College Bars Are Wack!!!

[DSM4Life]

/\ /\ are you one of those guys?

No way .... their too expensive

[Bojangles69]

No way .... their too expensive

at least you had the integrity to get some prices first..

[Bojangles69]

Here is an awesome anaylsis of why good looking women have low self esteem

"
The most common is that really good-looking women get TOLD they are really good looking all the time! They use their looks to open doors that average or less than average looking women can't. They don't have to build their personalities or intellects. Further, they know that their looks will fade some day.
Another reason for this is that it takes so much energy to look good! They have to work out all the time, they have to take care of their skin and their hair, and they have to obsess over every little blemish! This creates a "look focus" in their personalities and they become overly aware of their faults - more than the average looking woman. "

100% true

O. M. F. G. You have no idea how much I wanna say about this. The reality of an attractive woman is one of the most shocking and profound things Ive ever come to realize about life. A lot of guys really cant absorb the full thrust of it. So to speak.

If people only really understood this shit. WOW.

[chest6]

Do you notice when you go to most bars with a college scene that the guys who are the most obnoxious and ugliest seem to pull some of the more quality snatch.

I mean I saw it when I went to school in Miami, but last night I saw it on a whole new level.

As i'm leaving this bar I see this fat kid with tits who was most likely in a frat making out and fondling this easily a 10 plus hot sorority biatch. I just wanted to go up to her, slap her and go "What the fuk is wrong with you" WAKE UP! .

I know alcohol does a few a things, but this was straight out wack!!!!!

This guy def looked like he was going to take her home.

Yes..I missed like 6171 replies and didnt read the rest..so dont shoot me but..ahhh i know I have seen it all too often

[Mizfit]

O. M. F. G. You have no idea how much I wanna say about this. The reality of an attractive woman is one of the most shocking and profound things Ive ever come to realize about life. A lot of guys really cant absorb the full thrust of it. So to speak.

If people only really understood this shit. WOW.

haha u can comment all you want - good or bad.. i actually wanted you too.

I said it in anoither post though.. who is gonna feel sorry for the poor pretty girl

Who gets ahead because of her looks and not for her brain - (when she actually might have one)

[Kale]

Well, yeah...money is definitely being exchanged. I only employ girls of age and I don't make them do anything they don't want to. If they don't want to go with a customer, they don't have to. I tried explaining this business to my Dad once and I'm pretty sure it shocked him...so...my son's a pimp? That's great.

Dude where is your bar ? I am in Bangkok right now

[ginkobulloba]

My bar's in Phuket dude. On the southern end of the island, let me know if you make it this way.

[goodcents]

My bar's in Phuket dude. On the southern end of the island, let me know if you make it this way.

Road trip

[goodcents]

He's probably still working on it from yesterday.

Probably writing a book on it.

I just about fell out of my chair

[bor]

Not really in all cases. Love makes women stupid, and what we feel for a hguy when we first lay eyes on them is not love.



You guys r coming off as a bit bitter.

A bit?

[Mizfit]

A bit?

im really out numbered here you know

baby steps

[Tren Bull]

For all you ugly guys out there, i have a sure way of getting laid each time you go out ..... roofie's !

-out

please tell me you're joking

[Tren Bull]

im really out numbered here you know

baby steps

i totally agree with your reasoning behind why a pretty girl would have low self esteem...

the same level of obsession and being overly self conscious of physical flaws can also occur for good looking guys as well

i bet damn near every single guy here has this to some extent... some more so than others

[bor]

Nice one bojangles, I like the way you think

[chest6]

please tell me you're joking

I think its same to say that he was joking..

[Mizfit]

i totally agree with your reasoning behind why a pretty girl would have low self esteem...

the same level of obsession and being overly self conscious of physical flaws can also occur for good looking guys as well

i bet damn near every single guy here has this to some extent... some more so than others

I don't really know what it feels like to be an undesirable male

I can only speak from my own experience.

I think plain people have it easierst because noone realyl notices them.

