Smak's in another Dilemma. I need HELP!

[Smak]

Hey bros. I'm sort of in a dilemma and need some advice. This is a long story so bare with me.

About a month ago I met this dude at the gym. I've seen him numerous times

before in the past, but we just started talking about a month ago. Anyways,

he seemed like a friendly guy so I talked to him when he came up. It turns

out he is 31 years old, lives at home with his parents and has no girlfriend.

Before you think anything, he's definitely not gay, but he could be bi. I don't

know. I always thought he was just a lonely dude that wanted a friend so I

invited him out one night to the bar. He also told me about this restraining

order placed on him from a guy he went to high school with who is now 35.

He also works out at the same gym so one night when I was working out he

got placed in handcuffs and escorted out of the gym. I should have realized

this before I talked to him Anyways, I don't think anything of it and he kept

going out with me and my friend on the weekends to the bar/club. So now he

tells me how he's on hotornot.com and is meeting all these girls. SO he

invites me down to the stripclub to see one of the girls he met off the site.

She is cute, but has like 3 kids, been in prison and a big time coke head. So

me being dumb tells him about how he should try out a real dating service

instead of hotornot.com. So I tell him about it and he's really excited. So one

night after we lift at the gym, he wants to come over and have me set him

up on it and take some pictures of him. So he follows me over to my house

and I end up taking a few pics of him and set him up yahoo personals. I didn't

charge him anything. The pics turned out really blurry and he's not getting

any replies from the ladies. He's blaming it all on my webcam and how it

sucks. I tell him "you're glad I let you come over my fukin house and let you

take pics". Now he wants me to get a digital camera. So on with the story.

I'm just giving you a little background about this guy first. It turns out i'm

lifting at another gym in town and one of the dudes I see asks me if I hang

out with that dude because he saw me at the bar with him. I told him he kind

of tags along with us and is nice. He than tells me that he did the same fukin

thing with him about coming over and taking pics for online dating site. I was

thinkin to myself this is fukin wierd that he's done this before. He also said

that it was getting so bad that he was calling him that he was about to change his number. So anyways, after hearing this I realized I have

to put a end to this. The bad thing about this is this dude still has a pending court case with the guy who placed a restraining order on him

and is using all his money for a lawyer so he's strapped for cash. Me being stupid ends up selling him a cycle and he wants to give me 2 of his

shirts to cut down the price. The one time he came over he brings over a bunch of shirts and I cut him a deal. Now he's fukin calilng me 6

times a day and I don't pick up the phone. Doesn't he fukin get it? Why won't he leave me alone? He also calls my friend now since I don't

pick up. He was telling me he had 5 missed calls from this guy and he also doesn't pick up. He knows where I live and i'm getting pissed off for

letting him come over. A bunch of guys at the gym just told me this guy was a lunatic and I steer clear away from him. I ignored his phone

calls all weekend and he ends up showing up at the bar we're at and follows us. He already has a restraining order placed against him. I mean

i'm making him out to be a psycho killer, but he's a pretty harmless dude, but just a pest. He just won't leave me alone and it's my

parents house so I feel like I'm putting them at risk now. Also what sucks is that he works down the street from where I work and he use to work at the same place I work. This guy is a loser, but I got sucked in!! What should I do bros?

BTW he just fukin called me again after writing this!!!!

[JDawg1536]

Wow... If I were you Id make out like I was having some real big personal problems or something and are really depressed. Maybe if you make it look like you are crazy too, he wont want to bother with you. Ive dont what with a couple chicks before, and it seems to work with them. Pretty fvckin weird though if you ask me.

[Smak]

Wow... If I were you Id make out like I was having some real big personal problems or something and are really depressed. Maybe if you make it look like you are crazy too, he wont want to bother with you. Ive dont what with a couple chicks before, and it seems to work with them. Pretty fvckin weird though if you ask me.

Yea, I will try that because I don't want to change my number. I was going to tell him him straight up that you don't need to call me 6 times everyday. I will call you when I feel like it.

It sucks because he has the steroid thing on me as well. I feel like he could rat me out if I don't talk to him anymore. I was stupid for selling to him. I'm probably overthinking the possibilities, but this dude is a ****ing wierdo. It took me a while to realize this and a few people to tell me.

[kloter1]

jesus smak first its the russian webcam girl now this. i would tell this guy straight up that he needs to find a different group of friends. if he keeps on pestering you knock his fukin head in. very weird situation man.

