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  1. 11-17-2006, 01:57 AM #1
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    WTF is wrong with me!

    damnit... i swear to god i can't get over the fatty mental image i have of me. I had 2 drunk girls hitting on me OBVIOUSLY at a deftones concert and I ignore them. Wtf is that about. How much more obvious can a girl be other than slapping my ars and randomly hooking my arm and asking if i was offended by it? Jeez... gonna go k33l myself now.
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  2. 11-17-2006, 02:18 AM #2
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    Are you gay?
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  3. 11-17-2006, 02:22 AM #3
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hellmask
    Are you gay?
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  4. 11-17-2006, 02:28 AM #4
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    Are you seeking attention from us?
    Are you insecure?

    'Your not fat, all the girls love you, everyone loves you......you're the best!'

    That better?
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  5. 11-17-2006, 02:37 AM #5
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    Hot chicks at concerts always feel safe with fat gay guys.

    Keeps em from waking up in unknown beds.

    Sorry, bro... paint a target on your thread your gonna get hit.
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  6. 11-17-2006, 03:06 AM #6
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    Quote Originally Posted by xtralarg
    Are you seeking attention from us?
    Are you insecure?

    'Your not fat, all the girls love you, everyone loves you......you're the best!'

    That better?

    Or i could just have been frusterated that I ****ed up... but bashing some one for no point sounds pretty insecure to me. You big, very smart man...make feel bad...i go cry now w/ your ohh soo insiteful post.

    That better for you?
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  7. 11-17-2006, 03:09 AM #7
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    oh man zimster gettin burnt in this thread
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  8. 11-17-2006, 03:14 AM #8
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    I have issues as well. I was fat for a few years and now I'm scared to get fat again. I don't let that stop me from getting some coochie, though. Coochie > insecurities. Don't be a bitch.
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  9. 11-17-2006, 03:22 AM #9
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    I am sthe same zimmy. I used to be a BIG fatty. Now I reguarly work doing nude modelling (although they were none to happy with my recent bulk). Girls say they like my ass ect and I jusr don't believe them. In my mind I am still fat. I have a steady girl who has been with me since I was fat so I know where i stand with her. i would hate to be single and go through alll that crap though.
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  10. 11-17-2006, 03:42 AM #10
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    I know slim good looking guys who couldnt get laid if you paid them, and I know fat guys who get laid all the time.. with real lookers too. Its not what youve got its how you use it. If this is just a recent thing just ignore it and it might go away, if this is a recurring problem then maybe you should read some self help literature. Personaly I never used to get laid as much as Id've liked when I was younger due to confidence issues but nowdays I get more action than I can deal with, but inhibitions subside with age
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    Yes, the old fatman syndrome, been there done that. In my mind im still a fatty and even though this is largest ive ever been at 205(large since ive been lifting, previously i was 225 of goo), im getting the most compliments. The girl im with now loves my arms chest yadaa...but i dont know if shes just sayin it becuase im not comfortable. In my mind I Wont be completely happy with myself until I have the coveted ripped 6-pack.
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  12. 11-17-2006, 07:14 AM #12
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    Quote Originally Posted by xtralarg
    Are you seeking attention from us?
    Are you insecure?

    'Your not fat, all the girls love you, everyone loves you......you're the best!'

    That better?


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    Quote Originally Posted by zimmy
    Or i could just have been frusterated that I ****ed up... but bashing some one for no point sounds pretty insecure to me. You big, very smart man...make feel bad...i go cry now w/ your ohh soo insiteful post.

    That better for you?

    Hun i think he was refering to the ton of your thread.

    If i can be so honest - it seems more like a boasting thread... kinda like these chicks thinks im hot and super fantastic why don't i see it.. what do u guys think kinda thing.

    I think however what your looking for is ways to get around that mentality of being the fat guy.

    Know what I mean?
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  14. 11-17-2006, 09:10 AM #14
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    zimmy - you need to talk to yourself. i was the opposite i was the skinny kid and i still see that. what i mean by talking to yourself, when your in a situation where you lack confidence make your inner self become an arrogant prick. whether you believe what your saying is irrelevant....i tell myself im the ****ing man, im better then you, etc etc. i know that sounds weird, and i dont really feel that way but it works. act like you have a divine right to do whatever......and the confidence will build!
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    It's ok Zimmy, i banged them both for you last night. Just feel good inside that i took care of them, they were treated well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by muriloninja
    It's ok Zimmy, i banged them both for you last night. Just feel good inside that i took care of them, they were treated well.

