"Dating" a Party Chick

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 01:47 PM

Well its been a while boys.....

Started seeing this girl a few weeks ago. She's a few years younger than me. She's 23, still in college and in complete party mode. She drinks like a fish and has a ton of guy friends (which by the way really pisses me off). She's a real sexy girl.

Last weekend we hooked up and the next morning she says "well i guess i'll have to tell all my friends im not single anymore". Then today a week later she says "well im still single so whatever...." ".....we have to hang out more so I can get to know you better"

We're supposed to go out Wednesday night with a whole bunch of people i don't know and she's like "Oh I forgot to tell you, my friend Rick always has his hands all over me"

I would probably end up killing the guy!

WTF should I do here guys. Bed ominant male and don't leave her side all night? I need advice.

**thestudent** · 11-21-2006, 01:51 PM

I wouldnt even go. Girls like that are fun for a night not a relationship. She may be a real cool girl but she isnt going to change overnight or even anytime soon. Just save yourself some trouble and just have fun with her nothing more.

**italianplayboy09** · 11-21-2006, 01:56 PM

Originally Posted by thestudent

I wouldnt even go. Girls like that are fun for a night not a relationship. She may be a real cool girl but she isnt going to change overnight or even anytime soon. Just save yourself some trouble and just have fun with her nothing more.

i agree with this, shes cool to hang out with and bang but i wouldnt try and make a relationship out of it

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 01:56 PM

I'm still kinda torn whether or not to go. It's either go and possibly be made to look like a tool or sit home and jackoff.

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 01:57 PM

Yeah definately want to keep hanging out and banging she's sooooo much fun

**energizer bunny** · 11-21-2006, 01:57 PM

Tell her that if you do go, she has to tell her friend Rik that he cant touch her anymore cos she has a boyfriend, if she wont then she doesnt respect you so tell her to piss off.

**Xtralarg** · 11-21-2006, 01:57 PM

Fvck her and chuck her. She's trouble, guranteed.

***perfectbeast2001*** · 11-21-2006, 01:58 PM

I would not bother turning up, she'll want you more if you play it cool. Just bang her mate she is not dating material.

**bigacct** · 11-21-2006, 01:59 PM

Originally Posted by thestudent

I wouldnt even go. Girls like that are fun for a night not a relationship. She may be a real cool girl but she isnt going to change overnight or even anytime soon. Just save yourself some trouble and just have fun with her nothing more.

Natty,

Take the Student's advice above. Game has to recognize game. If she is a player, you have to treat her like she's game piece that YOU move around the board...

Don't get caught up because games are for fun.......

**italianplayboy09** · 11-21-2006, 01:59 PM

Originally Posted by Xtralarg

Fvck her and chuck her. She's trouble, guranteed.

***G-1000*** · 11-21-2006, 02:02 PM

I think the other guys are right. She is not ready for real relationship. You will only get all worked up and pissed off if you go.

**Mesomorphyl** · 11-21-2006, 02:02 PM

Originally Posted by Natty99

Well its been a while boys.....

Started seeing this girl a few weeks ago. She's a few years younger than me. She's 23, still in college and in complete party mode. She drinks like a fish and has a ton of guy friends (which by the way really pisses me off). She's a real sexy girl.

Last weekend we hooked up and the next morning she says "well i guess i'll have to tell all my friends im not single anymore". Then today a week later she says "well im still single so whatever...." ".....we have to hang out more so I can get to know you better"

We're supposed to go out Wednesday night with a whole bunch of people i don't know and she's like "Oh I forgot to tell you, my friend Rick always has his hands all over me"

I would probably end up killing the guy!

WTF should I do here guys. Bed ominant male and don't leave her side all night? I need advice.

Answering bolds in order.

First is your hang up dude.

Second should be a warning sign that she has had a change of opinion on the relationship.

Third, tell her it will bother you if Rick does that not only because of the lack of respect for her but for his lack of respect for you as well. Communicate. If she says ok ask her to introduce Rick to you, then ask Rick for a quick talk and tell him your girl has informed you of his grabbing and that isnt going to happen tonight or any other from this point forward, right?

