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    a little rant/complaint

    this is long i know
    if you want just skip to part 3
    i know this guy who has been working out for about as long as me. He is 6' 2" 250 lbs 18% bodyfat... suffice to say he is far from ripped. He complains taht he cant lose weight - but his would have something to do with a crap diet and constant binging on his part.

    part 1:When we are hanging out with this guy (steve) he will continuously put someone down and say that he is bigger htan them and stronger than them. When told that his bodyweight and frame are his advantages he dismissese them and calls you a pussy. Then he may turn around and say that he is too tall so he has to squat a larger distancne than myself (who stands 5 8). Every now and then he'll ask, "im huge, right" and my other friend (jake) who is the nice kidn of guy will oblige and say ,"yes you are huge, fuge even". even if you were to look at Steve you would find that he is boasting about nothing at all and this gets on my nerves, since i approach this with modesty, rather than being a loudmouth.

    part 2:Thsi guy is also irriatting at clubs. He ALWYAS does a predrink so by the time we get into the club hell be smasehd stumbling around trying to grind with whatever he can get and when you try to talk to him he'll stick his finger in you face and say "**** you". But he's drunk so i let this go too and i tolerate everything iv complained about till now.

    Part 3: But this is was the final straw. We planned to go this show three weeks in advance. Jake and I live within 5 minutes of each other and Steve lives 20 minutes away and the show was another 30 minutes away. Ideally we would get tothe show by 10 pm otherwise we get shitty seats. i was the designated driver for this. We call Steve at 8 30 pm and he syas that he cant go - that something came up and he has to work the next morning early. We told him taht such things should be dealt with since we had given him AMPLE notice (3 weeks mind you) for this. (Note that in the past when he had wanted to go out on a weekend i have taken teh day off and nothing could bother those plans. ) Steve keeps saying no, despite a lot of coaxing and convincing. Jake and I give up trying and say screw it, amybe anotehr time. Then at 10 o clock Steve calls and says that he will go anyway and that he doesnt wanna be home anymore. So by the time i was done picking up Steve and Jake and reachingthe venue, it was 11 pm. We had terible seats - a lot of people were just sanding in front of us because there were no seats. While we were talking Steve calmly says taht its my fault that we were late. Both Jake and I pointed out taht it was clearly his fault. Al the while we were sitting tryingto watch the show Steve complains that he cant see anything and we should leave and go eat instead. I wanted to stay for hte show. Jake didnt make up his mind properly. So we left. While i tneh parking lot i told Steve that he;d better buy me dinner because he made me leave that place and that it was his fault that we were late in teh first place. He refused to. i told him to take a cab home as i wouldnt drive him home. After a little argument he got into a cab and he went home. Jake couldnt believe that i actually did it, and neitehr could I.

    Yes i know you are hearing only one side of the story but the times are accurate. Also i think that what i described in part 1 and 2 is what compelled me to do waht i did. The guy si rude obnoxious and boasts about his non existent physique. I dont put anyone down for what they have, but when you flaunt something that is clearly sub par when compared to me (im not that much better) i cant tolerate that.

    you can givem e advice on what to do, but i dont want to reconcile with this idiot

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    i thought you said little. i ain't got a half hour.

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    Dude how old are you and your mates ? 11 ?

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    Guy def. sounds like a jerk. If you are interested in really fixing things I would explain to him that you were frustrated cause you wanted to see the show and that you and the other guy both agreed he was at fault and that you beleived him to be rude and inconsiderate and thats why you made the decision. If you regret it, tell him why, if not, tell him he got what he deserved. If you get lucky it might work as a good transition to you being upfront about his other problems.....just my .02. Good luck with it

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    did u have a good night?

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    Steve sounds like he is well aware he looks like crap and that is why he spends time putting ppl down and seeking reassurance. If he was happy with his life he wouldnt act like that. Why dont you break that down to him, maybe he will be a better guy to get along with.

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    Dude i have a friend just like that except my friend likes to talk sh*t about everyone else and myself making himself look real good and hes always trying to compete with me,you know like if i get something he has to get something better,hes just a real jealeous person i dont know why alot of issues i guess........just deal with it..thats what i do, i know hes an asshole so does everyone else,but hes my friend..lol

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    get a new friend...solved

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    If he is truely a good friend I would sit down and have a long talk with him if he isn't then oh well see ya!!

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    Play nice kids!
    ***No source checks!!!***

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    your buddy is clearly a dick, and has alot of growing up to do. have a word with him, if he responds in a childlike manner, screw him, he is a pissflap!

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    pissflap LOL

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    He looks like he is a dick; if you want him as a friend talk to him or else just don't call him and change gyms.

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    Quote Originally Posted by firmechicano831
    He looks like he is a dick; if you want him as a friend talk to him or else just don't call him and change gyms.
    Lucky for me he doesnt go the same gym and when school starts chances are he will not be at the gym when i am there.

    I just might try talking to him and tell him to stop trying to seek his ressurances, because the question "I'm huge, right?" is relly getting on my nerves. It was fun once twice, even when he asked the waitress at Denny's (i was bulking) but when he does it n-thousand times in a night, it gets on my nerves.

    thanks for the advice guys and girls!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kale
    Dude how old are you and your mates ? 11 ?
    add 10 or 11 years to that

    are we that childish ?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by muriloninja
    Play nice kids!
    the guys in ur avatar dont look like theyre gonna be playing nice

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    Earlier tonight this guy and I tried to settle this argument with Jake arbitrating.

    Steve continually tries to blame me for the lateness. He says that we should have left without him - but the main purpose was the three of us going, not Jake and I going, it's not fun, then. He says taht he was given no prior knowledge of the show - him and I had talked about going to the show nad where we would sit the previous day.

    Hearing Steve's case - he says that he was called at 10 pm. Untrue, Jake called him as early at 9pm, it was during the hour that Steve was on teh fence as to whether to go or not. Steve insists taht i should have been at Jake's house when Jake called him - the posibility of people cancelling on us is quite high thus i will never leave and go to Jake's house (5 minutes away...) without prior confirmation.

    I demanded an apology from him, told him taht he deserved what he got because he couldnt keep his big mouth shut and told hi mtaht i was willing to do it again.
    With no apology coming, Steve and Jake both claim taht i am acting like a woman. if i was acting like a woman, big deal.

    Then i brought up the topic of this guy not shutting up about boasting about his non existent size. I told him that i never ever want to hear that crap again. Steve says that i couldnt take a joke. A joke is funny the first few times you hear it, but when it gets to the point that it's said every 5 minutes and then i am put down for telling him to shut his yap, it's not funny anymore.

    With no resolution is sight, the conversation went to hell and we all left, problem left unsolved.

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    "I'm huge right?"

    "No. You're a fat flabby piece of shit."

    He wont ask that sh!t again!

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    Quote Originally Posted by bor
    "I'm huge right?"

    "No. You're a fat flabby piece of shit."

    He wont ask that sh!t again!
    i have said that and he goes, "im bigger than you"
    me: "fatter than me too"
    him: "shut up fatty"

    times like i really need to KILL!!!

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    Sometimes it takes an ass kickin from hell to get the point across to some people. I say you open a keg on this kid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AllGearedUp
    Sometimes it takes an ass kickin from hell to get the point across to some people. I say you open a keg on this kid.
    unfortunately the fat ass is 6'2' and outweighs me 50 lbs of FAT
    damn these height advantages!

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    Quote Originally Posted by stunner5000pt
    unfortunately the fat ass is 6'2' and outweighs me 50 lbs of FAT
    damn these height advantages!
    so, he is human right? do the fat chode and then defacate on his clothing

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