sorry but need to whine

[needmorestrength]

So the girlfriend told me she doesn't think its going to work... two months ago we're talking marriage... now she believe that due to religious differences it won't work.. Its an hour drive back from her place to my house, I've never cried so hard... I told her I would give her a couple weeks to figure it out, I think its fair considering this is the girl I want to spend my life with..... But when I got back, I ended up going for some drinks, then at a friends house, ended up hooking up with a girl, didnt have sex, but I feel terribly guilty, and if we work out I will have to tell her anywayz thats my whine

[IronFreakX]

You didnt have sex why tell her?

[Timm1704]

You didnt have sex why tell her?

exactly. nothing was done. even if it was, so what? as the old saying goes: "we were on a break!"

[needmorestrength]

exactly. nothing was done. even if it was, so what? as the old saying goes: "we were on a break!"

Hahahah does that actually work??

[Timm1704]

well, you will never know till you try. just dont tell her bro, that is if you get back together. it will be just unnecessary drama

[SwoleCat]

Religious differences?

Man, let her go now before it's too late.

I'd have left voluntarily. If you love someone, you love them, period.

Like she didn't know of your differences in beliefs a LONG TIME AGO?

I don't see why it would matter, and I'd be running away quickly to my new SINGLE life.

~SC~

[Pooks]

Religious differences LOL LMAO what the heck is that! What is this the 1600s!!!! LMAO

Tell her ignorant ass, to beat it.

(yes i am waiting for you to defend her, so we learn more about these religious differences)

[needmorestrength]

Religious differences?

Man, let her go now before it's too late.

I'd have left voluntarily. If you love someone, you love them, period.

Like she didn't know of your differences in beliefs a LONG TIME AGO?

I don't see why it would matter, and I'd be running away quickly to my new SINGLE life.

~SC~

Yea She's known since the start but shes saying "I dont know if I can spend my life in a divided home"... She loves me and its a hard decision I can understand it.. So thats why im giving her a couple weeks, If I dont I will regret that

[Pooks]

Yea She's known since the start but shes saying "I dont know if I can spend my life in a divided home"... She loves me and its a hard decision I can understand it.. So thats why im giving her a couple weeks, If I dont I will regret that

U guys are both really really religious, but in different religions?

[IronFreakX]

Want me to turn her into an Atheist/Satanist ?

[needmorestrength]

U guys are both really really religious, but in different religions?

Different Religions

[Pooks]

Different Religions

Bro u need to be a lil more open to us about this, so we can really rip into her Ruthlessly good.

[needmorestrength]

Want me to turn her into an Atheist/Satanist ?

nah just brain wash her lol

[needmorestrength]

Bro u need to be a lil more open to us about this, so we can really rip into her Ruthlessly good.

sorry man.. Just trying to face the fact that it might be done in a couple weeks... Trying not to do anything stupid in those couple weeks is going to be hard lol

[Carlos_E]

Not to pry but what religion are you two? She knew this when she started dating. Why is it a problem now? And if it is that serious if you love each other why not one of you convert?

[SwoleCat]

I honestly don't see what the big deal is, but if you two want to throw away love for one another over some "learned" religion passed on for 100's of years, that's your choice.

Very silly IMHO, but look at it this way, you can now have like 10 ho's and can pick/choose who you wanna plug on Friday/Saturday.

~SC~

[PrairieDawg]

it sounds like she's making excuses to break up.

[needmorestrength]

I honestly don't see what the big deal is, but if you two want to throw away love for one another over some "learned" religion passed on for 100's of years, that's your choice.

Very silly IMHO, but look at it this way, you can now have like 10 ho's and can pick/choose who you wanna plug on Friday/Saturday.

~SC~

[needmorestrength]

it sounds like she's making excuses to break up.

nah shes realllly religious.. no jokes.. she had these feelings when we first got together so Im hoping its the same deal and she gets over it

[Carlos_E]

I guess you don't want to say what religion?

???

[Kale]

Jesus dude, just tell us what religions you both are, is it that big a secret ?. Fvck I hate religion, it is seriously the root of all evil IMO !!!!!

