Judge is sending me and my kids mom to a parenting seminar

**dedic8ed1** · 10-20-2006, 09:53 AM

WTF man I don't wanna sit in the same room with this bitch for three and a half hours this is bullshite,talking about why we don't get along,she's just a miserable fukin twot that likes to use my son as leverage in order to fuk my head up and make me miserasble.Some woman are just genectly programed to make there ex's life a living hell,that's probably why I'm so reluctant to hook up with anybody and there's been so many oppurtunitys too.Anybody been to one of these things?

**xlxBigSexyxlx** · 10-20-2006, 09:58 AM

I'd have her killed, but thats just me. It will cost for the hitman, but save you money in the long run. Plus, no more seminars with her annoying bitch self. Ya dig?

Then you can be all like, yeah

**dedic8ed1** · 10-20-2006, 10:01 AM

Originally Posted by xlxBigSexyxlx

I'd have her killed, but thats just me. It will cost for the hitman, but save you money in the long run. Plus, no more seminars with her annoying bitch self. Ya dig?

Then you can be all like, yeah

I gotta go bro if I don't I have a warrant for my arrest

**xlxBigSexyxlx** · 10-20-2006, 10:03 AM

but really, its best just to go and make the best of what ya got. I knwo its hard, but its like the old saying, you gotta play with the cards your dealt. Just get through it, as pleasant as possible, and spend time with your kid and have fun with life. Its too short to be pissed off. Best of luck with your problems.

**gixxerboy1** · 10-20-2006, 10:03 AM

Well you guys need to be able to be civil to each other and be in the same room for the sake of your kids. So it does sound like you need counseling

**lucabratzi** · 10-20-2006, 10:04 AM

thats ****in rediculous...why are they makin u go?...if u hate her then **** it...all u need to know is how to be a good father...

**dedic8ed1** · 10-20-2006, 10:07 AM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

Well you guys need to be able to be civil to each other and be in the same room for the sake of your kids. So it does sound like you need counseling

WO WO bro take it easy man I've been polite and cordial to her in every aspect of my sons needs it's just when I have a suggestion regarding my sons life she doesn't want to acknowledge that I'm his father and I need to have a strong presence in his life with everything he does.

**dedic8ed1** · 10-20-2006, 10:08 AM

Originally Posted by lucabratzi

thats ****in rediculous...why are they makin u go?...if u hate her then **** it...all u need to know is how to be a good father...

It's not that I hate her I just think she is being vindictive with the power of being the primary parent.Hateing people takes to much energy out of me there's no one I really hate.

**pumpd4lif** · 10-20-2006, 10:13 AM

Originally Posted by dedic8ed1

It's not that I hate her I just think she is being vindictive with the power of being the primary parent.Hateing people takes to much energy out of me there's no one I really hate.

u dont have to cause i hate the bitch for u snake ass slimy vindictive 2 face cheating slut wanna be dirty skank @#%$@#%$@#@#%

on her

**dedic8ed1** · 10-20-2006, 10:17 AM

Originally Posted by pumpd4lif

u dont have to cause i hate the bitch for u snake ass slimy vindictive 2 face cheating slut wanna be dirty skank @#%$@#%$@#@#%

on her

You the man bro now I'm coming over bitch it's time to train you ready

**gixxerboy1** · 10-20-2006, 10:17 AM

Originally Posted by dedic8ed1

WO WO bro take it easy man I've been polite and cordial to her in every aspect of my sons needs it's just when I have a suggestion regarding my sons life she doesn't want to acknowledge that I'm his father and I need to have a strong presence in his life with everything he does.