[Tren Bull]

I think plain people have it easierst because noone realyl notices them.

maybe... but even if that is true, i doubt many people would choose to be unnatractive over attractive

[Tren Bull]

I think its same to say that he was joking..

yea thats what i figured. dsm is a good man. i couldn't see him doing that to a female

[Mizfit]

maybe... but even if that is true, i doubt many people would choose to be unnatractive over attractive

i think it's easier for thme to pair up - there r more of them

[DSM4Life]

yea thats what i figured. dsm is a good man. i couldn't see him doing that to a female

100% joking here guys. I would never do that.

[Tren Bull]

i think it's easier for thme to pair up - there r more of them

haha yes this is true



i didn't think of that

[Tren Bull]

100% joking here guys. I would never do that.

hey man, you blow up your physics book yet?

[Mizfit]

haha yes this is true



i didn't think of that

Oh i have a bunch of good theories on this whole thing

[Tren Bull]

Oh i have a bunch of good theories on this whole thing

haha cool

you're funny

[zodiac666]

i think it's easier for thme to pair up - there r more of them

yea, its difficult for me being such an extremely handsome and attractive man.......sigh

[DSM4Life]

hey man, you blow up your physics book yet?

haha yup . I am trying to get the video on my computer but can't fine my sony disc and need the streaming usb drivers. you cannot download from sony web site. I might have to pay 60 bucks for a new cd which I am pissed about.

[Mizfit]

yea, its difficult for me being such an extremely handsome and attractive man.......sigh

Yes i have so much pity for u

[Tren Bull]

you know what i really dont like though?

is when girls that are very unnattractive try to hit on me. now im not saying that i think im gods gift to woman or anything like that, but it just puts me in an awkward position.

like the other day this obese girl was trying to hit on me...

i didn't want to say anything mean to her. but how do you reject someone without hurting their feelings?

in that case i just walked away and said id see her around



i suppose thats better than telling her to hit the stair master

[Tren Bull]

haha yup . I am trying to get the video on my computer but can't fine my sony disc and need the streaming usb drivers. you cannot download from sony web site. I might have to pay 60 bucks for a new cd which I am pissed about.

haha, you filmed it?

oh man, i hope i eventually get to see that video

[DSM4Life]

haha, you filmed it?

oh man, i hope i eventually get to see that video

yo it was awesome.

[Smak]

hah sorry didnt realize people actually paid attention to them.

Well my theory on this is i guess what i would call the "visual/emotion amplification theory" (too tired to think of a better name)

basically takes the standpoint that looks are neither good OR bad but that looks are simply an amplifier in any courtship. (not always a good thing)

I'll explain.
Im sure you know plenty of ugly ass dudes with hott ass brauds as well as goodlooking dudes with hot ass brauds. So what would the obvious natural expected outcome be??
Two schools of well justified generalizations.

One school says theres SOOO many fat ugly guys with smoking chicks.. what is wrong with these women??
The other says goodlooking girls are only attracted to goodlooking guys.. awww shucks, looks really must matter.

The reality of the situation, looks only amplify the state you produce around a woman.

IE:

Goodlooking guy with no social skills or social value approaches a hot woman. In her mind she will unconciously hold him to meet a higher expectation, because he is goodlooking and she EXPECTS him to have been more accepted in society (because goodlooking people are) and will expect him to have more experience with women in general.

Turning point:
Guy creates a negative atmosphere when hes with her. In reality hes shy, reclusive, and a very akward communicator. But WAIT hes GOODLOOKING and DOESNT have SKILLS?? What is going on here? Woman assumes something deeper must be wrong with him, attirbute more negative to his identity than he deserves. (even if theres nothing really there) this is the result of good looks amplifying a negatively induced state making the seduction state worse.
Plus you have the chance that woman get nervous around goodlooking guys, so he actually has to do more work to build comfort with her, so you can see how this can take a quick dive into a dry pussyless abyss of shameful self satisfaction.

