DRUG REHAB.. how long does it take??

[Pooks]

This girl i was eyeing..
She recently Od'ed on sleeping pills..
I was working her, and just as things got heated up..

Her parents sent her into Drug Rehab... WTF!!!

She is only there to make peace with her parents, so i know she wants to get out ASAP.. She had serious issues with her parents over this, she told me she would find being in Rehab embarrasing.. I didnt think it would actually happen..

SO i'm trying to figure out, if i should move on to the next one.. or stick around, I really like her..

and this blows, i fear they're gonna pump her full of who knows what, Drugs, Info, i dont know what.. and she comes out a whole different person arggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[STYLE74]

Some rehab places are 28 days and some are 90 days, it all depends. Overdosing on sleeping pills is no joking matter, maybe she tried to kill herself and rehab is the only way for her to get better and not do that again. I understand that you really like her but she might need to get better before you guys can be together. Give her some time, it might be better for the both of you and in the meanwhile have fun but just don't get serious with anyone or just wait for her to get out, it's up to you. Good luck and i hope she get's better so that if you both do decide to be together it's a pain free relationship!!

[USfighterFC]

Uhh move on to the next one would be my advice. I don't think dating a girl that tried to kill herself on sleeping pills would be in your best interest.

[Kärnfysikern]

If shes not even interested in getting off drugs and is just in the rehab because of her parents I would say move on. You could never be in any kind of happy relationship with her aslong as he got depressions and problems and if you just screw her and she falls in love with you it can turn into a uggly situation.

[Mizfit]

move on .. women with issues that out in the open aren't worth your time

[Mizfit]

was it just sleeping pills btw.. or do u really even know?

[gmmvp42]

IF you are worried about someone telling her to stay out of a relationship, you are right. Anyone in rehab is told to not be in a relationship for a year while in recovery. You may not believe this but that is good for you, I don't care how cute you think she is. And nobody accidentally ODs, they do it to harm themselves/find pity from others. Not exactly a quality we need to expose children to.

[Pooks]

She's 22 now by the way, I'm 26... it was her ex boyfriend, i guess they did a lot of meth together, and she is going to school to be a hairstylist, plus works a job, as an accountant has an AS in that..so she could not fall asleep so she kept taking sleeping pillz and i guess had liver failure..

her parents freaked, and she left that loser..
I've known her for a long time since she was 16.. I just never was really interested in her.. cause she was always in these long term type releationships that last for years, so she never really was single..

anyways i think she was reaching out for help, so we started dating, and she always respected me and liked me, and i'm sure she trusts me.. and am a good influence on her... she is always wicked happy with me, and me with her.. even tho some people told me she has a bad side, "she just doesnt show it when i'm around, cause she's just happy than."

She is bangin hot and her mind is wicked sharp, plus she is lovin..
but yah , i gotta get more info on how long this rehab is gonna last for..

LOL i feel i made this sound a lot more negative than it really is.. i hope so atleast cause typing this has made me realize this could be a nightmare down the road LOL...

Its like a love story being written tho, i just dont have a clue yet how it will end.. but if i start seeing other woman, that would kinda damage the story of it all.. so i'm siding agaisnt that, until she comes out and see what its like than..

but if its 3months or something, than that is a long time lol i cant wait aroudn for that long..

I'll see what i can dig up on her grrrr...

[J-Dogg]

Trust your instincts, move on. You don't want to set yourself up with a girl with these kinds of problems. Bad things happen to good people, but that does not mean you owe it to them to stick around.

Look out for number 1 first.

[zimmy]

rehab takes as long as it takes. Depends on the person. If she is there for her parents only...then it's not gonna take. Move on, if she does clean up for her parents (doubtful), then you will just be a crutch for her. You aren't supposed to go into relationships for a while when you kick an addiction.

[Pooks]

I'm pretty sure she doesnt see herself as an addict. . she just knows she messed up big.. living with addicts thinking they're cool.

She feels embarrased by the whole situation..
she left that boyfriend... but wants to make peace with her parents.

Only way is too go to drug rehab as that is the only ultimantium that she is being presented by them, and they're not budging on that.. so for her the practical thing is to do that, to appease to them, and make them happy. Deep down she doesnt really want to be there, and is not taking it seriously i am sure of that..

we'll see... Sorry i apologize for jumping in to defend her on this thread LOL..

[thegodfather]

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