Left Behind At A Club

**stunner5000pt** · 11-11-2006, 11:22 AM

Introduction
ok so last night i didnt have any work so i decided to go out with my friends - to a club. These are my friends from high school - Mark and Dave
Dave has a good car and he refuses to park it downtonw in the night because is afraid that it may get stolen, broken into, blah blah blah. So the three of us took a cab - it costed 60 bucks - 20 each guy... very cheap... haha.. NOT

The setup
I had also arranged to meet some of my friend Jason and his brother Gary from university at the club. So 5 of us in all - i thought that they would mix well and eveyrone would enjoy themslves togehter.

Mark, Dave and I got there early and we were soon joined by jason and Gary. Mark and Dave left me after that and i didnt see them afterward. I though that i would met up with them when we were gonna leave - which i thought was going to be around 2... which is still early but my standards.

Things come undone
The night
So i m dancing

grinding with some girls

at around 1 30 i look at my phone - 2 messages and 2 missed phone calls
Messages were from Dave and Mark and went along hte lines of - we're leaving at 12 30. My heart stopped.

(After the paramedics were done with me... no not really )

i messaged them back - are you still in the club ? Mark replied - no.
I messaged back - thanks for looking for me, at least, friend.

Epilogue
I was a little pissed off. I had to pay 60 bucks for hte cab

i wont be hanging out with Mark and Dave again. Unfortunately Jason and Gary lived the opposite side of the city so they couldnt help me

So all in all - it was an OK night - only becuase i was left behind.

O i miss my car

**italianplayboy09** · 11-11-2006, 11:23 AM

damn i would be pissed

**Superhuman** · 11-11-2006, 11:32 AM

i would be furious!

**RuhlFreak55** · 11-11-2006, 11:42 AM

get a car.....i would never rely on someone else for transportation....especially peoplel that could be drinking

**Hackamaniac** · 11-11-2006, 11:43 AM

Fck them!Friends don't pull that shit!

**stunner5000pt** · 11-11-2006, 11:45 AM

Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55

get a car.....i would never rely on someone else for transportation....especially peoplel that could be drinking

this happened BECUASE i didnt have my lciense
they were there to fork up teh cab and nothing else

if i had the car they wouldnt be involved

**Timm1704** · 11-11-2006, 11:46 AM

yeah thats pretty damn out of order

**chest6** · 11-11-2006, 01:44 PM

shit man thats pretty bad...

**l2elapse** · 11-11-2006, 01:51 PM

yeah i would probably kill soemone

**RuhlFreak55** · 11-11-2006, 01:52 PM

Originally Posted by justinandrews7

yeah i would probably kill soemone

definately

**audis4** · 11-11-2006, 02:17 PM

damn, they didn't offer to come back and pick you up?
What if you didn't have $60??

**FranKieC** · 11-11-2006, 02:19 PM

I am left behind at clubs all the time..That is because I never want to leave

**Hackamaniac** · 11-11-2006, 02:25 PM

Originally Posted by FranKieC

I am left behind at clubs all the time..That is because I never want to leave

I've stayed longer many time myself...
My friends didn't just leave me though..

**stunner5000pt** · 11-11-2006, 02:26 PM

the problme is that the distance involved here in HUGE ... like 40 kilometers

i miss my car and license

**THE_DOME** · 11-11-2006, 02:47 PM

damn 60buck i would have walked ten miles instead of paying that

**Rye_guy** · 11-11-2006, 02:47 PM

aye, this happens to my room mate all the time, his friends always screw off on him and ditch his ass, one time he spent 3 hours walkin home across town and was furious when he got home.

**italianplayboy09** · 11-11-2006, 02:54 PM

Originally Posted by Rye_guy

aye, this happens to my room mate all the time, his friends always screw off on him and ditch his ass, one time he spent 3 hours walkin home across town and was furious when he got home.

if my roomates did that to me then they woulda caught 3 left hooks

**Mizfit** · 11-11-2006, 03:39 PM

They called and txt msg u.. i dont see the problem

**THE_DOME** · 11-11-2006, 03:45 PM

i usually like a long ass walk after a long night of drinking, i use to walk from my downtown to my house on 34th that 34 blocks, while on my home i would stoop at 7-11 get some beef jerkey and continue on my way, it usually took a few hours but didnt seem that long becuase my buddie and i would chat about bb and shit

**stunner5000pt** · 11-11-2006, 03:49 PM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

They called and txt msg u.. i dont see the problem

they couldve at least looked for me

**stunner5000pt** · 11-11-2006, 03:52 PM

Originally Posted by stunner5000pt

they couldve at least looked for me

in al honesty it is my fault for not checking my messages

i was in one place the whole night ... it s not like it wouldve been hard to find me if you made an active effort

or tell the DJ to say "Winston please go to the front foor"

i think the second option is very effective

**STYLE74** · 11-12-2006, 09:32 AM

How does the saying go? With friends like that who needs enemies?

