She's attactive so why is there a lack of chemisty?

**Mike Dura** · 10-07-2006, 01:12 PM

I experienced once a peculiar feeling: I was flattered when this woman who I thought was attractive took an interest in me. I looked at her and thought, wow, she's really beautiful and photogenic. Yet, I didn't really feel attracted to her in a visceral sense. Inevitably, we started having sex and the funny thing is I didn't feel that strong feeling I usually feel with sex. This is strange to me. It's like, I should be feeling it....I think she's hot yet this thought of "she's hot is in my head but not in my gut. I've never had that experience before have you? I'll never grasp it.

**helium3** · 10-07-2006, 01:16 PM

now i can relate to this,i went with a girl once she was stunning,we dated for a while and although i had feelings for her i just wasnt bothered,she was ideal in every way except i didnt fancy her.sick.

**Mike Dura** · 10-07-2006, 01:21 PM

Yeah that's interesting. This girl I'm thinking of, she was kind of "loose" down stairs. You know? I was surprised because she looked petite yet without that firm grip, there's not much satisfaction. I guess she could have compensated by using her "pc" muscle but I couldn't bring myself to asking her to do this. I'm sure there's more to it than her just being loose but I'm not sure how to pin it down. It's a mystery to me.

Originally Posted by helium3

now i can relate to this,i went with a girl once she was stunning,we dated for a while and although i had feelings for her i just wasnt bothered,she was ideal in every way except i didnt fancy her.sick.

**dan991** · 10-07-2006, 01:22 PM

She's attactive so why is there a lack of chemisty?

Because she talks?

**helium3** · 10-07-2006, 01:25 PM

Originally Posted by Mike Dura

Yeah that's interesting. This girl I'm thinking of, she was kind of "loose" down stairs. You know? I was surprised because she looked petite yet without that firm grip, there's not much satisfaction. I guess she could have compensated by using her "pc" muscle but I couldn't bring myself to asking her to do this. I'm sure there's more to it than her just being loose but I'm not sure how to pin it down. It's a mystery to me.

up the rectum doesnt affectum.

**paulzane** · 10-07-2006, 01:52 PM

Originally Posted by Mike Dura

Yeah that's interesting. This girl I'm thinking of, she was kind of "loose" down stairs. You know? I was surprised because she looked petite yet without that firm grip, there's not much satisfaction. I guess she could have compensated by using her "pc" muscle but I couldn't bring myself to asking her to do this. I'm sure there's more to it than her just being loose but I'm not sure how to pin it down. It's a mystery to me.

No mystery....... you need a bigger wiener!!

**PROTEINSHAKE** · 10-07-2006, 01:55 PM

Originally Posted by Mike Dura

Yeah that's interesting. This girl I'm thinking of, she was kind of "loose" down stairs. You know? I was surprised because she looked petite yet without that firm grip, there's not much satisfaction. I guess she could have compensated by using her "pc" muscle but I couldn't bring myself to asking her to do this. I'm sure there's more to it than her just being loose but I'm not sure how to pin it down. It's a mystery to me.

like throwin a hot dog down a hallway eh?

**Mizfit** · 10-07-2006, 02:12 PM

maybe she wasn't as in to it as u wished she was - kinda ruins the moment

**Foskamink** · 10-07-2006, 02:17 PM

chicks loosen up alot when they are relaxed.. what would i know.. im 18

but my expirence with the hands before sex usually if they are relaxed they are twice as loose as if they are not.. prolly not much use since most girls i been with were virgins.

**kloter1** · 10-07-2006, 02:31 PM

**Mike Dura** · 10-07-2006, 02:37 PM

Yeah but I've got a seven iron and that's an inch bigger than average! How much bigger need I be?

Originally Posted by bodypaul

No mystery....... you need a bigger wiener!!

**Foskamink** · 10-07-2006, 02:38 PM

whats average.. i was told 6 or 7 inch

**63190** · 10-07-2006, 02:39 PM

Just get her to keygal it. Show her some keagul (or how ever you spell it) exercises. I always ask and they do it if they know how. It makes a world of difference. Then when they cum before you, you can feel it even through the condum. Pelvic floor muscle exercises make her orgasms stronger too, so she'll only enjoy it all the more. Win-win situation.

**Mike Dura** · 10-07-2006, 02:39 PM

I think your missing the message. I'm actually saying the opposite - that I'm not into it. But your almost right. It does kind of ruin the moment.

