f*cking bitch

[bulldawg_28]

Alright, I've never been so ****ing pissed off in my life. Ok, I found some more of my ex's stuff, pictures, clothes, etc. So I went to her house while she was at work to give them to her parents. I talked with her sister a little bit. Then I left. Today I got an email from my ex threatening to get a restraining order on me. Because I went to her house unnannounced, and she said that I bashed her new bf. I didn't bash him, I only stated the truth that he blew off his on gf to spend time with my ex. This is ****ing bullshit, now people are going to think that I'm some ****ing stalker now. I didn't send her an email back. Now WTF do I do about this shit???

[rake922]

stay away from her and her family obviously...

[bulldawg_28]

Yeah well she works at the local grocery store, and she's going to the same university that I'm going to next year. What do I do when I'm buying groceries?

[C_Bino]

Yeah well she works at the local grocery store, and she's going to the same university that I'm going to next year. What do I do when I'm buying groceries?

Avoid her at all costs. If she is a cashier do not go through her lane. It is easy to avoid people...I do it all the time LMAO.

But seriously the main thing is to pretty much press the delete button in your head when it comes to her. You realize she is a bitch as the thread states so just pay her no mind at all. If you happen to see her just keep on with your business and pretend she is some stranger and just keep going. Nothing else to do.

[Carlos_E]

Next time mail her shit. Less drama.

[bulldawg_28]

Now people are going to think I'm a ****ing stalker. This is really gonna hurt my reputation at college. I know she's gonna go around and say shit. ****..........I dont know what to do.

Has this ever happend to anybody before? Are the cops gonna notify me if she does in fact get a restraining order?

[C_Bino]

Dude just relax. We already told you what to do. Avoid her at all costs, there is nothing else you can do. You cannot control what people say about you, if its lies she is spreading than your friends wont care anyways as they are lies. If its the truth well than you gotta face the consequences of your actions and lose your reputation or whatever. I mean what else do you think there is to do?

[Kale]

You live in the good old USA dont you ? Just shoot the bitch !!!

[zimmy]

unfortunately ... most girls are so self centered that in her mind you are probably gonna be "hung up" on her and stalking her. There's a girl at my work who insists that me and another guy want her so bad that any text page or wrong number she gets , she tells everyone that it must be us...don't even make eye contact w/ her again. Go to another grocery store...the exta distance is worth the lack of hassle

[bor]

Next time mail her shit. Less drama.

After you burned it!

[bulldawg_28]

Got 4 hours of sleep last night. Still pissed this morning. It's kinda funny but last week we were on good terms, and we were becoming friends again. Now, we ****ing hate each other, and all I did was try and return more of her shit. I don't know anymore. I hate myself for even falling for this bitch in the first place.

[Carlos_E]

As much as you're worrying about it and her maybe you do think about her too much. Let it go!

[bulldawg_28]

I'm trying man. It's just that I live in a really small town, so the gossip here gets pretty crazy. The word is gonna get around, she's gonna tell everybody that I'm a stalker. Then the whole town will clown my ass.

Oh well, **** it. In my mind she no longer exists.

[1819]

Got 4 hours of sleep last night. Still pissed this morning. It's kinda funny but last week we were on good terms, and we were becoming friends again. Now, we ****ing hate each other, and all I did was try and return more of her shit. I don't know anymore. I hate myself for even falling for this bitch in the first place.

dont bother becoming friends again. ex means ex. stuff in your house...box it up, throw it in a closet. if she asks for it back then try to make an effort. if not throw the stuff out. nothing there she really needs im sure. dont worry about what she'll say at school. you're in college man! chick heaven! dont sweat it. just stay away.

[Oki-Des]

She probably just got mad because you were able to speak with her family and she was not their to argue with you. You were able to say things, and she could not defend herself or her new dude. Just ignore her and if she ever approaches you in the future you can just say- "You told me to leave you alone so I did"

That will be the end of it. She knows you are not a stalker, she is simply mad. You both are still emotionally attached, even if only by anger. Dont worry, that feeling will go away. The best medicine for what you have is a good lay! You will forget all about whats-her-face. Good Luck!

[NCNPC29]

obviously she's mental...Stay away from her..if she's talking about doing that crap who knows what she's capable of

[Mizfit]

Stay awa y and let it be and as the guys have said, let the drama die.

[bulldawg_28]

1819- We are done for good. No friendship, nothing at all. The bad thing is a lot of her friends are my friends too. Her cousin and I were like brothers. Well I guess I lossed them too.

Oki- You have no idea bout this chick. She would do something like that. Yeah she's pissed, but that's all she needs to do something like that. Her parents were on my side, I hope they stick up for me. But from what I was told, she's never home anymore. She just goes there to sleep, nothing more.

