Girl problems!!!

[Surfstud18]

DUDESSS I have a questions i'm sure some of you been here maybe lol But get this.........

There's this girl (jacque) i've known awhile and we tried hooking up last year. But she moved to Cali and we called it off didn't want to do the long distice. We stayed good friends calling eachother maybe once a month. She's getting to move back to Colorado and for like the last 2 months she's been trying to get things going as far as a relationship. She came out for a wedding stayed a couple she let me know and I took a week off to spend with her and we got to hang out for an hour the whole time she partied with her "Girls" But on her myspace this dude (nick) left her comments saying "Hey jacque had fun partying with you i miss you and love you" And she telling him to post pictures of them together up. Then she wrote me saying she can't wait to be with me and said Chasing cars by snow patrol is her song to me.

But like it just seems shady her flirting with nick and trying to be with me

[J-Dogg]

i read that 3 times and don't know what the **** you are taking about.

[THE CROW]

Same here, dont understand.

[zodiac666]

DUDESSS I have a questions i'm sure some of you been here maybe lol But get this.........

There's this girl i've known awhile and like we tried hooking up last year but some stuff with her family made it hard her parents so they moved to Cali and like we called it off but stayed friends but she's getting to move back right and for like the last 2 months she's been trying to get things going again she came out for a wedding and we got to hang out for like an hour the whole time she paried with her "Girls" But on her myspace this dude left her about of love comments and she wrote them back real Shadyyyy but she say's she wants to be with what would y'all do

WOW WTF. trying real hard to follow, so some guy wrote love letters to her on myspace and she wrote back even though she says she wants to be with you? i think your missing a couple key words here and there, you should proofread it before you post it to see if it makes any sense.

[Surfstud18]

let me edit it some

[mwolffey]

i read that 3 times and don't know what the **** you are taking about.

yea ...you lost me

[Surfstud18]

okay now check it

[Katelette81]

are you sure this dude isn't just a good friend?

If youare sure theres something more with them then don't waste your time on her.

[chest6]

In my experiences..girls lie. A lot. Not sayin all do..but you just gotta learn to let the bad ones go

[Katelette81]

In my experiences..girls lie. A lot. Not sayin all do..but you just gotta learn to let the bad ones go

Unfortunately women can be very underhanded..theyknow how to get what they want. (goes for men too,but we're not talking about that now)

Here's some advice,... if someone shows you their true colours, in any shape or form..believe it.

DOn't make excuses, don't rationalize.. take it for what it is..

[J-Dogg]

Well, it is not just girls, but all people like to feel attractive, or wanted.

For the most part, people who are younger and not in a commited relationship will flirt and lure in anyone decent.

I'm willing to bet she flirts with the guy, talks to him and he probably likes her. She might not like him, but I can garantee she likes the attention.

[Surfstud18]

That's tuff she's soo fine but she like doesn't call and wants me to always call her she's one of the ones that like to play hard to get and it turns me on but pisses me off lol

[chest6]

Here's some advice,... if someone shows you their true colours, in any shape or form..believe it.

DOn't make excuses, don't rationalize.. take it for what it is..

Exactly. Pretty much summed up right there..

[Surfstud18]

yeah that makes sence

[J-Dogg]

Don't waste your time chasing a girl because she is fine. I've been with girls who are "fine" and it just is not worth it IMO. Girls LOVE LOVE LOVE attention,and fine girls get A LOT OF IT. Not worth the sweat, let it go before you really start to like her. Find a different peice of arm candy.

I would take a good loyal girl who is a 6 or a 7 way over a girl I just picked out of crowed because she is a 10. I'll never date a 10, if I want to wake up to a pretty clown every morning, i'll join the circus.

[Surfstud18]

hahahaha if i want to wake up to a pretty clown every morning I'll join the circus he says hahahah that was funny brother i like that

[Katelette81]

Hm.. if she's that fine she knows she can play aroudn with you and when you come to your senses or when she gets what she wants she knows there'll be someone else right htere to take your place... if she truly wanted to be with you ... we wouldn't be having this discussion.

[Katelette81]

It bothers me that great guys get hung up on chicks that aren't worthy of them just because they're pretty or dress a certain way... just like a woman should..men should know their worth too... find a quality owman that'll be there for you when you need her and vice versa.. not one that you have to chase out of someone elses bed..

[Surfstud18]

yeah i hear you just hard. I mean she seemed like she likes me that's i was asking if i should let this go or just fade away what happens when she comes back to calling me

[Katelette81]

yeah i hear you just hard. I mean she seemed like she likes me that's i was asking if i should let this go or just fade away what happens when she comes back to calling me

**** her and kick her out.

Totally j/k. You just have to decide wheterh or not you want to stick aroudn to see if she's for real or not.. cause if you do, and she turns out to be a bee-otch you're gonna feel it big time....

[J-Dogg]

Girls are like that, but they don't like "us". What they do like though, is "us" liking and chasing them.

For the most part girls are depressed easy, they use us like tools to keep them happy!

[J-Dogg]

Oh, did you do the "deed" yet with her?