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 02:05 PM

Thats some great advice boys.....I'm definetely going to try to play it cool. Maybe I'll just go out with a few freinds and say hi if we end up running into each other.

**bigacct** · 11-21-2006, 02:05 PM

Originally Posted by energizer bunny

Tell her that if you do go, she has to tell her friend Rik that he cant touch her anymore cos she has a boyfriend, if she wont then she doesnt respect you so tell her to piss off.

Wrong move...

If you go, you shouldn't have to tell her anything. She should tell him hands off, if not she doesn't respect you. If he touches her and she says nothing, make a move on one of her friends and see how she likes it....

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 02:08 PM

Originally Posted by Mesomorphyl

Answering bolds in order.

First is your hang up dude. I know bro

Second should be a warning sign that she has had a change of opinion on the relationship. Definately

Third, tell her it will bother you if Rick does that not only because of the lack of respect for her but for his lack of respect for you as well. Communicate. If she says ok ask her to introduce Rick to you, then ask Rick for a quick talk and tell him your girl has informed you of his grabbing and that isnt going to happen tonight or any other from this point forward, right?

This is some solid wisdom here bro

Thanks

**Mesomorphyl** · 11-21-2006, 02:09 PM

Originally Posted by Natty99

Thats some great advice boys.....I'm definetely going to try to play it cool. Maybe I'll just go out with a few freinds and say hi if we end up running into each other.

I would talk to her because if your buddies see the girl you dig being groped you will forced into a situation that may have you arrested.

**Carlos_E** · 11-21-2006, 02:13 PM

Originally Posted by Natty99

Well its been a while boys.....

Started seeing this girl a few weeks ago. She's a few years younger than me. She's 23, still in college and in complete party mode. She drinks like a fish and has a ton of guy friends (which by the way really pisses me off). She's a real sexy girl.

Last weekend we hooked up and the next morning she says "well i guess i'll have to tell all my friends im not single anymore". Then today a week later she says "well im still single so whatever...." ".....we have to hang out more so I can get to know you better"

We're supposed to go out Wednesday night with a whole bunch of people i don't know and she's like "Oh I forgot to tell you, my friend Rick always has his hands all over me"

I would probably end up killing the guy!

WTF should I do here guys. Bed ominant male and don't leave her side all night? I need advice.

Don't go. She has already made it clear you two are not a couple. She doesn't sound like the dating type. She sounds like the type you fuck. Not the type you have a relationship with.

**Carlos_E** · 11-21-2006, 02:14 PM

Originally Posted by Natty99

I'm still kinda torn whether or not to go. It's either go and possibly be made to look like a tool or sit home and jackoff.

Don't sit home and jack off. Go out and meet a girl you want to take home to Mom.

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 02:14 PM

Originally Posted by bigacct

Wrong move...

If you go, you shouldn't have to tell her anything. She should tell him hands off, if not she doesn't respect you. If he touches her and she says nothing, make a move on one of her friends and see how she likes it....

Good Point. Make a move on her friend

Classic

**MAXIMA5** · 11-21-2006, 02:16 PM

If you go, spend most of the time with another chick or your friends. She seems like a "collector" to me. She likes to collect boys who worship her and she likes to have them all in the same place at the same time. it makes her feel good about herself. Like they said above, play it cool.

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 02:16 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

Don't go. She has already made it clear you two are not a couple. She doesn't sound like the dating type. She sounds like the type you fuck. Not the type you have a relationship with.

It's really beginnig to look that way.

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 02:18 PM

Originally Posted by MAXIMA5

If you go, spend most of the time with another chick or your friends. She seems like a "collector" to me. She likes to collect boys who worship her and she likes to have them all in the same place at the same time. it makes her feel good about herself. Like they said above, play it cool.

Never heard of a "collecter". Thats great. I've been away from this site from way tooo long.

