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    Countdown to Armageddon....

    aka getting married in 7 months!

    Anyone married round here and got any tips for me?! believe it or not im starting to get a little nervous.

    Alot of thoughts are going through my head at the moment, one of them is my partners ex's... She;s been with a few guys before we met and alot of them still contact her almost as if still reeling from it, even though it is yrs/months later. Im not really a jelous guy, but i think about her being with these guys and it hurts my head thinking about it, i know ive been with girls before her and the present and future are what counts. The thing is any of my ex;s dont contact me anymore because i let it be known that ive moved on from that and my life is with the woman i love, but these guys still contact my fiance say once a month. I always said id do 2x life sentances back to back for this women and i hope to god nobody does anything to push me that far!


    All i know is that i love her unconditionally, she has my trust, my loyalty and my heart i would never do her wrong or hurt her in anyway.

    Guess its just a few nerves creeping in, ive been certain that i wont cry on the day, but at the moment i cant promise it, its almost like coming off test...getting emotional, listening to more rnb than usual lol.

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    write help me in tipex on the soles of each of your shoes. my brother did and it was one of the funniest things i have ever seen. when the where kneeling by the alter, you could see it. it had every one laughing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GameTime83
    aka getting married in 7 months!

    Anyone married round here and got any tips for me?
    ! believe it or not im starting to get a little nervous.

    Alot of thoughts are going through my head at the moment, one of them is my partners ex's... She;s been with a few guys before we met and alot of them still contact her almost as if still reeling from it, even though it is yrs/months later. Im not really a jelous guy, but i think about her being with these guys and it hurts my head thinking about it, i know ive been with girls before her and the present and future are what counts. The thing is any of my ex;s dont contact me anymore because i let it be known that ive moved on from that and my life is with the woman i love, but these guys still contact my fiance say once a month. I always said id do 2x life sentances back to back for this women and i hope to god nobody does anything to push me that far!


    All i know is that i love her unconditionally, she has my trust, my loyalty and my heart i would never do her wrong or hurt her in anyway.

    Guess its just a few nerves creeping in, ive been certain that i wont cry on the day, but at the moment i cant promise it, its almost like coming off test...getting emotional, listening to more rnb than usual lol.
    Yes..... DON'T DO IT

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kale
    Yes..... DON'T DO IT
    I second this. trust me i just got married.

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    Im getting married in 9 months......couldnt be happier.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chuck89gt5.0
    Im getting married in 9 months......couldnt be happier.
    I was very happy 9 month before. I was happy teh day of. I was happy 6 month after even 9 month. When you hit one year it's all down hill.

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    We are living together and live as if we already are married, nothing going to change after we get married. We have been together for quite a while and things are actually getting BETTER as the years go by....

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    Quote Originally Posted by gsxxr
    I was very happy 9 month before. I was happy teh day of. I was happy 6 month after even 9 month. When you hit one year it's all down hill.
    Why is that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by GameTime83
    aka getting married in 7 months!

    Anyone married round here and got any tips for me?! believe it or not im starting to get a little nervous.

    Alot of thoughts are going through my head at the moment, one of them is my partners ex's... She;s been with a few guys before we met and alot of them still contact her almost as if still reeling from it, even though it is yrs/months later. Im not really a jelous guy, but i think about her being with these guys and it hurts my head thinking about it, i know ive been with girls before her and the present and future are what counts. The thing is any of my ex;s dont contact me anymore because i let it be known that ive moved on from that and my life is with the woman i love, but these guys still contact my fiance say once a month. I always said id do 2x life sentances back to back for this women and i hope to god nobody does anything to push me that far!


    All i know is that i love her unconditionally, she has my trust, my loyalty and my heart i would never do her wrong or hurt her in anyway.

    Guess its just a few nerves creeping in, ive been certain that i wont cry on the day, but at the moment i cant promise it, its almost like coming off test...getting emotional, listening to more rnb than usual lol.
    Im getting married in march, My fiance had an ex that halfway stocked her for awhile until I put the fear of god in him. Thinking about all the what ifs will f--k with you so dont do it. What I do when I feel unsure about getting married is think back to all my previous ex's and all the shit before my fiance came along. And then I think about all the skanks out there and then it hits me that my girl is a pretty good women. Plus she is going to make a shit load of money someday, which helps. I also learn from my friends experiances, cause everone has the bro that just loves the Jerry Springer girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chuck89gt5.0
    We are living together and live as if we already are married, nothing going to change after we get married. We have been together for quite a while and things are actually getting BETTER as the years go by....
    i said the same thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gsxxr
    i said the same thing.
    why does it all go down hill?

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    I've been married for 3 years now. It definitely isn't the same as when we met, got engaged, and then got married. Husbands change, wives change, lots of things change. I like the old cereal analogy. You know, it's like eating the same bowl of your favorite cereal for breakfast every morning. The key to being able to eat that same cereal is to add different things...raisins, honey, nuts, sliced bananas, etc. Same thing with marriage, you gotta spice it up in some way or it gets old real fast.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gsxxr
    I was very happy 9 month before. I was happy teh day of. I was happy 6 month after even 9 month. When you hit one year it's all down hill.


    Why does it go down hill after a year bro?

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    They become more controlling. Then the amount of sex slowly drops off. They wont and feel they deserve new things all the time. You get shit when ever you wont to do anything.

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    I just got engaged. Kind of nervous too.
    I guess we'll see what happens.

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    Oh and they never stop bitching

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    Quote Originally Posted by gsxxr
    Oh and they never stop bitching


    Ever heard of this saying:

    Life is a bitch then you marry one.....

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