[Surfstud18]

No i haven't i told her i wouldn't have sex with her untill i loved her

[Katelette81]

Girls are like that, but they don't like "us". What they do like though, is "us" liking and chasing them.

For the most part girls are depressed easy, they use us like tools to keep them happy!

Maybe the weak ones do.. but hen, guys are only attracted to the weak, mouldable ones...

[Katelette81]

No i haven't i told her i wouldn't have sex with her untill i loved her

Very admirable... two thumbs up from me.

[J-Dogg]

No i haven't i told her i wouldn't have sex with her untill i loved her

wtf man, you need to beat that shallow pussy up. Dirty locker room details are expected.

[chest6]

I've gone after plenty of girls like that..they act like they really like you one second then the next their making out w/ some other dude. It aint worth it

[Surfstud18]

I don't want to be weak but i try to see the good in everybody and believe them untill i'm proven wrong I really don't want to come out and talk about the guy thing.

[chest6]

wtf man, you need to beat that shallow pussy up. Dirty locker room details are expected.

lmao

[Surfstud18]

she would call me and i wouldn't talk to her that much then she asked me what was wrong I told her about me taken a week off to spend with her told her I planed a bunch of stuff out and was kinda mad and sad about and she was like "Well it's not my fault i tried hanging out with you but you never wanted to come party" just seems tuff ya know

[J-Dogg]

Maybe the weak ones do.. but hen, guys are only attracted to the weak, mouldable ones...

I'm all for mouldable! Is that so bad?

[Surfstud18]

wtf man, you need to beat that shallow pussy up. Dirty locker room details are expected.

ohhhhhhhhhhh that can't be goood hahaha haha i'm a big mama's boy too nice to girls mean ones or nice ones i sent a $160 dollar rose and a whole awesome thing of flowers and a gaint soft puppy dog to her hotel room lol i'm too damn nice i think but she called right away and said she loved them and i was the sweetest guy in the world

[Katelette81]

she would call me and i wouldn't talk to her that much then she asked me what was wrong I told her about me taken a week off to spend with her told her I planed a bunch of stuff out and was kinda mad and sad about and she was like "Well it's not my fault i tried hanging out with you but you never wanted to come party" just seems tuff ya know

Communication Breakdown 100%. She wanted to party, you wanted to do what youhad planned... but yet neither one of you knew the otehrs intentions...

[Katelette81]

I'm all for mouldable! Is that so bad?

If I were a guy, I wouldnt' see the beauty in a woman that can't think for herself... or had no spine.. but if that's what you like then so be it. I was just sayin is all..

[Surfstud18]

Yeah i guess i'll just hang in there a bit longer i just think when she does move back out she's just going to party the whole time

[Katelette81]

Yeah i guess i'll just hang in there a bit longer i just think when she does move back out she's just going to party the whole time

Dude.. you seem like a nice guy who has a lot more to offer then the next party location... good luck with this one, I think you'll need it. But sometimes youhave to see it for yourself to be able to move on... then again.. I could totally be wrong... could be .. . might not be though...

[Timm1704]

No i haven't i told her i wouldn't have sex with her untill i loved her

admirable, but wont get you far IMO. i used to be like that, and then id get attached real easy when it really wasnt worth it. ive changed, not sure why, but im loving it. fvck em and chuck em, harsh, but will keep them interested in my experience. dont get me wrong, i dont use ppl, and am not suggesting you do, but have fun, nail the chick, but make out it meant nothing.

aside from the sex side of things, dont call her dude, and if she doesnt call or txt you within a week, delete her number. she is playing you. ive seen so many threads on here about women trouble, and the guy always starts off saying how great the girl is, but she is being like this with me etc, they defend her, be nieve, then, as the thread grows, they start spilling new info on the situation, and the girl wins every time

[chest6]

yeah you sound like too nice of a guy..thats how I used to be til I got fvcked like 10 times by girls..taken advantage of and shit.

[chest6]

admirable, but wont get you far IMO. i used to be like that, and then id get attached real easy when it really wasnt worth it. ive changed, not sure why, but im loving it. fvck em and chuck em, harsh, but will keep them interested in my experience. dont get me wrong, i dont use ppl, and am not suggesting you do, but have fun, nail the chick, but make out it meant nothing.

aside from the sex side of things, dont call her dude, and if she doesnt call or txt you within a week, delete her number. she is playing you. ive seen so many threads on here about women trouble, and the guy always starts off saying how great the girl is, but she is being like this with me etc, they defend her, be nieve, then, as the thread grows, they start spilling new info on the situation, and the girl wins every time

YEp..

[Timm1704]

ohhhhhhhhhhh that can't be goood hahaha haha i'm a big mama's boy too nice to girls mean ones or nice ones i sent a $160 dollar rose and a whole awesome thing of flowers and a gaint soft puppy dog to her hotel room lol i'm too damn nice i think but she called right away and said she loved them and i was the sweetest guy in the world

same again, i have done alot of similar things. they get you brownie points for a matter of days. dont waste your money... spend it on condoms