**gixxerboy1** · 11-12-2006, 10:15 AM

I would have left someone also. If i was calling and texting. I'm not going to sit around all night. And its not like they drove you.

Any club i have worked at the DJ isnt going to page anyone.

**Mizfit** · 11-12-2006, 10:27 AM

I never seen a dj page someone at a club myself..

**STYLE74** · 11-12-2006, 10:31 AM

I would never leave a friend, especially at a club where a fight could break out. Thank god it didn't happen, but what if a fight broke out and Winston would have had to fight all by himself.

**G.I JOE** · 11-12-2006, 10:50 AM

I would of fliped out and seriously how are u suppose to hear ur phone in a club and the phone is the last thing on my mind when im in a club.

**Foskamink** · 11-12-2006, 10:51 AM

i would be anouyed for the fact of the cab money and ect, but they did call and msg u. plans never are acurate u gotta play it by ear most of the time. but its still piss ya off no doubt, but no reason to be too cut at ya friends.
yeh the page in the club, if dj's did it. there would literally be prolly a page per song and it would anouy everyone and people would get to used to it and abuse the syste.
g i joe sure u dont look at ur phone, but how long u stay on the dance floor for at one time? dont check it when ur headed to bathroom or bar. i always have a glance now and then.

**stunner5000pt** · 11-12-2006, 05:13 PM

Originally Posted by Foskamink

i would be anouyed for the fact of the cab money and ect, but they did call and msg u. plans never are acurate u gotta play it by ear most of the time. but its still piss ya off no doubt, but no reason to be too cut at ya friends.
yeh the page in the club, if dj's did it. there would literally be prolly a page per song and it would anouy everyone and people would get to used to it and abuse the syste.
g i joe sure u dont look at ur phone, but how long u stay on the dance floor for at one time? dont check it when ur headed to bathroom or bar. i always have a glance now and then.

yea i guess that paging system worked at my old work where people didnt abuse it

i had been drinking rum and diet cokes so i wasnt really pissing a lot

**allsafe** · 11-13-2006, 12:02 AM

Originally Posted by stunner5000pt

this happened BECUASE i didnt have my lciense
they were there to fork up teh cab and nothing else

if i had the car they wouldnt be involved

hey bro, not taking sides... but u think that your true feelings don't maybe betray your words or friendship?

**stunner5000pt** · 11-13-2006, 12:40 AM

Originally Posted by allsafe

hey bro, not taking sides... but u think that your true feelings don't maybe betray your words or friendship?

my feelings on this matter are that they shouldve looked for me... or tried harder .. i wasnt really hard to find and for that i dont appreciate their laziness

the thing which really ticked me off at the beginning is the guy claiming his car is 'the sh it' and refusing to drive it downtown depite my repeated assurances of a good safe parking spot. Hell i even offered to pay for parking in a high security underground parking lot.

i didnt appreciate that

after that he proceeds to berate me about the loss of my license (i know it was my fault but i really dont appreciate it being rubbed in like that) at which point i grabbed his neck and threatened to hit him and he still didnt shut up but i held myself back - the other guy put an end to that

in the past they were first tier friends - friends i would call first if i wanted to make plans
soon after i got my car they were 3rd tier - overtaken by much more reliable friends who actually give a damn about me. They are not hte kind which would walk awya from me, as these guys did. I tried to introduce Mark and Dave to Jason and Gary but they didnt evne put an effort there, they just walked away.

no im not pissed off with these guys anymore ... it's beyond that

**T3/T4 GSR** · 11-13-2006, 11:10 PM

Originally Posted by STYLE74

I would never leave a friend, especially at a club where a fight could break out. Thank god it didn't happen, but what if a fight broke out and Winston would have had to fight all by himself.

That there is actually the biggest problem in clubs. Atleast here in NY. I would never let my friends get to far from me incase something happened. Even in bars etc. Anywhere there is drinking there is potential for fights and it usually isn't gonna be one on one.

**italianplayboy09** · 11-13-2006, 11:50 PM

Originally Posted by T3/T4 GSR

That there is actually the biggest problem in clubs. Atleast here in NY. I would never let my friends get to far from me incase something happened. Even in bars etc. Anywhere there is drinking there is potential for fights and it usually isn't gonna be one on one.

very true