Originally Posted by Mizfit

maybe she wasn't as in to it as u wished she was - kinda ruins the moment

**Mizfit** · 10-07-2006, 03:12 PM

Originally Posted by Mike Dura

I think your missing the message. I'm actually saying the opposite - that I'm not into it. But your almost right. It does kind of ruin the moment.

i think i said it wrong too - doesn't matter how hot she is, if she doesn't have that UMPHHHH.. u won't be inot it..

PAssion is not always there with attraction - sorry i didn't say it right

**collar** · 10-07-2006, 07:19 PM

you might think shes hot but still if the chemistry is not there .
it would be very hard to enjoy it.

sometimes looks might not help if personalty doesnt back it up.

or could be she was not into it and you werent so it doesnt make for good time.

**cfiler** · 10-07-2006, 07:27 PM

If she's loose, or not into it, then it's not worth having a relationship. Don't think about it. Just get some action, and find someone else.

**fLgAtOr** · 10-07-2006, 07:28 PM

Originally Posted by helium3

up the rectum doesnt affectum.

Apparently no one else found this funny.

Dude, don't stress it. If you're not that into them, then you aren't. No mystery. Have you ever been really into a girl that isn't so attractive?

**Bryan2** · 10-07-2006, 09:19 PM

More to it then looks brotha

when its there its there

and when its not you cant force it...

**Panzerfaust** · 10-07-2006, 09:40 PM

Originally Posted by Mike Dura

Yeah that's interesting. This girl I'm thinking of, she was kind of "loose" down stairs. You know? I was surprised because she looked petite yet without that firm grip, there's not much satisfaction. I guess she could have compensated by using her "pc" muscle but I couldn't bring myself to asking her to do this. I'm sure there's more to it than her just being loose but I'm not sure how to pin it down. It's a mystery to me.

Maybe she is'nt loose? Ever thought of that?

**taiboxa** · 10-07-2006, 09:44 PM

ITS because of alcohol it makes women reck their cars and do stupid stuff destroying the alchemic properties of a relatinoship!

**skipp** · 10-08-2006, 12:12 AM

piitb

**Mike Dura** · 10-08-2006, 01:33 PM

You're feeling me brother. The thing is, her personality was great. I just have a hard feeling pinning it down. Maybe I changed or maybe it's something that is so counterintuitive it's just beyond my grasp. Well, you can't know everything. It's going to be something I'll always feel mystified by. I've read that it turns out that we are influenced by smell (although we are not conscious of it). Maybe it was her particular "stank" - it wasn't my prefered brand.

Originally Posted by collar

you might think shes hot but still if the chemistry is not there .
it would be very hard to enjoy it.

sometimes looks might not help if personalty doesnt back it up.

or could be she was not into it and you werent so it doesnt make for good time.

**Mike Dura** · 10-08-2006, 01:36 PM

Lol. Nice job my friend. I did think of that. It was ruled out. You have to read below.

Originally Posted by muriloninja

Maybe she is'nt loose? Ever thought of that?

**novastepp** · 10-08-2006, 02:51 PM

this might be a long shot but what the hell im bored.

if i was a girl dudes would want to marry me, soley because my mom is gorgeous. no shit a 53 year old model. her and my dad have been married since they were 21. and when i see pictures of her from when she was younger she was stunning. and i kid you not i met a stunningly beautiful girl once that i enioyed being around and all that... but when it came to physical aspects i was weirded out because she reminded me of my mother years before. couldn't shake it. what im getting at is maybe this girl reminds you of something emotionally that makes it horribly awkward, like uh...KISSING YOUR MOM.

weird story i know, but true nonetheless.

**Panzerfaust** · 10-08-2006, 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by novastepp

this might be a long shot but what the hell im bored.

if i was a girl dudes would want to marry me, soley because my mom is gorgeous. no shit a 53 year old model. her and my dad have been married since they were 21. and when i see pictures of her from when she was younger she was stunning. and i kid you not i met a stunningly beautiful girl once that i enioyed being around and all that... but when it came to physical aspects i was weirded out because she reminded me of my mother years before. couldn't shake it. what im getting at is maybe this girl reminds you of something emotionally that makes it horribly awkward, like uh...KISSING YOUR MOM.

weird story i know, but true nonetheless.

wtf? pics?