[JDawg1536]

If you do that who knows what kind of wierd shit he would do. Got he crazy route. Just act real weird.

[G-1000]

I would just tel this guy how it is. Just be like bro i dont wish to be around you at this time. You have restraining orders on you and in and out of cort and you just dont need to be around that..

[zimmy]

I'm kinda paranoid so I usually don't allow someone to know that much about me (where i live...etc ... etc) until i feel nice and comfy (6 months + later). If i were you... i'd out and say "I don't trust you and I don't want to be your friend... don't come around... don't call me... and don't annoy me again".

Make it clear and be done with it.

[JDawg1536]

I'm kinda paranoid so I usually don't allow someone to know that much about me (where i live...etc ... etc) until i feel nice and comfy (6 months + later). If i were you... i'd out and say "I don't trust you and I don't want to be your friend... don't come around... don't call me... and don't annoy me again".

Make it clear and be done with it.

Not bad advice, but again how would you feel if someone said that to you? And now imagine you are a little bit crazy and someone said that to you. What would you feel like doin? Just a thought.

[copenhagen]

just be assertive with him, tell him straight up that there is no need for 5-6 phone calls per day. im guessing this kind of behavior is the reason he has no friends. it sounds like it is a never ending cycle with this guy.........friend, nag the piss out of them, no friend.

[zimmy]

Not bad advice, but again how would you feel if someone said that to you? And now imagine you are a little bit crazy and someone said that to you. What would you feel like doin? Just a thought.

that is a good question... unfortunately for me, i'm a straight shooter... I don't have the problem of people wanting to hang around me when i don't like em :P Seriously though...maybe a little nicer...but the fact is , if he's off... trying to be nice about it may not get through to him. Maybe he takes the comment about the court and all that as "I don't want to be hasseled with that court stuff" and he pops up later after it's done with...

be straight with him...and it will be easier to deal with him.

[Smak]

jesus smak first its the russian webcam girl now this. i would tell this guy straight up that he needs to find a different group of friends. if he keeps on pestering you knock his fukin head in. very weird situation man.

Yes man. I get in wierd situations. I attract some wierd people. Don't ask me why.

[Smak]

I would just tel this guy how it is. Just be like bro i dont wish to be around you at this time. You have restraining orders on you and in and out of cort and you just dont need to be around that..

Now this is some good advice. I'm going to try this...

[NEW_IN_THE_GAME]

i would telll him to go take a time out, and call me when he is done. lol kidding

I would straight tell him, bro you are pssing me off, why call 6 times a day. I dont answer means i dont want to talk.

My friends are nervous around you, and they want to file a restraining order.

that ought to scare him. if not, then beat his ass till he is bloody. then take another shirt, and his cycle back.

[Smak]

I'm kinda paranoid so I usually don't allow someone to know that much about me (where i live...etc ... etc) until i feel nice and comfy (6 months + later). If i were you... i'd out and say "I don't trust you and I don't want to be your friend... don't come around... don't call me... and don't annoy me again".

Make it clear and be done with it.

LOL that is pretty straight forward man. I'm not like that. I'm too nice to do that.

[Smak]

just be assertive with him, tell him straight up that there is no need for 5-6 phone calls per day. im guessing this kind of behavior is the reason he has no friends. it sounds like it is a never ending cycle with this guy.........friend, nag the piss out of them, no friend.

The guy's done this before with other people. He tells me the restraining order is something else, but i'm guessing I know the reason now. This guy is a fuking pest man!!!

[~fuelforfire~]

haha, what a creeper

[Smak]

i would telll him to go take a time out, and call me when he is done. lol kidding

I would straight tell him, bro you are pssing me off, why call 6 times a day. I dont answer means i dont want to talk.

My friends are nervous around you, and they want to file a restraining order.

that ought to scare him. if not, then beat his ass till he is bloody. then take another shirt, and his cycle back.

haha his cycle is still pending. I'm selling it to him dirt cheap also. He's even having problems coming up with the money for the cycle with all his court costs. He's already given me 2 really tight fitting shirts that I really didn't want, but I was helping a guy out. I totally regret doing it. He seriously doesn't need to be taking steroids . I thought he was a ok guy. Boy was I wrong.

[Smak]

haha, what a creeper

Want his phone #?