But thats something you guys can work out in counseling. I didn't mean to make it sound like YOU were the problem. But apparently you guys have some issues to work out regarding your son. I don't know how old your son is but they can pick up that there is tension between you and his mother. Hope it all works out for you

**dedic8ed1** · 10-20-2006, 10:18 AM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

But thats something you guys can work out in counseling. I didn't mean to make it sound like YOU were the problem. But apparently you guys have some issues to work out regarding your son. I don't know how old your son is but they can pick up that there is tension between you and his mother. Hope it all works out for you

Thanks bro he's 5 and there's nothing I wouldn't do for him

BG · 10-20-2006, 10:19 AM

, fuc Ill never get married

Originally Posted by dedic8ed1

WTF man I don't wanna sit in the same room with this bitch for three and a half hours this is bullshite,talking about why we don't get along,she's just a miserable fukin twot that likes to use my son as leverage in order to fuk my head up and make me miserasble.Some woman are just genectly programed to make there ex's life a living hell,that's probably why I'm so reluctant to hook up with anybody and there's been so many oppurtunitys too.Anybody been to one of these things?

**dedic8ed1** · 10-20-2006, 10:23 AM

Originally Posted by BigGuns101

, fuc Ill never get married

Shiiiiiiit man I didn't marry that bitch I just got her pregnant after I was with her for 3 years.

**paulzane** · 10-20-2006, 10:58 AM

Go on the Maury Povich show and see if the kid is really yours!

**l2elapse** · 10-20-2006, 11:00 AM

Originally Posted by bodypaul

Go on the Maury Povich show and see if the kid is really yours!

do this!

**spywizard** · 10-20-2006, 01:13 PM

sorry to hear this man, I see it all the time with my brother in law.. now he forced his son to come and spend time with him, and in the end, the son of coarse just refused, then was angry all the time, so he stopped forcing him by the time he was 14 yrs... my brother in law has a wife and 2 other kids to support and love as well, his 1st son knows he loves him, but you can't force someone to spend time with you, his mom really poisons his mind..

**dedic8ed1** · 10-20-2006, 01:44 PM

Originally Posted by bodypaul

Go on the Maury Povich show and see if the kid is really yours!

If you saw my son you would know that he is undeniably mine,he's a mini me

**dedic8ed1** · 10-20-2006, 01:50 PM

My son tells me that his mom told him that when his step father picks him up that my son is not to hug or kiss me goodbye in front of his step father,WHO THE FUK tells there kid these things man I was appauled when ny son told me this I didn't know how to explain why his mom is acting this way,so I just said to him Nicholas when you get older you'll understand more about your mother and why she does certain things,but right now all you need to do is listen to what she tells you to do so you don't get in trouble and when the time comes when you get older if you want you can come live with daddy,so he says why can't I live with you now,and I said again when you get older you'll understand.Poor kid I feel so terrible but what can I do ya know

**gixxerboy1** · 10-20-2006, 01:54 PM

Originally Posted by dedic8ed1

My son tells me that his mom told him that when his step father picks him up that my son is not to hug or kiss me goodbye in front of his step father,WHO THE FUK tells there kid these things man I was appauled when ny son told me this I didn't know how to explain why his mom is acting this way,so I just said to him Nicholas when you get older you'll understand more about your mother and why she does certain things,but right now all you need to do is listen to what she tells you to do so you don't get in trouble and when the time comes when you get older if you want you can come live with daddy,so he says why can't I live with you now,and I said again when you get older you'll understand.Poor kid I feel so terrible but what can I do ya know

Damn bro. Thats sucks.
You really just impressed me. You really are a good Dad. To bad there isn't more like you.

**dedic8ed1** · 10-20-2006, 03:54 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

Damn bro. Thats sucks.
You really just impressed me. You really are a good Dad. To bad there isn't more like you.

Thank you brother,much appreciated.

**beuleux** · 10-21-2006, 08:19 AM

Youre doing the right thing by keeping cool in front of your kids Im in a similar situation although there is no stepdfather, if it were me Id have a quiet word in the dark with stepfather and make him see sense about his public affection issues, personaly when my kids tell me the crazy things thier ma says about me I just tell them "dont worry its not true your ma lies because shes ill" my eldest is 9 and can see the bigger picture already. I hope your boy does come live with you one day soon, the sh1t he is going through will fvck him up for sure