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    I to am a mental fat ass. I hate it, I have slept with alot of girls for my age.But I cant take my shit off when I have sex. Ifeel like they are gona laugh at me.
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    I can only take my shirt off or be totally naked with is my girl and that is because when we were 1st together I was fat.
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    well, ya know there are alot of actors that are coming out of the closet..or being outed...

    that's not you is it???

    not that there is anything wrong with that..
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    for some reason i feel ya with this thread, i never was fat, but i have had the same issues with my acne/back.
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    Quote Originally Posted by spywizard
    well, ya know there are alot of actors that are coming out of the closet..or being outed...

    that's not you is it???

    not that there is anything wrong with that..
    Wtf does being gay have to do with any of this.
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  22. 11-17-2006, 12:22 PM #22
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    zimmy thats a pic of you in your avy right? well if so how do you have a black and white photo of yourself?
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    Quote Originally Posted by italianplayboy09
    zimmy thats a pic of you in your avy right? well if so how do you have a black and white photo of yourself?
    are you serious? either he had a photo taken in black and white mode with a digital camera, or he used adobe photoshop or the like to desaturate it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by zimmy
    damnit... i swear to god i can't get over the fatty mental image i have of me. I had 2 drunk girls hitting on me OBVIOUSLY at a deftones concert and I ignore them. Wtf is that about. How much more obvious can a girl be other than slapping my ars and randomly hooking my arm and asking if i was offended by it? Jeez... gonna go k33l myself now.
    You have to take that attitude and bury it man. keep telling yourself that you're the best looking/coolest muther****a on the planet. eventually you'll instill confidence in yourself and that old self image of you will disappear.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Polska
    are you serious? either he had a photo taken in black and white mode with a digital camera, or he used adobe photoshop or the like to desaturate it.
    oooooo i see
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  26. 11-17-2006, 03:26 PM #26
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    Yah photo mang...
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  27. 11-17-2006, 03:59 PM #27
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    i was never overweight but i have probably blown more "sure things" than anyone else in history. the few years i spent in school i was a very athletic straight A student who could literally have any girl i wanted in the entire school, but for some reason i would never go for it even if she was the aggressor, i have just never been very comfortable around people i guess.

    one thing that helps is to quit jerking off completely, then when you are around a girl you will be so horny you wont give a fvck about anything else. of course this can backfire if you meet a nice girl who just wants to get to know you and your mind is only focused on one thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by zodiac666
    i was never overweight but i have probably blown more "sure things" than anyone else in history. the few years i spent in school i was a very athletic straight A student who could literally have any girl i wanted in the entire school, but for some reason i would never go for it even if she was the aggressor, i have just never been very comfortable around people i guess.

    one thing that helps is to quit jerking off completely, then when you are around a girl you will be so horny you wont give a fvck about anything else. of course this can backfire if you meet a nice girl who just wants to get to know you and your mind is only focused on one thing.
    Ya I've blown my share of sure things too. I am the same way, not comfortable around people. Especially people I don't know. It took me awhile to get over that and become more extroverted. Fack I am still working on it.
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    im totally concious i think im 14% bf and i dont feel any better then when i was like 20%. i cant take my shirt off much either. only in bed when we dimmed. i wear singlets at home but not in public
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    Quote Originally Posted by zodiac666
    one thing that helps is to quit jerking off completely
    NOO DONT SAY THAT NEVER
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    Quote Originally Posted by Foskamink
    NOO DONT SAY THAT NEVER
    yes, those words should never be uttered
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    Quote Originally Posted by Foskamink
    NOO DONT SAY THAT NEVER
    you should at least cut back on spankin it, maybe then your girl wouldnt have to stop by my place every weekend.
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    Quote Originally Posted by zodiac666
    you should at least cut back on spankin it, maybe then your girl wouldnt have to stop by my place every weekend.
    she come by my house to,
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