[USfighterFC]

Honestly just tell him straight up to back the fvck off or to leave you the fvck alone and you got your own problems to deal with and you dont need any of his shit. Honesty is the best policy and honesty is brutal but its effective.

[HORSE~]

Honestly just tell him straight up to back the fvck off or to leave you the fvck alone and you got your own problems to deal with and you dont need any of his shit. Honesty is the best policy and honesty is brutal but its effective.

Well said!!

And if you have not given him the cycle yet what's the worrie's?

[kloter1]

forgot to mention, lookin real sexy in that picture smak.


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[spywizard]

stalkers, ya got to love them.. one issue is he thinks you are the one being the dink..

[SnaX]

What if the guy is buffalo bill crazy? And he tries to turn you into a lampshade in his parent's basement?!

[JDawg1536]

What if the guy is buffalo bill crazy? And he tries to turn you into a lampshade in his parent's basement?!

Sounds possible to me. Thats why Im saying he should just act like a complete weirdo. Like hes got mental problems.

[SnaX]

Then the guy might fall in looooove with him. Smak, this is why you don't bring home strays.... lol

[WEBB]

Why wont you answer my calls man...i call and i call and i call...i know your home i can see you there...i come on here and you say mean things about me....well i thought we were more than friends...call me


GSXXR, and USFighter are right just be straight with this guy, tell him you were just trying to help him out and he seems to needy, and if he doesnt back off bad things will happen. just dont threaten him. and tell him you would like to be friends with him, but your time is kinda limited...and you dont have room for a whack job....brutal honesty is the best...

[Ufa]

I would make up a lie. Tell him you have some personal problems and your
phone is taped and your being followed. Best for him to stear clear. Act
paranoid. He won't kown what to think.

[Mizfit]

Be straight up.. seriously.. This is why i often don't tell ppl where i live or where i work..

**** or where i hang out.. there r alot of crazys..

Vagueness is your best friend

[oldman]

Dam it man why are you telling mine and your personal business like this? why are you being such a player and now disrespecting me behind my back.

kidding... The best thing you could do is tell him straight up you just don't want to hang around him anymore. The AAS connection is bad and you should know better than that..

Keep us posted.

~Old

[Smak]

Why wont you answer my calls man...i call and i call and i call...i know your home i can see you there...i come on here and you say mean things about me....well i thought we were more than friends...call me


GSXXR, and USFighter are right just be straight with this guy, tell him you were just trying to help him out and he seems to needy, and if he doesnt back off bad things will happen. just dont threaten him. and tell him you would like to be friends with him, but your time is kinda limited...and you dont have room for a whack job....brutal honesty is the best...

ROFL. This guy is like a tenth of your size man. I'd be royally fuked if you were my stalker.

[Smak]

Honestly just tell him straight up to back the fvck off or to leave you the fvck alone and you got your own problems to deal with and you dont need any of his shit. Honesty is the best policy and honesty is brutal but its effective.

Great advice man my russian amigo.

[Smak]

stalkers, ya got to love them.. one issue is he thinks you are the one being the dink..

I'm going to set him straight today.

[Smak]

forgot to mention, lookin real sexy in that picture smak.


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[Smak]

Be straight up.. seriously.. This is why i often don't tell ppl where i live or where i work..

**** or where i hang out.. there r alot of crazys..

Vagueness is your best friend

I'd invite you over the first night we met.

[Smak]

Dam it man why are you telling mine and your personal business like this? why are you being such a player and now disrespecting me behind my back.

kidding... The best thing you could do is tell him straight up you just don't want to hang around him anymore. The AAS connection is bad and you should know better than that..

Keep us posted.
~Old

Aight. Will do. If I don't post for a while then you know what happened.

[JDawg1536]

I would make up a lie. Tell him you have some personal problems and your
phone is taped and your being followed. Best for him to stear clear. Act
paranoid. He won't kown what to think.

Yeah see, we are on the same page. Act like the cops on on your ass for steroid distribution and since he already has trouble with the law he could go to prison or some shit. Then just never talk to him again.

[fatale]

Why would you invited a guy over your place if you knew at the first place that he's a psychopath?

[Carlos_E]

Just sleep with him and make sure it's really bad and he'll never call you again.

[Carlos_E]

haha his cycle is still pending. I'm selling it to him dirt cheap also.

Smack, delete this. No source posting.

[toofatbuilder]

id go to a bar with him....meet some new people and pawn him off on them....