Thread: is she cheatin?
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06-27-2006, 03:44 AM #121Originally Posted by ascendant
I called the guy and I was getting the vibe that if I was blunt with him he was going to take it as I was provoking him, so I just left it at "your wife is telling me your divoriced/seperated and she is available"...The dumbass swears that she would'nt date me??? go figure.
So basically she came back crying and lying the whole nine yards.....I figure this shes either telling the truth (yea right) or wanting some more pain.
Ill just get some incriminating photos up on myspace and let him make his own call.
At this point I just dont give two shits about her anymore it's more of a game. She better not say a dam thing about me putting photos of "US" on Myspace h ah ha ha ha
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Originally Posted by Rookie1974
Ask her if its ok for you to watch.
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06-27-2006, 08:18 AM #124
Gut Feelings..
Originally Posted by Rookie1974
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06-28-2006, 03:56 PM #125Originally Posted by Rookie1974
after you make the video, and i do mean after so you have some ammo first, then here's a surefire way to see if she's lying or her husband/ex-husband is... simply tell her to call him on her cellphone and put it on speakerphone and have her ask him right in front of you why he's lying and saying they're still together. if she refuses, then 99.9% guaranteed she's lying. if she does it, then obviously he wouldn't lie to her and then you caught him in a lie. either way, one of them is lying here, but things aren't looking good for her. be easy about asking her for this, but just tell her with all that's been going on, you need some reassurance. though it may upset her, seems it would be the best option at this point for unquestionable confirmation of the truth on this matter for you.
if you really like this girl, get that video made up first, then do what i mentioned above. don't just toss the relationship and give him the satisfaction of chasing you away from what might actually be his ex that he's still trying to keep men away from.
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06-28-2006, 04:00 PM #126Originally Posted by style74
to give a great example of why you can't always trust your gut, let me tell you about a devastating experience a friend of mine went through. long story short, he had been with this one girl for about 3 years and was planning on proposing to her. well, he was real nervous cause he wanted it to be perfect and didn't want her to suspect what he was planning. so, she took this as him acting suspicious for a couple weeks as he tried to put things together. there were also phone calls being made to his phone for reservations and things he'd ordered and the like that he'd ignore while around her. so, she "trusted her gut" and took it as he was cheating on her.
well, literally the day before he was about to propose, she broke up with him. there is a lot more to the story, but just trying to give an example of why it's not always a good idea to just trust your gut, and keeping open communication can save you a lot of pain and trouble. just when suspicious things come up, you gotta look into it and make sure it's all still good.
if anything, don't trust your gut, trust your heart. if your heart tells you it's worth holding onto the relationship and waiting till you learn the truth, then do so. to be honest though, from what i've seen of you telling us about her, it doesn't seem as if you have a very strong connection with this girl or else there wouldn't be so many trust issues here.
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06-28-2006, 04:43 PM #127Originally Posted by ascendant
Man this s*** is getting deep. The sacary thing is he knew when she was gone two weeks ago, and when she was in chicago, what she did, and shes telling me he knows about the tat on her arm.....no way! Somthings up.
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06-28-2006, 05:03 PM #128Originally Posted by ascendant
The thing is if she was any of the other girls I've dated over the years, Id have not thought twice about dumping her or for that matter careing a whole lot (as long as she was putting out for me). The truth is, I started dating this girl cuz, she was the type of person I could see being a "life partner". we have similar value systems, ambitions, drives, the sex is great, and Im completely dum-founded when she gives me attention. Im 32, dating is not new, and I'v never liked somone soo much.
When this happend, It beat me up pretty good. She wants to work it out and Im kind of figuring: Ok, I cant walk away without knowing the truth. It would be one of those life regrets. We have gotten to the point that neither of us wants to beat this anymore...to keep asking questions WILL destroy the relationship.
as you say Im going to get illrefutable proof that she is dating/fooling around with me. Webcam, and whatever else I can think of......Ill wait and see what happens. I suspect if he is seeing her (she says she's going to Houston with her mom this weekend to see her sister, he says he's comming down to see her) he will put pics on My Space.Last edited by Rookie1974; 06-28-2006 at 05:21 PM.
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06-28-2006, 05:11 PM #129
Gut..
Originally Posted by ascendant
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06-28-2006, 06:14 PM #130Originally Posted by style74
i will admit, many times your gut feeling will be right, but i just had to disagree with your remark on it always being right. there are circumstances where it can be completely wrong. the point of my story was if you just follow your gut, sometimes it can ruin something that could've been great if you had just been more communicative rather than just assuming your gut was right.
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06-28-2006, 06:25 PM #131
Hey..
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