[Carlos_E]

I think it's a very silly reason to break up. If it's that big of a deal, one of you convert.

[Timm1704]

it sounds like she's making excuses to break up.

harsh, but true i believe.

[Mizfit]

Question is.. if you love her what were you doing fooling around with this other chick..

[needmorestrength]

Question is.. if you love her what were you doing fooling around with this other chick..

Hurt.. Drunk.. Just kissed her then felt like kicking my own ass. I have decided that if things work out I will tell her... We're christians but we differ in beliefs Carlos

[Carlos_E]

Hurt.. Drunk.. Just kissed her then felt like kicking my own ass. I have decided that if things work out I will tell her... We're christians but we differ in beliefs Carlos

I could see if you were Muslim and her Jewish. But both Christians??? Sorry, but it sounds like an excuse to get out of the relationship.

[DamnYouMSN]

yup gotta agree with carlos..... probably just gonna use any excuse. go find the chick you "hooked Up" and bang her.

[novastepp]

if u were talking marriage then this should not be a problem. like swole said, you love one another...that's it. if religion is a priority to someone they extablish that early if they feel like they could be with someone. call her out. and then call that other girl

[Mizfit]

i know everyone is different.. but i guess in my value system.. when you love someone - you don't cheat - kissing anything.. alcohol is no excuse..

This incident would make me question whether you are ready period.. yourself.

[DamnYouMSN]

i know everyone is different.. but i guess in my value system.. when you love someone - you don't cheat - kissing anything.. alcohol is no excuse..

This incident would make me question whether you are ready period.. yourself.

but they're on a break!!!

[needmorestrength]

but they're on a break!!!

exactly lol.. But Miz does have a point, although its a womens perspective. To give you guys an example.. When she told her mom about us, she wasnt allowed to step foot in her parents house!!

[Carlos_E]

exactly lol.. But Miz does have a point, although its a womens perspective. To give you guys an example.. When she told her mom about us, she wasnt allowed to step foot in her parents house!!

What is she Amish? Tell them it's no longer the 1800s.

[Carlos_E]

When she told her mom about us, she wasnt allowed to step foot in her parents house!!

I already went through this crap dating someone with racist parents. If she loved you, she'd tell them to fuck off. If they want to be a part of her life then they need to accept you. If she did not say that, she does not love you. The relationship should end.

[needmorestrength]

I already went through this crap dating someone with racist parents. If she loved you, she'd tell them to fuck off. If they want to be a part of her life then they need to accept you. If she did not say that, she does not love you. The relationship should end.

Ouch, sorry to hear that... She didnt tell them to F off.. but she told em shes old enough to make her own decisions so im giving her a couple weeks.

[Carlos_E]

Ouch, sorry to hear that... She didnt tell them to F off.. but she told em shes old enough to make her own decisions so im giving her a couple weeks.

She shouldn't have to think about it. If she really truely loved you, she would not care what others think.

[Timm1704]

dude, unfortunately, from an outside, unbiased perspective, the relationship is doomed. move on

[copenhagen]

bro, i feel for you i really do. but the fact comes down to what swolecat/carlos said. If she loves you then she would sacrifice things to make y'alls relationship work. Personally i am not a big religous person, i believe in GOD and i read the bible, but i really don't like going to church. My girlfriend attends on a regular basis, and knows not to hound me about it, if something happens in my life and i feel i need to go to church then i will go with her, if not then i don't

[Mizfit]

but they're on a break!!!

I think even Need knows they are not on any sort of a break. He said he would give her time to make up her mind, nothing was ever said in his post about a break, he used the term to rationalize what he did.

If she messes with another guy is that alright?

[Mizfit]

exactly lol.. But Miz does have a point, although its a womens perspective. To give you guys an example.. When she told her mom about us, she wasnt allowed to step foot in her parents house!!

guess what - this is the perpespctive she will be looking at it thru when you tell her.

[needmorestrength]

guess what - this is the perpespctive she will be looking at it thru when you tell her.

I know. and your right im trying to rationalize it.... I'll wait to see what happens, if we stay together im going to tell her.. feel too guilty