NCNPC29- I think you are right man. When we first got together her and her mom were seeing a psychologist. She told me at the time that she may have a bipolar disorder. I didn't believe it at the time, but now....

[1819]

[QUOTE=bulldawg_28]1819- We are done for good. No friendship, nothing at all. The bad thing is a lot of her friends are my friends too. Her cousin and I were like brothers. Well I guess I lossed them too.

casualties of war. if her cousin and you are tight then he will respect you enough not to bring her up. guys have enough to talk about. as for her other friends, stay away. well unless you're tryin to bang one of them

[bulldawg_28]

He did respect me, and I respected him. But we're done now. We haven't talked to each other in nearly a month. I know that his loyalties are with his cousin. I don't blame him, family comes first.

As for her friends, in my mind it's just not right to do something like that. Her friends helped me get through our breakup, as they did for her to. Besides, I know I have no chance with them anyway.

[1819]

He did respect me, and I respected him. But we're done now. We haven't talked to each other in nearly a month. I know that his loyalties are with his cousin. I don't blame him, family comes first.

As for her friends, in my mind it's just not right to do something like that. Her friends helped me get through our breakup, as they did for her to. Besides, I know I have no chance with them anyway.

lol. i know . i was just teasing ya. keep your head up bro. you'll be just fine.

[Carlos_E]

I'm trying man. It's just that I live in a really small town, so the gossip here gets pretty crazy. The word is gonna get around, she's gonna tell everybody that I'm a stalker. Then the whole town will clown my ass.

Oh well, **** it. In my mind she no longer exists.

She can call you what ever she wants. She could say you're impotent and when you do get it up you blow in 2 seconds. Just because she says it, doesn't make it true. When people see you're never around her and never speak of her they will call her paranoid.

[SwoleCat]

I'd have just thrown her shit in the garbage and thought nothing of it.

We don't love them hoes.

~SC~

[NCNPC29]

NCNPC29- I think you are right man. When we first got together her and her mom were seeing a psychologist. She told me at the time that she may have a bipolar disorder. I didn't believe it at the time, but now....

Yikes...definitely just keep away. My 1st wife saw a shrink from age 10 on...been through 13 of them. Her mother was also diagnosed with Reality Perception Disorder...Man, love can blind you and make you stupid as hell... anyway, like I said you never truly know what they are capable of and can end up doing something that could affect you the rest of your life. Especially if they are doing things like calling the cops... you need the drama!

[bulldawg_28]

NCNPC29, the love that I used to have for her made me to many stupid things, and made me make too many sacrifices. There aren't too many guys that would have done for her what I did. I gave up a lot of time with my friends to be with her. I should have done what some of you said to do awhile back when we first got together. http://forums.steroid.com/showthread.php?t=137995 I should have broken it off, and been the asshole.

[Timm1704]

unfortunately ... most girls are so self centered that in her mind you are probably gonna be "hung up" on her and stalking her. There's a girl at my work who insists that me and another guy want her so bad that any text page or wrong number she gets , she tells everyone that it must be us...don't even make eye contact w/ her again. Go to another grocery store...the exta distance is worth the lack of hassle

wow that is so true, as if i wrote it myself. women can be so fvcked up its comical. the representitoves of their gender that i have been dealing with just lately make me respect those with a front-bum as a whole less and less.

if i was you, id reply to the email, and calmly state what you were doing around the house, what you had said about her new fella, and how that topic came about. then conclude with stating you find it both humerous and pathetic that she is so hung up on herself that she assumes you are stalking her. tell her to get over it, and see ya round etc. then, block her from your life immediately, friendship isnt gonna work

[bulldawg_28]

I more than likely wont reply. She's already has her mind set up that I just went to her house to bash her bf. All I did was explain to her sister the actions that me, her, and her bf that led to our break up. All of it was the truth. I even said that it wasn't all her fault. I knew that I made many mistakes, I even said that I wish her sister would help her around the house more, and I even said I should have approached her mom and asked her to give her more freedom, because I knew she was gonna go buck ****ing wild when she got her freedom.

Time to move on. My family is moving, I have the oppurtunity to go to a larger university that's 2 hours away from her. I just may take up that offer.

[ShnouzedUp]

I'd have just thrown her shit in the garbage and thought nothing of it.

We don't love them hoes.

~SC~

exactly

[G-1000]

I'd have just thrown her shit in the garbage and thought nothing of it.

We don't love them hoes.

~SC~

I would have done the same. If she was not asking for it back. It did not mean shit to her any way.

[chest6]

Just forget about her. Seems like you are still thinking about her too much. Just AVOID..it aint hard

[BIG TEXAN]

Like it has been said a hundred times... let it go, blow it off and move on.

[OSTIE]

I'd have just thrown her shit in the garbage and thought nothing of it.