Another example:
Guy creates positive atmosphere around her, builds a deep rapport rather fast, makes her extremely comfortable. Even though this is what she was hoping for and possibly expecting, the combination of LOOKS + SKILLS is actually multiplied, not ADDED. And the outcome state is amplified and the woman is courted A LOT easier rather he had just been ugly with skills. If she is sexed after the seduction process she will attribute the fact to things other than the amplified state ie: i was drunk, i got into a fight with my bf, he was just too hot. Because obviously shes not going to bring any real logic into why she acted like a slut, that would make her feel more vulnerable, so shell attribute the outcome to something meanlingless and confusing to confuse herself in the ultimate means of confusing other people. Its actually a quite simple/sophisticated process. If i dont understand why i acted like a slut, and i communicate this with other people. They'll attribute my behavoir to things out of my control and will me more likely to think of me in a favorable fashion.
Because if you UNDERSTAND you weakness you have a perfect reason not to have it. Its actually a rather simple yet sophisticated thing people do. Demonstrate you dont understand it, and people will have a lot more sympathy for you when someone else preys upon those weaknesses. Your viewed more in victim terms rather than someone who provoked the predator.

Ok that may be straying off topic.

BUT main point here is..
Looks are never a foundation for anything in men. The foundation is other things (way too much BS to get into). But looks are rather something that *AFFECTS* the foundation. Amplifies it. Have a good foundation NO MATTER what, and you'll eventually come to find... looks really dont mean anything. Especially what you once thought they did.

Speaking for the male gender on that.


~BO

Damn man. That's some good shit.

[goodcents]

Damn man. That's some good shit.

I can't even start to read all of that with A D D

[Tren Bull]

Damn man. That's some good shit.

i agree.

bo, you are a very wise man

[gixxerboy1]

you know what i really dont like though?

is when girls that are very unnattractive try to hit on me. now im not saying that i think im gods gift to woman or anything like that, but it just puts me in an awkward position.

like the other day this obese girl was trying to hit on me...

i didn't want to say anything mean to her. but how do you reject someone without hurting their feelings?

in that case i just walked away and said id see her around



i suppose thats better than telling her to hit the stair master

Tell them you have a girlfriend.

[kloter1]

another quality thread by my man smak.

good one bro

[gixxerboy1]

sometimes people treat the pretty girl like shit because she isn't interested.
My fiance gets it all the time. She is such a nice girl and will do anything for her friends and family. But she is a 5'10 model. So girls give her dirty looks whens she goes out. Because she isn't interested in a guy she stuck up. No she isn't she is engaged. She also gets the stupid thing alot. Her English isn't perfect since she grew up in Poland. But she has a college degree and speaks 5 languages. But no one cares about that.

[DSM4Life]

sometimes people treat the pretty girl like shit because she isn't interested.
My fiance gets it all the time. She is such a nice girl and will do anything for her friends and family. But she is a 5'10 model. So girls give her dirty looks whens she goes out. Because she isn't interested in a guy she stuck up. No she isn't she is engaged. She also gets the stupid thing alot. Her English isn't perfect since she grew up in Poland. But she has a college degree and speaks 5 languages. But no one cares about that.

All i read there was: shes a model from poland, HOLLA!!!!!!

[Bojangles69]

glad some people were enlightened by what i wrote.
i can only speak from personal experience. ive always been goodlooking, just that at one time in my life my source of sex was strictly fools mate, or waiting to get lucky.
now i go out with a choice and have no problem turning down spoiled hotties, in the past i would have tolerated thier shit on the hollow hope of getting some action.. NEVER HAPPENED.

For mizfits little lse (low self esteem) theory, i dont even consider it a theory, nor do i see anyone who disagrees with her, its a fact for me. Therefore i have no reason to defend it, i could dispense pages upon pages of elaboration and support, but we do have a great deal of ADD having m/f's up in this piece so it just wouldnt be worth it imo.

~BO

[goodcents]

All i read there was: shes a model from poland, HOLLA!!!!!!

that's as far as I got

[goodcents]

glad some people were enlightened by what i wrote.
i can only speak from personal experience. ive always been goodlooking, just that at one time in my life my source of sex was strictly fools mate, or waiting to get lucky.
now i go out with a choice and have no problem turning down spoiled hotties, in the past i would have tolerated thier shit on the hollow hope of getting some action.. NEVER HAPPENED.

For mizfits little lse (low self esteem) theory, i dont even consider it a theory, nor do i see anyone who disagrees with her, its a fact for me. Therefore i have no reason to defend it, i could dispense pages upon pages of elaboration and support, but we do have a great deal of ADD having m/f's up in this piece so it just wouldnt be worth it imo.
~BO

Yeah, don't bother, I'm not going to read it