My girl problems...

[Evil Predator]

Since everyone has a bunch, heres mine..

A while back, just a few months ago, I ended a relationship with a girl I was head over heels in love with. We got a long great but had one issue we couldn't reconsile (me doing steroids). Neither of us would give in, so we broke up.

Fast worward a month or so later, I met this girl, awesome girl, had a great time with her for a month or so, and I liked her, but I couldnt get my mind off of my ex. I broke up with her, it wasn't fair to either of us..

So now, just lately, in some strange twist of fate, I came in contact with an ex-gf from my early teens. Her and I dated for the better part of 2 years, broke up when she left for university, and hadnt spoken since. We started talking, I was going to go visit her next week, but instead she decided to come see me this weekend. Now, im not going to say I dont like this girl, I can honestly say I was once in love with this girl, she's gorgeous, smart, funny. But, im just not sure im ready for anything serious, and im pretty sure she's coming with the intentions of picking up where left off or something like that. The thing is, while I do like her (we hung out last week), I dont want to rush into anything and end up hurting another girl like I did with the last one. Thats not saying I dont want to date her, but I just dont want her to think im immediately ready for commitment, as im not sure how I feel about the situation yet.. on top of that, im running tren and my emotions are running wild..

So, how do you explain this to a girl so she understands and doesnt get pissed off? I dont want her to think I dont want her, but I dont want it to go too far too fast..

Any advice, especially from mizfit/hotstuff and ar's other females, what is the best way to say this to her?

[taiboxa]

tell her NO PENETRATION for a week.. ORAL ONLY!

[Evil Predator]

No injections baby, oral only for you

[fatale]

Tell her the truth! You are not going to hurt her feeling if you tell her the truth, ( well maybe but is better than lying) If she doesn't abide by it then you can't be together at all.


Your Q:So, how do you explain this to a girl so she understands and doesnt get pissed off? I dont want her to think I dont want her, but I dont want it to go too far too fast..

Tell her that you do want to be with her but is going to take time for you and her where you started of in the beginning. ( If she reallly likes you , she would wait for you)

[WEBB]

Evil, stop whinnig you pussy...man that tren was suppopsed to make you harden up, not become more of a girl....J/K bro

[taiboxa]

Evil, stop whinnig you pussy...man that tren was suppopsed to make you harden up, not become more of a girl....J/K bro

yaeh wtf tren doesnt AROMATIZE!

[WEBB]

not in you, caus eit is in your blood more than your blood....HUH?????...man this diet is makin me dumb

[taiboxa]

not in you, caus eit is in your blood more than your blood....HUH?????...man this diet is makin me dumb

i swear ... i would be confused if i didnt knwo u better..

[WEBB]

hahha...i kne wyou would understand my incoherent typing and jibberish...

[taiboxa]

god.. if Webb and GSXXR have a baby.. OMG ..
aint einini8fy **** tNi LI Y nininet LI

yep.. thats what SHE SED

[Evil Predator]

Evil, stop whinnig you pussy...man that tren was suppopsed to make you harden up, not become more of a girl....J/K bro

God bless tren!

I think maybe its the lack of sleep.. 2 hours last night... 2 the night before.. Ever since I upped the dosage, i got more of everything except sleep.

[fatale]

we should have a relationship forum in here

[Evil Predator]

one more question fatale... DO I explain this before or after sex?

[fatale]

one more question fatale... DO I explain this before or after sex?

Definitely before sex in that way you get a slap afterwards for asking.

[Evil Predator]

i actually talked to her about it already, she's here now, showering, drove 3 hours with no AC in her civic

She agrees apparently, so its all good..

Now, time for me to finish getting dressed... I need to look somewhat presentable Going to a nice seafood place, im gonna eat like 10lbs of lobster :

[Oki-Des]

So, how do you explain this to a girl so she understands and doesnt get pissed off? I dont want her to think I dont want her, but I dont want it to go too far too fast..

Slow down! I dont think you have to worry about her wanting everything so fast. While she has probably thought about it, you are too. She is probably wondering how things are going to be and is just as worried as you. As you probably have grown alot since you dated her, dont be surprised if she has grown alot as well.

Spend your time with her listening to her. Show her how you have grown and try to reestablish a relationship based on what you learn from here. If you say anything about not wanting to go fast, she will put a halt to it immediately. Dont think about that and just be yourself. Let her decide if she even likes you anymore before letting her know you may not want to date her. If you do not hit it off again, you will not have to tell her. She may actually know if you are going to hit it off again before you do. Women are very intuitive and dont underestimate her ability to assess the situation as it unravels. Good luck and remember that your actions during your time together will most likely dictate whether you two get along or not.

[J-Dogg]

I say after sex.

A girl is able to be more honest, sex has a way of building repore with someone.

Also if that shit is blown out, you can kick her out before being nice to her!

[BOUNCER]

A while back, just a few months ago, I ended a relationship with a girl I was head over heels in love with. We got a long great but had one issue we couldn't reconsile (me doing steroids). Neither of us would give in, so we broke up.

Would you be terribly offended if I told you I thought you were a fool for losing someone you were head over heals in love with for steroids!

Grow up.

