Who's got the girl knowledge?

[king6]

So in one of my college classes there is this girl who sits next to me who is super cute. I really like her. I was going to ask her out when she said one day, that she saw this guy who she thought they were going out but he was dating someone else now. That kind of threw me off. Then after the weekend she said she was dumped. And this time the story she told contridicted the other. So now im kind of confused. Could this just be her way of telling me she is single? I don't really know. She is not real flirty, we have friendly conversations, and she said I seemed mature. I am 4 years older than her, and I know how girls like older guys. I'm just not good with these mind games.

[Mizfit]

How old is she..

Sounds to me like she cant keep her story straight or shes nervous..

Anyhow ask her out for coffee - it can be taken as a date or friendship thing and see where it goes.

[Phreak101]

She's

a) nervous
b) crazy
c) both

Tread lightly, cute girls are a dime a dozen, cute normal girls are another story...

[king6]

She's 20, I'm 24. She seems normal. I got a good 100 pounds on her so I'm not worried. And I don't have any pets she can boil.

[king6]

Tread lightly, cute girls are a dime a dozen, cute normal girls are another story...

Yeah but I have been in Iraq for the last 8 months. And haven't been laid in close to a year. She could have 7 personalities and speak in tounges for all I care. No but really I do like her, and think about her alot.

[PROTEINSHAKE]

no a$$ in a year?? holy crap!!! I'd hang myself

[king6]

Dude, you have no idea.

[fLgAtOr]

Yeah but I have been in Iraq for the last 8 months. And haven't been laid in close to a year. She could have 7 personalities and speak in tounges for all I care. No but really I do like her, and think about her alot.

And whats wrong with that?

Go for it...See where it goes.

[king6]

LOL, I will swallow a handcuff key just in case.

[DamnYouMSN]

ehh who gives a shit about her stories....ask her out and see how it goes. just remember one thing, all girls are nutz just gotta find the least crazy one.

[DamnYouMSN]

BTW thanks for your service in protecting our country.

[king6]

Your welcome. OOH-RAHH!

Yeah I guess I should just ask her out. It can only go two ways.

[RA]

Dig a pit in your house. While shes walking home jump out of a van and throw bag over her head. Take her back in dump her in the pit. There you go.

Or just do what mizfit said. They both seem to work well.

[king6]

Her advice seems like less work. I think I will stick with that. But props to you for being so creative.

[RA]

Her advice seems like less work. I think I will stick with that. But props to you for being so creative.

Im thinking you made the right choice

[soccer#3]

ask her out before someone else does.. and if she is "super cute" then someone will

[mateo112]

ask her out before someone else does.. and if she is "super cute" then someone will

exactly

[cfiler]

Just ask her out. I would tread lightly though. If she's already confusing you with mind games, just wait untill you start dating.

[MuscleScience]

He who hesitates masterbates.

Thanks for your service brother.

[K.Biz]

yo let us know how it goes bro. goodluck

[DSM4Life]

One thing i learned about women ..... stay away from them all

[kloter1]

yep a good amount of dem are nizzuts. dont be a fool wrap your tool.

dude just ask her to a party. duh!

[king6]

She wasn't as school today, so I will have to wait another day. Hopefully it will all go well. I should just ask her and get it over with. Even if she says no, at least I can stop thinking about it. The whole wondering "what if" is killing me.

[Superhuman]

Yeah but I have been in Iraq for the last 8 months. And haven't been laid in close to a year.

aren't there a lot of women serving over there too? are you not allowed to hook up in the military?

[Foskamink]

He who hesitates masterbates.

my new philospihy on life

[king6]

aren't there a lot of women serving over there too? are you not allowed to hook up in the military?

I'm not in the military anymore. But I was able to hook up once over there, with an airforce chick. They love marines. But I was lucky. Because there were about 2,000 guys there and about 50 girls. Horrible odds.

[Superhuman]

I'm not in the military anymore. But I was able to hook up once over there, with an airforce chick. They love marines. But I was lucky. Because there were about 2,000 guys there and about 50 girls. Horrible odds.

cool, I'm joining the Air Force soon- i can't wait!

[king6]

Be a loadmaster on c-17's. You wont regret it.

[Mike Dura]

It sounds like you're worrying too much. This state of mind puts you "one-down" and leaves you at a major disadvantage. If she senses, for example, an absence of confidence from you, or something a bit neurotic and tense, all bets may be off (i.e., no puss).

Better to come from a position of power, confidence, and ease. How? Work yourself into a state of mind were there are no worries and no ulterior motives on your part (towards her). Focus instead on just being her friend (specifically, being a good listener): Get her talking about herself and limit your responses to reflecting back (i.e., restating whatever she expresses). Be sure to adress feelings in these restatements, e.g., "it sounds like you feel nervous about this up-coming bio exam, what do you plan on doing?" Never give advice!

Just listen and see what happens and don't neurose (e.g., over her intentions or where it's leading). Things will happen on their on if you don't sabatoge the whole thing with your insecurities. Tolerate the uncertainties of the situation and what will happen will happen. Either way, it's all good!