We don't love them hoes.

~SC~

EXACTLY.... I def. wouldnt have gone back to your ex'es parents house and discussed ANYTHING with them, much less their daughters new relationship....

If there is a plus side... guys will always believe guys and maybe you could persuade a few females, so if people are coming up to you asking you about her bs stalking story.... make one up back, about how she tracked you down one night on campus while she was drunk and wanted to hook up, but u turned her down and now she spreading these BS stories.... or make up even a more juicy story that you know ur "small town" will believe

[bulldawg_28]

I'm not stooping that low. I'm just gonna put her, her friends, her family out of my life for good. If anybody asks me about her or her family, I'll say I dont know them. I hate the fact of losing friends especially one that I loved like a ****ing brother, and because growing up I didn't have too many friends, but oh well.

[Bojangles69]

I'm not stooping that low. I'm just gonna put her, her friends, her family out of my life for good. If anybody asks me about her or her family, I'll say I dont know them. I hate the fact of losing friends especially one that I loved like a ****ing brother, and because growing up I didn't have too many friends, but oh well.

the obvious has been stated, always easier said than done.
go out and meet some new women.
break ups can reek havoc on yourself esteem and self worth, but its all a giant mind f_ck. your probaly angry about the situation. thats the best thing for you, use that anger to motivate you, go out, meet, and sex new women.
obviously dont go jump into a new relationship, swallow your ego, get your ass back out in the field, and go to work.

[skingusmc]

when i was a senior in HS this crazy bitch;s parents put a restraining order on me. The girl was allowed to initiate contact with me, call me or whatever, but if i tried to talk to her I would have violated the order and gone to jail. So i turned around and put one on her crazy ass. Beat her to it, make her look like the psycho

[GQ-Bouncer]

Bull,
I hear your pain dude, i understand

First off, just be honest, and keep your clique of friends close - when I was heartbroken (and dont even act as if your not), I let people know, so if they ask questions just be like "Yah I obviously felt heartbroken, she cheated on me, (shrug slightly) i was just dropping off her stuff I didnt think it would be a big deal"

Don't ever worry about your reputation, a reputation is meaningless and their's nothing you can do to "get one", you eithier have on or you don't. Eithier way it doesnt matter, embrace the pain (remember, behind all anger is pain), remember the good times, forgive her & yourself, write an apology e-mail, be mature and carry on with life, more than likely in 6-7 months she'll end up breaking up/cheating on this dude and she'll remember how good you were to her

AND Bojangles advice was pretty good 2

[bulldawg_28]

Yeah, I'm still heart broken. She never cheated on me, but through her actions before, and after our break up clearly showed that's what she wanted. At least that's what I thought.

Forgive her? Not for awhile. If I ever write that apology email, it won't be for awhile. As for the cheating on this dude, as much as I would like that to happen, I'm sure it won't. She's been best friends with this guy for nearly 4 years. He's always been like a brother to her. If they ever do break up, she won't have a problem finding someone else. She has never had that problem. The longest she's been single this past 2 years was probably 2 weeks.

As for the good times, I wish I could forget them. Thinking of the good times upsets me even more.

Bull,
I hear your pain dude, i understand

First off, just be honest, and keep your clique of friends close - when I was heartbroken (and dont even act as if your not), I let people know, so if they ask questions just be like "Yah I obviously felt heartbroken, she cheated on me, (shrug slightly) i was just dropping off her stuff I didnt think it would be a big deal"

Don't ever worry about your reputation, a reputation is meaningless and their's nothing you can do to "get one", you eithier have on or you don't. Eithier way it doesnt matter, embrace the pain (remember, behind all anger is pain), remember the good times, forgive her & yourself, write an apology e-mail, be mature and carry on with life, more than likely in 6-7 months she'll end up breaking up/cheating on this dude and she'll remember how good you were to her

AND Bojangles advice was pretty good 2

[GREENMACHINE]

You could beat her at her own game and get a barring order against her b4 she can get one against you. So far she has only made idle threats. See how she likes mind games.

Alright, I've never been so ****ing pissed off in my life. Ok, I found some more of my ex's stuff, pictures, clothes, etc. So I went to her house while she was at work to give them to her parents. I talked with her sister a little bit. Then I left. Today I got an email from my ex threatening to get a restraining order on me. Because I went to her house unnannounced, and she said that I bashed her new bf. I didn't bash him, I only stated the truth that he blew off his on gf to spend time with my ex. This is ****ing bullshit, now people are going to think that I'm some ****ing stalker now. I didn't send her an email back. Now WTF do I do about this shit???

[crash187ct]

yeah yeah yeah, avoid her at all costs. then 10 years later, bury her 6ft under.

[DutchCowboy]

My philosophy, she is your Ex for a reason.