Told girlfriend about steoids

[Benches505]

I've been dating this lady for a few months now and decided I would tell her about my upcomming cycle. Damn, all hell broke lose, not the reaction I expected at all. I've got a doctors script to do it legally and all and she flipped out. Hit me with the old I want to have kids one day story blah blah. Anyway the deal is if I go on a cycle she walks. Won't listen to anything I say in regards to this issue. She say's I'm already too big as it is and any bigger and instead of sexy I'll be freakish. I thought about doing it behind her back but how will I explain the extra 20 lbs of muscle in 3 months

Anyone get into a situation like this? how did you handle it? After a string of loser chicks I finally landed a good one and now this.

[l2elapse]

thats a real tough one, whats more important in your eyes, 20 lbs of muscle or the gf

[Moner]

Mate i feel for you but you've kinda helped me, i was thinking of tellin my girlfriend but wasn't too sure how she would react... all woman would react the same... i would imagen!

[almostgone]

Benches, you've known me via the Internet for awhile now. So, I'm being completely straight up when I tell you my wife knows 100% of my supplementation.
Also, please be careful. I've seen some real good bros get in trouble because females didn't want to be around AAS.

AG

[l2elapse]

i could completely understand why women would get upset because if they want children they would see AAS causing birth defects

[almostgone]

On the other hand, you may be able to gradually educate her in the finer points of AAS. Also, if you're getting old like me, the joints are probably telling you it's time to quit bulking and start cutting...LOL.

AG

[THE_DOME]

yea i was in the same predicament but i was with my girl for a year, i just keeped informing her of what the media was making her think i showed her the video that brayant gumble did and she eventually gave in and helps me do my shots now. why is she so unwilling to listen to you side, you have it precribed by the doc say you have to. your not going to become steril from gear bro

[Benches505]

thats a real tough one, whats more important in your eyes, 20 lbs of muscle or the gf

The GF is more important but at the same time I don't like someone else trying to force me not to do something. Half of me wants to tell her to take a hike but she is the best I've had thus far and I don't want to risk losing it.

I'm taking a trip to see her again in a few weeks (she is out of state) and thought since I was going to start a cycle I would have to bring gear with me. I'm going to let her cool off and then come back with the lets research it together line

[Benches505]

On the other hand, you may be able to gradually educate her in the finer points of AAS. Also, if you're getting old like me, the joints are probably telling you it's time to quit bulking and start cutting...LOL.

AG

LOl I'm still a size junkie AG

[almostgone]

LOl I'm still a size junkie AG

Some things never change, buddy!

AG

[THE_DOME]

how big are you i will tell you if youre big enough?



if she doesnt live with you, you most definatly can keep it from her, but if you live together it woudl be a bit more difficult

[chuck89gt5.0]

Damn my fiance gave me my first shot, she thought it was fun.....
She loves when the test kicks in too!

[Kale]

Show her this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=73EC609GYD0 and if that doesn't work dump the bitch !!!

[mick-g]

Sometimes is it better to wait for a yr or 2 b4 saying anything. I have seen bros go down thinking their "new gf" is for real and then they go physco on them telling LE.

[bently]

ask her what she would do if she put on 30lbs and couldnt loose it??and there was a drug her dr. gave her to loose the weight. would she take it even if you didnt approve? hell yes she would. if she was flat chested and could afford implants would she get them. prolly so 90% of women ask would they get them if they could the said yes. tell her not to judge untill she been were your at. its your body. my wife doesnt like it but she told me she wouldnt want me to tell her no if she wanted to do something so she wont stop me. good luck.

[mick-g]

^that won't work, lol cause she will say if there is a pill that can be prescribed it isn't illegal and neither are implants. Got to find another option. If it were me id ditch her. If shes going to tell you what to do now, then whats going to happen later? If you do it behind her back and she finds out much later, then what will she do bro? You have to watch your back first.

[chuck89gt5.0]

Show her this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=73EC609GYD0 and if that doesn't work dump the bitch !!!

Nice post bro

[DSM4Life]

Muscle comes and goes but the girl could be with you for the rest of your life. If she means that much to you i don't see how this is a tough question.