[Evil Predator]

Would you be terribly offended if I told you I thought you were a fool for losing someone you were head over heals in love with for steroids!

Grow up.

No, I tell myself all the time man.. But, im focused on what I want, and im ambitious enough to get to it.

I treated her like a princess, did everything for her (and she reciprocated all of that), we got along great, so why should I have to give up something she doesnt see and isnt affected by? You shouldnt have to give up your goals and aspirations just because your in love, especially if it doesnt negatively affect them... This holds true for me anyway. To each their own..

anyway, dinner with the new-old girly was great(I ate two huge lobster ), time to relax and watch a movie.

[Kale]

we should have a relationship forum in here

If thats you in your Avi, we should have a relationship

[BOUNCER]

If you ever fall in love again, throw away the needle if its going to be an issue. Because with luck you might, just might, get away with using gear and lifting heavy into your 40's. Whereas this lady might have been wiping your ass when your 90!.

I'm talking with some benefit of hindsight, and honestly, whilst I don't think your a foolish person I think you made a foolish decision dumping true love for something which in years to come will be a tiny blip on your lifts radar.

Honestly, I'm not on a rant or getting up on my soapbox, I just think your made a foolish choice.

[cmax]

So, how do you explain this to a girl so she understands and doesnt get pissed off? I dont want her to think I dont want her, but I dont want it to go too far too fast..

Don't plan for anything. Just play it by year. Go out and have a good time and see where things go from there. You will either be banging her by the end of the night or you'll just go your separate ways.

Your problem seems to be that you are trying to plan too much for what's going to happen when you see her. Forget about that... You don't have to make up your mind about what's going to happen now. Just wait and see what happens.

You are in complete control. If you decide you like her after seeing her then sweep her off her feet, otherwise make up any excuse to end the night early or get away. I am sure that you have enough game to give her signals that you are not really interested in hooking up with her or taking things further.

If you have not seen her for a long time then I am sure that the way that you (or her) feels about one another might be different then what you both are currently thinking. Your opinion could totally change once you hang out with her again. Also, there is no way of knowing exactly what her intentions will be until you go out again. So all the contemplating in the world at this point will probably be completely useless.

You are thinking way too much about this. Way too far in advance.

STOP WORRYING ABOUT THIS AND JUST GO OUT AND HAVE A GOOD TIME. IT WILL WORK OUT FOR THE BEST ON IT'S OWN.

[Tren Bull]

Since everyone has a bunch, heres mine..

A while back, just a few months ago, I ended a relationship with a girl I was head over heels in love with. We got a long great but had one issue we couldn't reconsile (me doing steroids). Neither of us would give in, so we broke up.

Fast worward a month or so later, I met this girl, awesome girl, had a great time with her for a month or so, and I liked her, but I couldnt get my mind off of my ex. I broke up with her, it wasn't fair to either of us..

So now, just lately, in some strange twist of fate, I came in contact with an ex-gf from my early teens. Her and I dated for the better part of 2 years, broke up when she left for university, and hadnt spoken since. We started talking, I was going to go visit her next week, but instead she decided to come see me this weekend. Now, im not going to say I dont like this girl, I can honestly say I was once in love with this girl, she's gorgeous, smart, funny. But, im just not sure im ready for anything serious, and im pretty sure she's coming with the intentions of picking up where left off or something like that. The thing is, while I do like her (we hung out last week), I dont want to rush into anything and end up hurting another girl like I did with the last one. Thats not saying I dont want to date her, but I just dont want her to think im immediately ready for commitment, as im not sure how I feel about the situation yet.. on top of that, im running tren and my emotions are running wild..

So, how do you explain this to a girl so she understands and doesnt get pissed off? I dont want her to think I dont want her, but I dont want it to go too far too fast..

Any advice, especially from mizfit/hotstuff and ar's other females, what is the best way to say this to her?

you like her right?

so go with it

[Tren Bull]

You are thinking way too much about this. Way too far in advance.

STOP WORRYING ABOUT THIS AND JUST GO OUT AND HAVE A GOOD TIME. IT WILL WORK OUT FOR THE BEST ON IT'S OWN.

exactly. everything happens for a reason

[Mizfit]

I just saw his now ....but honesty best policy.. explain your situation and where you came from and you know what - even what happened recently - that way she can decide exactly how fast she will fall for you.

[Evil Predator]

ya, i told her everything last ngiht.. we actually had a great time..


Bouncer, bro, maybe hindsight will be 20/20, and your probably very right, but its a choice I made and need to live with. Trust me, ive kicked myself many times since.

[Mizfit]

ya, i told her everything last ngiht.. we actually had a great time..


Bouncer, bro, maybe hindsight will be 20/20, and your probably very right, but its a choice I made and need to live with. Trust me, ive kicked myself many times since.

better to not hurt someone than live with the guilt of hurting someone..

I have done that and if you have a heart - you feel like crap - even if it was unintentially.

[fatale]

If thats you in your Avi, we should have a relationship

If that's your girl in your avi, your crazy for flirting with me

[Evil Predator]

that be Kales Wife!
Nice catch old man

[fatale]

that be Kales Wife!

His wife should

[cfiler]

Be honest with her, and take it slow. Stop worrying about it, and just go with the flow.