Married Crush

[Grappler13]

So, er, this guy I know: definately not me, no way, etc.........So I go back to my hometown this weekend to see my sick grandmother and I am there for a few days. During that time, I had dinner with an old flame. Bad idea, nothing happened but there was some serious electricity. I've been married for 6 years and the whole experience was rather strange and exciting; I also crushed badly on this girl for about three days. Ok, I'm still crushing. So married guys and gals, don't even tempt yourselves. I feel like a schoolboy with a crush......haven't felt this way in a long time.

[Panzerfaust]

Go get electrotherapy, this will get that idea out of your head.

Either that or get a divorce and then go do your thing.

[Grappler13]

Go get electrotherapy, this will get that idea out of your head.

Either that or get a divorce and then go do your thing.

Divorce is out and while I care for this "other" girl, I'm not trying to go after her. It's just amazing how the male mind can react to a "new" stimulus.

[mwolffey]

everybody has these moments, and thats ok...as long as you dont act on them there is no problem...everybody will be attracted to someone "new" at some point....but if you really love the wife, then there should be no dilemma

[JAYROD]

everybody has these moments, and thats ok...as long as you dont act on them there is no problem...everybody will be attracted to someone "new" at some point....but if you really love the wife, then there should be no dilemma

good response. i think if you truly love your wife you won't act on your feelings or crush for this girl.

[lucabratzi]

everybody has these moments, and thats ok...as long as you dont act on them there is no problem...everybody will be attracted to someone "new" at some point....but if you really love the wife, then there should be no dilemma

exactly...it is natural to want,(i'll put this crudley) new pussy..its human nature...but just remember that u have a deeper bond with ur wife and that that is more important than some fling with a chick that never worked out..

[Grappler13]

good response. i think if you truly love your wife you won't act on your feelings or crush for this girl.

Still, I'm confused about my desire to pursue her. It seems like I'm hardwired to pursue and flirt, etc.....None of this would come to any good ecxcept for temporarily satisfying my pursuit needs. She's 600 miles away so I'm safe and I've not contacted her since our dinner. Wierd, this urge to chase girls, it'd be nice if marrying rid one of that desire.

[JAYROD]

if flirting with another woman is in your nature or personality i don't think there is much you can do about that if your being yourself. what you should be able to control is taking it to the next level. you know what i mean?

[oldman]

That is a tough one and it is exciting but in this case you have to remember she was an OLD flame and there is a reason you did not marry her.

There is nothing like the feeling when you first fall in love and all that newness and stuff.. it is great..

Be safe... don't fall into temptation

~Old

[Grappler13]

Thanks fellas. Nothing good can come of it so I am going to stay away: in mind and body.

[ManzNumero1]

or u can look at it as , hmmm. she is 600 miles away. You ask yourself . . is anybody really ever going to find out. . . ?

j.k . but u can think it that way.

[Pooks]

Don't kid yourself bro.. if she's an ex.. it won't take long for that "electricity" to go from stimulating.. to torturous to nightmare.

[RA]

Every time you think about her imagine she has crabs or some other std, that should help.

[shortie]

With 600 miles you should be good, but if run into this broad again keep you distance! This is a road you do not wish to go down, and proximity will breed temptation.

[mwolffey]

exactly...it is natural to want,(i'll put this crudley) new pussy..its human nature...but just remember that u have a deeper bond with ur wife and that that is more important than some fling with a chick that never worked out..

amen

[bigbouncinballs]

from a guy who has succumbed to temptation on a number of occasions, just remember everything your wife does for you day in and day out. and if that doesn't work, imagine her crushin after some guy and takin it the next step.

[toofatbuilder]

ok, this is what i do when i wanna have sex with someone i cant... have sex with your wife and picture shes the other woman. get it outta your system.

[bigpapabuff]

Good advice everybody... although I don't know if your wife would appreciate you fantisizing she's an ex while having sex. But seriously man don't get down on yourself because it is natural... we are tempted every day the difference is who is weak and who is strong.

Be strong man!!!

[bigpapabuff]

Good advice everybody... although I don't know if your wife would appreciate you fantisizing she's an ex while having sex. But seriously man don't get down on yourself because it is natural... we are tempted every day the difference is who is weak and who is strong.

Be strong man!!!

[bigpapabuff]

Sorry for poting twice, my computer gets slow sometimes and it makes me get ancy and I start pushing buttons... oh and excuse this third post.

[toofatbuilder]

well you dont tell her. unless your couch is real comfortable...

[Mizfit]

it's called lust.. it's fine to feel it.. bad to act on it if your married