[cfiler]

My GF is cool with aas, but most are not. It's usually best to not tell them about it, because most are too stumborn to learn about aas, and only belive the junk they see on the news.

[stayinstacked]

its aright bro, when the test kicks in and you start ****ing her like some baboon on speed, she'll like it and understand!!!

[C_Bino]

Its a decision only you can make man. Some people say stay with the girl. I would personally let her leave.

The way I look at it is this. This is a lifestyle I have chosen to live, something that I decided to do for MYSELF before there was a girl. Now one comes along and suddenly Im going to stop doing this thing I love because she wants me to. Na na, no way in hell. This IS a lifesytle, so if she is really THE ONE than she will accept it, this should just show you she isnt.

[fLgAtOr]

Its a decision only you can make man. Some people say stay with the girl. I would personally let her leave.

The way I look at it is this. This is a lifestyle I have chosen to live, something that I decided to do for MYSELF before there was a girl. Now one comes along and suddenly Im going to stop doing this thing I love because she wants me to. Na na, no way in hell. This IS a lifesytle, so if she is really THE ONE than she will accept it, this should just show you she isnt.

Very well put.

[MrTAME]

I have never told any GF about AAS because I know how they all would react...in my opinion that was gutsy....you could just say that you found a new supplement called creatine and started taking moire protein and found a great diet. Thats what I say to the people when I am on cycle at the gym...its pretty funny actually

[DSM4Life]

Its a decision only you can make man. Some people say stay with the girl. I would personally let her leave.

The way I look at it is this. This is a lifestyle I have chosen to live, something that I decided to do for MYSELF before there was a girl. Now one comes along and suddenly Im going to stop doing this thing I love because she wants me to. Na na, no way in hell. This IS a lifesytle, so if she is really THE ONE than she will accept it, this should just show you she isnt.

Wait till you meet the right girl ....

[carpediemguy08]

my fiance' is in med school and she made me vow to not do it again. OK!


nice to know superdrol clones are legal


now thats a nice loophole in our agreement, and i even told her about it too...


borat: "I liiiiiike"

[chest6]

lol why would you tell her after a few months? Bad idea. Maybe if you're going to get married...but not besides that

[guest589745]

thats a real tough one, whats more important in your eyes, 20 lbs of muscle or the gf

20lbs of muscle woudl be for me. ****in bitch..........



Sorry, had to say it lol.

[Foskamink]

20lbs of muscle woudl be for me.

yeh me too, but only because im yet to start my first cycle. but i asume u done like 3+

[donniebrasco]

now its you cant do that. then it will be you cant buy that new car, then you cant watch that.
soon she'll be wearing the trousers. haha
get her to research, speak to the doc, whatever just put her mind at rest and all should hopefully be good.

[chest6]

yeh me too, but only because im yet to start my first cycle. but i asume u done like 3+

arent you like 18?

[Kärnfysikern]

Its a decision only you can make man. Some people say stay with the girl. I would personally let her leave.

The way I look at it is this. This is a lifestyle I have chosen to live, something that I decided to do for MYSELF before there was a girl. Now one comes along and suddenly Im going to stop doing this thing I love because she wants me to. Na na, no way in hell. This IS a lifesytle, so if she is really THE ONE than she will accept it, this should just show you she isnt.

Seems like she is making a unresonable demand on you benches only because she is ignorant on the issue.

[Foskamink]

arent you like 18?

yes? i dont understand. i would choosen cycle before girlfriend only because i havnt done one before, altho im not starting yet. depending on where i can get gear it will be late 07 or 08 before i start

[pumpd4lif]

take me for who i am or dont take me at all she is judging u in my opinion who the f#$k is she to judge anybody and the fact that she is judging what ur gong to be doing on shear stipulation is even worst it isnt her own opinion it is everybody elses opinion she is using
tell her to do some research help her know the pro,s and con,s about it then tell her to form her own opinion.
i tell my wife ive been doing these thing before u and will do them after u like it or lump it
but i am completely honest with my wife.and altho she doesnt agree with what im doing she is married to a man and a man is gonna make his own decisions!!!!!

[*Narkissos*]

Its a decision only you can make man. Some people say stay with the girl. I would personally let her leave.

