this is long i know
if you want just skip to part 3
i know this guy who has been working out for about as long as me. He is 6' 2" 250 lbs 18% bodyfat... suffice to say he is far from ripped. He complains taht he cant lose weight - but his would have something to do with a crap diet and constant binging on his part.
part 1:When we are hanging out with this guy (steve) he will continuously put someone down and say that he is bigger htan them and stronger than them. When told that his bodyweight and frame are his advantages he dismissese them and calls you a pussy. Then he may turn around and say that he is too tall so he has to squat a larger distancne than myself (who stands 5 8). Every now and then he'll ask, "im huge, right" and my other friend (jake) who is the nice kidn of guy will oblige and say ,"yes you are huge, fuge even". even if you were to look at Steve you would find that he is boasting about nothing at all and this gets on my nerves, since i approach this with modesty, rather than being a loudmouth.
part 2:Thsi guy is also irriatting at clubs. He ALWYAS does a predrink so by the time we get into the club hell be smasehd stumbling around trying to grind with whatever he can get and when you try to talk to him he'll stick his finger in you face and say "**** you". But he's drunk so i let this go too and i tolerate everything iv complained about till now.
Part 3: But this is was the final straw. We planned to go this show three weeks in advance. Jake and I live within 5 minutes of each other and Steve lives 20 minutes away and the show was another 30 minutes away. Ideally we would get tothe show by 10 pm otherwise we get shitty seats. i was the designated driver for this. We call Steve at 8 30 pm and he syas that he cant go - that something came up and he has to work the next morning early. We told him taht such things should be dealt with since we had given him AMPLE notice (3 weeks mind you) for this. (Note that in the past when he had wanted to go out on a weekend i have taken teh day off and nothing could bother those plans. ) Steve keeps saying no, despite a lot of coaxing and convincing. Jake and I give up trying and say screw it, amybe anotehr time. Then at 10 o clock Steve calls and says that he will go anyway and that he doesnt wanna be home anymore. So by the time i was done picking up Steve and Jake and reachingthe venue, it was 11 pm. We had terible seats - a lot of people were just sanding in front of us because there were no seats. While we were talking Steve calmly says taht its my fault that we were late. Both Jake and I pointed out taht it was clearly his fault. Al the while we were sitting tryingto watch the show Steve complains that he cant see anything and we should leave and go eat instead. I wanted to stay for hte show. Jake didnt make up his mind properly. So we left. While i tneh parking lot i told Steve that he;d better buy me dinner because he made me leave that place and that it was his fault that we were late in teh first place. He refused to. i told him to take a cab home as i wouldnt drive him home. After a little argument he got into a cab and he went home. Jake couldnt believe that i actually did it, and neitehr could I.
Yes i know you are hearing only one side of the story but the times are accurate. Also i think that what i described in part 1 and 2 is what compelled me to do waht i did. The guy si rude obnoxious and boasts about his non existent physique. I dont put anyone down for what they have, but when you flaunt something that is clearly sub par when compared to me (im not that much better) i cant tolerate that.
you can givem e advice on what to do, but i dont want to reconcile with this idiot