feelings had developed im sure i would still be with her as she was all over me for that in the end..

    the kids situation im sure is awkward i say f it do watcha like if your like me and dont have a problem tellin a chick that your done with her then dont worry if youre afraid of developing feelings for her and then having the akward 2 16 yr old daughter and mom/dad divorce ... err yea whatever if you dont wanna deal with that dont get involved otherwise you might be in for a tough time should you wind up getting emotionally attached to the woman.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SwoleCat
    I'd date her for two more years, then try to get into a threesome with the then two 18 year old twins.

    Win win!

    ~SC~
    Pffft!!

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    Been there, I've been with alot of girls/women older than me. Sometimes many years older than me. Thats what I always seem to end up with

    I don't always take heed in "rules" so to speak...If you luv this woman or see yourself luv'en this woman, do it.

    Before I was a single parent myself, I had some issues with other guys kids. It has never really stopped me from going for it. Now, it certainly is not an issue unless there is some crazy drama involved...I wouldn't want to be passed up by someone just because I have what some would call "baggage". especially a potential life partner.





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    In order for it to be a successful casual relationship there has to be a mutual understnading of exactly what it is... but even then, if it goes on for a long time theres a possibility that feelings will get in volved, putingg one or both of you at risk for getting hurt. If you want to avoid this I would reconsider, since you already know theres no future with this woman. And don't forget, she has children to consider... they're old enough to know whats going on, and may always remember it.. that's weird. I mean, it's their mother afterall..

    But if you're confident you can keep it under control and the sex rocks then by all means continue... IL'm interested in how you even got involved with this person..

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    My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me - there r no problems

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    Quote Originally Posted by SwoleCat
    I'd date her for two more years, then try to get into a threesome with the then two 18 year old twins.

    Win win!

    ~SC~

    puhahaha thats priceless

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    you need to keep banging her. She is 36 and at the peak of her sex drive, she's going to be awesome in bed!!! And dont worry bro, this chick is thinking the same thing you are, he's 11 years younger than me and isnt ready to take on my kids too!!! Just be forwarned, it wont last forever, and sooner or later some guy will come along who is established,older, and ready for a relationship with her. When it happens, dont get mad, because when they break up she'll be calling you up again for more ass. I know all this from experience, please take my advice!!!

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    that's funny i just started "dating" a 32 year-old (I'm 19). She is very hot, too. I just think a long-term relationship is a bad idea, she'll be dead like 15 years before you will - and women don't age as well as men so after about 10 years you'll be looking for someone new. Keep banging her if you want but make it clear that you don't share a future together... as for her twins, though i'm with SwoleCat!

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    Quote Originally Posted by stayinstacked
    you need to keep banging her. She is 36 and at the peak of her sex drive, she's going to be awesome in bed!!!
    Thats what I was thinkin'... a woman at that age is like a guy in his early twenties.
    Sex drive is high and she doesn't want to feel old... make her feel young dude!

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    ive recently started seeing an older woman, who has 2 kids. i am 21, she is 30, which doesnt bother me, and i didnt think the kid situation would bother me. but, saturday night i slept over her house, and was woken up in the morning by her really cute 2 year old. im not sure why, but it really freaked me out. also, it was like our third date, and she already has said afew things that make me think she gets very, VERY quickly attached. i thought i really liked her, and now im unsure

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    Quote Originally Posted by SwoleCat
    I'd date her for two more years, then try to get into a threesome with the then two 18 year old twins.

    Win win!

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    thats amazing

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    Quote Originally Posted by SwoleCat
    I'd date her for two more years, then try to get into a threesome with the then two 18 year old twins.

    Win win!

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    holy shit i about spit my drink all over the screen.

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    My GF is almost 8 years older than me, and we are getting married in the spring.

    I'd continue dating her. Then as Swole said once the teens are legal, time to upgrade to a newer model(s).

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    Quote Originally Posted by SwoleCat
    I'd date her for two more years, then try to get into a threesome with the then two 18 year old twins.

    Win win!

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    bwahahaa. Quote of the week!

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    Quote Originally Posted by SwoleCat
    I'd date her for two more years, then try to get into a threesome with the then two 18 year old twins.

    Win win!

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    awesome idea there

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    if she's ok with it then go for it. but i wouldn't just see her exclusively because it probly won't work out. she's not even divorced yet is she? and if she's going through that she probly has her own issues to work out before she can be serious.
    it would just be a waste of time for you.

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    im 20....trying to get with a 30 yr old...

    guess who she is


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    older women are ace in bed,most younguns are shite but with guidence amazing things can happen,the only thing about older women is fat/stretch marks/wrinkley and everythings heading south.

    and someone needs to throw cold water over robs head!

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    older women are great im 22 and been with a 35 yr old with kids but she was still married

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tazwell
    But she is smokin'...
    This girl's hot, but she has two 16 year old twins, going through a divorce, and well, is 11 years older than me..

    Has anyone else ever dated a much older woman,or been in a similar situation?

    We like each other and she's great, but i aint marrying her.. i figure we're just kinda helping each other out (if that makes sense)..

    So, what do you guys think? should i end it and find someone younger and with no kids? or keep on bangin' her? knowing the longer we're together the more we will like each other and thus, making it more difficult for us to end it in the future.

    oh yea, i have no kids by the way.
    Where's the pb?

    I was 21 two years ago and dated a 37 turning 38 the day i first jumped her.
    Divorced/Two young girls/ new husband around across the street i was living, himself knowing me very well, becoming kinda my "best friend ever"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rob
    im 20....trying to get with a 30 yr old...

    guess who she is

    May i say........Miz

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    great advice thanks guys..

    i agree about the sex.. she is definitely a tomcat in bed and very kinky too.

    i met her through work she is a client, we were just friends for about six moths.. then she left her husband, got a boy friend then broke up with her boyfriend.. i was getting off of work one day when i ran into her, nothing unusual, but since she wasn't with anyone we went out for some drinks and just hit it off.. it was nothing planed at all.. i always knew she was hot but never actually thought about asking her out.

    i just told her today i don't think it's ever going to get serious.. she took it well and thinks it's better that way.. she said it hurt her a little, but don't know why (wtf).

    oh well, sometimes it just seems that women with kids grow out of that, "girls just wanna have fun" faze, are more down to earth, and know how to treat a guy.

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    A 38 year old and 2 16 year olds, sounds like lots of fun. You are living Bro

    Just do not get all wrapped up, she will blow your ass out when her divorce is over and she settles down. Have fun while you can

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    Keep banging her if its good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SwoleCat
    I'd date her for two more years, then try to get into a threesome with the then two 18 year old twins.

    Win win!

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    that's wicked

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