The way I look at it is this. This is a lifestyle I have chosen to live, something that I decided to do for MYSELF before there was a girl. Now one comes along and suddenly Im going to stop doing this thing I love because she wants me to. Na na, no way in hell. This IS a lifesytle, so if she is really THE ONE than she will accept it, this should just show you she isnt.

Ditto.

If she came and found you the juicer.

She proclaimed to like you..the guy she met (who's obviously done a cycle or two)..the juicer.

Now she wants to leave the juicer if he juices?

Nope... I'd hit the juice and let the chips fall as they may.

A relationship is give and take... Your lifestyle isn't something you just started today on a whim.. It's obviously something that you've been living for years. She likes the end product but not the process tru which it was obtained.

I'd juice.

[RuhlFreak55]

Its a decision only you can make man. Some people say stay with the girl. I would personally let her leave.

The way I look at it is this. This is a lifestyle I have chosen to live, something that I decided to do for MYSELF before there was a girl. Now one comes along and suddenly Im going to stop doing this thing I love because she wants me to. Na na, no way in hell. This IS a lifesytle, so if she is really THE ONE than she will accept it, this should just show you she isnt.

yea right on......and u should have prolly let her know from the start about the juice so she knew and could make an educated decision then

[IronReload04]

thats a real tough one, whats more important in your eyes, 20 lbs of muscle or the gf

gf's come and go.....20 pounds of muscle stays with you forever



and maybe, with 20 pounds of muscle, you can get a hotter gf

[IronReload04]

I've been dating this lady for a few months now and decided I would tell her about my upcomming cycle. Damn, all hell broke lose, not the reaction I expected at all. I've got a doctors script to do it legally and all and she flipped out. Hit me with the old I want to have kids one day story blah blah. Anyway the deal is if I go on a cycle she walks. Won't listen to anything I say in regards to this issue. She say's I'm already too big as it is and any bigger and instead of sexy I'll be freakish. I thought about doing it behind her back but how will I explain the extra 20 lbs of muscle in 3 months

Anyone get into a situation like this? how did you handle it? After a string of loser chicks I finally landed a good one and now this.

Honostly, man, i thought about this, and when i start, I TELL NO ONE. well, i already told a couple close friends...but other than that no one...


Just watch, if you gain 20 pounds of muscle, without her knowing, she probably woulnth think twice about it being any less sexy. (meaning she wouldnt find you any less sexy, if she didnt know about the roids, she might even be more turned on). jmo

[Benches505]

I would have not said anything but I'm going to be staying at her place for a few weeks when I go back up and running juice and GH daily would have = 18 inections per week, that would have been kind of hard to hide, and also the GH would have had to go to her fridge

[mavsluva]

[QUOTE=Benches505]The GF is more important but at the same time I don't like someone else trying to force me not to do something. Half of me wants to tell her to take a hike but she is the best I've had thus far and I don't want to risk losing it.

I'm taking a trip to see her again in a few weeks (she is out of state) and thought since I was going to start a cycle I would have to bring gear with me. I'm going to let her cool off and then come back with the lets research it together line [/QUOT


With women, you have to approach them the right way about any and every thing you want. When you're a part of a committment, you have to build a business case for her and then explain to her why you'll be both safe and successful. You could have said, "I've used AAS in the past and had zero health issues in my experiences with it. I would like to consider another cycle in the near future and I want you to be okay with it before I begin planning for it. Now I know that you might not be completely kosher with this idea, but I'd like to have the oppotunity to give you the insight that you need to be confident that what I'm doing to my body is perfectly safe. Here's why............"

I'm a natty, so I've never had the need to have this conversation with my wife. But this is how I would do it if I were going to consider it. If she's not down with it whatsoever, I think you have to then look at it this way: The girlfriend, who's the best thing that has ever happened to you, could end up loving you for the rest of your life. But will the roids love you back? It's better to be loved by someone than to be asthetically pleasing in your own mind.

Good luck!

[DSM4Life]

My X told me that if I were to ever do steroids she would break up with me. I was clean for 3 years. Its call priorities guys which i guess is different for everyone. Being as though she is gone and i back on