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I got a funny feeling about this....doing things that she normaly does'nt do, like hanging with her sister all day....going to 3 dentist appointments (one 2 hours out of town) for a sore tooth and now not anwsering her phone.
would you
1. confront her
2. be patient and see what happens
3. drop her like a hot penny
Grade A Beef
Depends on what kind of person she is. You know if you can trust her or not if you have spent much time with her.
Banned
how long u been dating
Banned
for the record.. i have 3 dentists appointments.. in a few weeks
Grade A Beef
Originally Posted by Mizfit
So thats the code phrase?
Banned
nope i have a gum doctor appointment and then a dentist appointment and back to the gum dudeSo thats the code phrase?
Senior Member
#2) till you get more proof... then #1) which she will deny, so follow it up with #3) all in that order...
hopefully it isnt true though bro
Associate Member
SOunds like she is startin to loose interest with spending time with you, an that means she could be lookin else where, but you never know... how long you been dateing, and how long has this been goin on...
Anabolic Member
dude, do what any repsectable guy would do. get a buddies car and tail her!
Senior Member
she might be having personal issues and not telling you. might be doctors rather than dentists but she doesn't want to get you worried. might be confiding in her sister about it.
one thing you can do is tell her that sometimes her phone doesn't work and ask for her sisters cell phone # so you can contact her through her sister in case of an emergency if you can't reach her at her phone. if she doesn't want to give it to you, somethings sketchy there.
you could also try calling the sister and ask her if everything is ok with your girl. just tell her she's been acting different lately and that you know she's been hanging out with her a lot and want to make sure she's ok.
also make sure to keep track of all her stories and ask her later again where she was or what she did. if stories don't match up, then confront her about that.
what is her reasoning for going to the dentist so much? also, though this is a bit underhanded, if you really feel she may be cheating, take a look at her cell phone when she's not around and see if there's any #'s in there that aren't familiar.
if you really want to make sure you could have a friend follow her in a car she doesn't know and make sure she's going where she says she is. though this seems extreme, sometimes that's the kind of thing it takes to catch someone. i had to do that for a friend once and found out the girl was indeed cheating on him and if it weren't for me doing that for him, who knows how long it would've taken him to find out for sure.
Senior Member
It definitely depends on how long you have been dating and how serious it really is, but it sounds a little suspicious.
Senior Member
Or next supposedly dentist appt. Call to confirm the date for her and if they are clueless on wtf ur talkin about, you have your answer
Senior Member
Reminds me of a couple of weeks ago though, my friend had me and my other guy tail is live-in gf after they had a big fight.... she enough, she was parked outside her ex-bf's house, so I took a picture then went to my guys house and put the picture AS HER DESKTOP WALLPAPER....
Associate Member
Ahhh The Albert Bell approach HAHAHA
Associate Member
Slap ah bitch....
Associate Member
Ive been dating her for 2 months or so....and she's been a study buddy (no, real studying) for 10 months or so. We both have a big test comming up, so for her to be busy is not that odd.....but like Ive said we have been studying together for 10 months and never has she dropped studing to "hang" out with her sister...its just not normal for her.
"Vanity Redefined" ~VET~
shiv her in da kidney!
Associate Member
Furthermore, Driving 2 hours for a dental appointment, "hanging-out" before a big test.......
Her phone rings several times this morn.....Now it just goes to voicemail...
Very strange
Anabolic Member
it worked well for him right? i mean restraining orders are just another way of saying i love you!!!
or you could to the tai approach, get into all black full ninja suit and jump from building to building following her all stealth. that is a fool proof plan!
Only The Strong Survive
simple answer. if you think shes cheating, she is...
Grade A Beef
Yeah, according to the stats your probably right.
Associate Member
This has been my experience
Only The Strong Survive
too many girls that i had that feeling about and it was true.. good thing i got a good girl now..dont gotta deal with that bs..
Associate Member
Its a bit humiliating to think that this may be one of our classmates, which means he knows and several others may also, that she is playing me for a fool.
Last edited by Rookie1974; 06-09-2006 at 02:03 PM.
Member
that is serioud ownage. nice!Reminds me of a couple of weeks ago though, my friend had me and my other guy tail is live-in gf after they had a big fight.... she enough, she was parked outside her ex-bf's house, so I took a picture then went to my guys house and put the picture AS HER DESKTOP WALLPAPER....
Member
agreed. girls are way better at lying then us guys.
Banned
Bang one of her friends just in case!!!
Grade A Beef
We've all been there. fuvk what they think.
Associate Member
Nice....Bang one of her friends just in case!!!
Anabolic Member
if you have suspicions there are 2 common things with that...
1) if you are doubting her then she probably is cheating on you
2) if she's not cheating on you, then you don't trust her, in which might as well break up with her anyway.
Banned
My philosophy is this;
I don't even stress about it. If she's gonna cheat, she's gonna cheat! And there ain't nothin you can do about it. I fell in love once and I can do it again!
Junior Member
i agree with diamonds, never been cheated on, but ill say this much, knowing myself, i wouldnt even confront her, just dump her and find another girl who you can trust and doesnt just act shady all of a sudden (but this also has to do with how long you have been together as well)....but dont even risk it bro. just find another chick
Anabolic Member
definitley confront her about it. then take the albert belle approach. good ol homing beacon on her car!!!
Grade A Beef
Yeah, he does this and later finds out that she was sneaking around to plan a b-day bash for him or something..
Junior Member
but the cell phone thing? thats pretty shady...
Grade A Beef
Yeah, what I was describing would be in a movie. There they actually portray women as good.
Senior Member
homey, you've been dating her for two months... drop her, especially if she's makin you look like a tool to your other classmates. someone else said it best, either she's cheating on you and its time to take out the garbage, or she's not but you don't trust her and its time to take out the garbage. two months is nothin to stress over. get out now before the decision gets weighty.
werd
Female Member
I suggest you listen to you instincts, theyr'e called that for a reason. And in my experiences, mine have usually been right... whether or not I chose to listen is a different matter..haha. But I woudl say the not answering her phone is key.. especially if you've never had trouble getting a hold of her previous to this.
I say take the matter in to your own hands and just talk to her, tell her you're concerned and jsut have a normal chat with her about it.. mayeb she'll open up if she feels comfortable. But go easy, you don't know the reason.. could be legit afterall.
Good luck!
Anabolic Member
Don't worry! They all come home sooner or later. It
takes 2 to make a relationship. If this continues you
might want to think about making some changes.
AR'S BAD ATTITUDE
bro.,if something seems fishy it usually is...confront her. dont be played the fool.sorry
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