So in one of my college classes there is this girl who sits next to me who is super cute. I really like her. I was going to ask her out when she said one day, that she saw this guy who she thought they were going out but he was dating someone else now. That kind of threw me off. Then after the weekend she said she was dumped. And this time the story she told contridicted the other. So now im kind of confused. Could this just be her way of telling me she is single? I don't really know. She is not real flirty, we have friendly conversations, and she said I seemed mature. I am 4 years older than her, and I know how girls like older guys. I'm just not good with these mind games.

[Superhuman]

Be a loadmaster on c-17's. You wont regret it.

no thanks, i'm going TACC

[king6]

It sounds like you're worrying too much. This state of mind puts you "one-down" and leaves you at a major disadvantage. If she senses, for example, an absence of confidence from you, or something a bit neurotic and tense, all bets may be off (i.e., no puss).

Better to come from a position of power, confidence, and ease. How? Work yourself into a state of mind were there are no worries and no ulterior motives on your part (towards her). Focus instead on just being her friend (specifically, being a good listener): Get her talking about herself and limit your responses to reflecting back (i.e., restating whatever she expresses). Be sure to adress feelings in these restatements, e.g., "it sounds like you feel nervous about this up-coming bio exam, what do you plan on doing?" Never give advice!

Just listen and see what happens and don't neurose (e.g., over her intentions or where it's leading). Things will happen on their on if you don't sabatoge the whole thing with your insecurities. Tolerate the uncertainties of the situation and what will happen will happen. Either way, it's all good!

Thanks bro, thats the best advice yet. I will try the friend tactic, and see how that works. You are right about the confidence too, I have done a pretty good job at that to date.

[king6]

no thanks, i'm going TACC

Thats cool. But the best thing about aircrew is you would fly to Spain and Greece and all the other steroid hot spots. And the best part is you don't have to clear customs on your way back.

[king6]

Well I went to class today, and saw her. She said that her ex came over drunk and told her he made a mistake and wanted her back. So right off the bat I didn't learn a damn thing in class. I realized it was now or never. So after class I told her how I felt, which I don't think made a big impression. She is supposed to go over to her ex's tonight to talk things over. So needless to say I feel like absolute shit. I thought I would feel better just getting it off my chest, regardless of the answer. But I was wrong. If I wasn't taking Halodrol and Max LMG, I would get plastered. I don't know what the hell is wrong with me, I never felt this bad before. I've been shot at with guns, missels, morters, you name it. You would think this would be easy. Well I wont see her until monday, so maybe it will sink in. But knowing my luck she will probably get back together with her ex. Maybe I should find out where he lives and beat the shit out of him. I know why he wants her back. They have been broken up for a couple weeks now and he probably has not gotten laid.
Fuk it. I should just concentrate on lifting and my future cycle, then show her what she missed out on. As a matter of fact she is probably over at his place right now. The thought of him railing her turns my stomach to acid. Gonna be another sleepless night.

[CSAR]

So after class I told her how I felt

Dude, never tell a woman how you feel unless you're going to marry her. You should have just asked her to coffee with the pretense of letting her talk about her problems. After that, she'd be comparing the nice guy that you are to her shitty ex-bf. Think unconventional warfare here and be a sneaky marine bro. Don't try a frontal assault, you gotta manuver and attack from behind. Celer Silens Mortalis!!

[Polska]

Well I went to class today, and saw her. She said that her ex came over drunk and told her he made a mistake and wanted her back. So right off the bat I didn't learn a damn thing in class. I realized it was now or never. So after class I told her how I felt, which I don't think made a big impression. She is supposed to go over to her ex's tonight to talk things over. So needless to say I feel like absolute shit. I thought I would feel better just getting it off my chest, regardless of the answer. But I was wrong. If I wasn't taking Halodrol and Max LMG, I would get plastered. I don't know what the hell is wrong with me, I never felt this bad before. I've been shot at with guns, missels, morters, you name it. You would think this would be easy. Well I wont see her until monday, so maybe it will sink in. But knowing my luck she will probably get back together with her ex. Maybe I should find out where he lives and beat the shit out of him. I know why he wants her back. They have been broken up for a couple weeks now and he probably has not gotten laid.
Fuk it. I should just concentrate on lifting and my future cycle, then show her what she missed out on. As a matter of fact she is probably over at his place right now. The thought of him railing her turns my stomach to acid. Gonna be another sleepless night.

The key to getting girls is not caring. I am not saying not caring about them; but not caring whether you get them or not. I think you should write this one off bro.

[Polska]

Dude, never tell a woman how you feel unless you're going to marry her. You should have just asked her to coffee with the pretense of letting her talk about her problems. After that, she'd be comparing the nice guy that you are to her shitty ex-bf. Think unconventional warfare here and be a sneaky marine bro. Don't try a frontal assault, you gotta manuver and attack from behind. Celer Silens Mortalis!!

I disagree. The last thing you want to be is the shoulder for them to cry on when things don't go right with their man. they have their girlfriend for that. or their therapist.

[spound]

What EXACTLY did you say to her when you told her "how you felt"? And what was her response?

[CSAR]

I disagree. The last thing you want to be is the shoulder for them to cry on when things don't go right with their man. they have their girlfriend for that. or their therapist.

Way to go Dr. Phil! Note that I said "the pretense". You don't actually listen. Anyhow, it works pretty good. Not 100%, but moderately successful.

[Gear]

Women...

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[CSAR]

Women...

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