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 02:21 PM

Alright boys. I have decided this "relationship" will be for fun and sexual pleasure only. i'm not going to let this chick mind fvck me.

**Growingpains** · 11-21-2006, 02:26 PM

dude, you are already whipped and you're not even together! F**k her! (literally and figuratively)

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 02:29 PM

Originally Posted by Growingpains

dude, you already whipped and you not going out. F**k her!

Dude im hardly whipped

............good thing I came here before it was too late.

**spound** · 11-21-2006, 02:29 PM

Play it cool, and don't act like you care....just bang her, pull out, and bust a nut on her face....then tell her to leave (find a ride home)....I am being serious LOL

**Foskamink** · 11-21-2006, 02:34 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

Don't sit home and jack off. Go out and meet a girl you want to take home to Mom.

best advice

**Mizfit** · 11-21-2006, 02:34 PM

shes not a party chick, she is a child.

Sorry,but sounds to melike she wants attention from other dudes.

Use her and ditch her ifanything. She made it clear she is still single you be too

RA · 11-21-2006, 02:40 PM

Originally Posted by spound

Play it cool, and don't act like you care....just bang her, pull out, and bust a nut on her face....then tell her to leave (find a ride home)....I am being serious LOL

This is what I would do if I went and she was letting other guys touch her n shit.

**Foskamink** · 11-21-2006, 02:42 PM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

shes not a party chick, she is a child.

Sorry,but sounds to melike she wants attention from other dudes.

Use her and ditch her ifanything. She made it clear she is still single you be too

just when i thought carlos was best advice! wise words of wisdom mizfit

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**doctadank** · 11-21-2006, 02:43 PM

ya mushroom stamp her forehead, you have to mark your territory

**mavsluva** · 11-21-2006, 02:48 PM

Originally Posted by Natty99

Well its been a while boys.....

Started seeing this girl a few weeks ago. She's a few years younger than me. She's 23, still in college and in complete party mode. She drinks like a fish and has a ton of guy friends (which by the way really pisses me off). She's a real sexy girl.

Last weekend we hooked up and the next morning she says "well i guess i'll have to tell all my friends im not single anymore". Then today a week later she says "well im still single so whatever...." ".....we have to hang out more so I can get to know you better"

We're supposed to go out Wednesday night with a whole bunch of people i don't know and she's like "Oh I forgot to tell you, my friend Rick always has his hands all over me"

I would probably end up killing the guy!

WTF should I do here guys. Bed ominant male and don't leave her side all night? I need advice.

If/when you choose to date a girl like this, that means that you have already accepted the fact that she'll behave unpredictably. If you want this to work, then you're going to have to change. If you're not willing to change, then I'd highly recommend that you part ways with this girl.

Good luck!

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 02:49 PM

Originally Posted by doctadank

ya mushroom stamp her forehead, you have to mark your territory

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 02:57 PM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

shes not a party chick, she is a child.

Sorry,but sounds to melike she wants attention from other dudes.

Use her and ditch her ifanything. She made it clear she is still single you be too

Good to get a girls perspective. Thanks Miz

**Yesevil** · 11-21-2006, 02:58 PM

Go out with her, if things aren't going the way you like you just "slip" next time you bangin her, if she's into that sort of thing then cool, you got kinky chick for a couple more hours. If she gets mad just throw her clothes out the window and push her out the front door (locking it quickly), problem solved. Just know your car will no doubt be keyed to hell in the morning if not worse. But at least you wont have to worry about breakin up!!!

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 03:03 PM

Originally Posted by Yesevil

Go out with her, if things aren't going the way you like you just "slip" next time you bangin her, if she's into that sort of thing then cool, you got kinky chick for a couple more hours. If she gets mad just throw her clothes out the window and push her out the front door (locking it quickly), problem solved. Just know your car will no doubt be keyed to hell in the morning if not worse. But at least you wont have to worry about breakin up!!!

ROTFL !!!!!!!!!!!

**neardark** · 11-21-2006, 03:06 PM

Originally Posted by perfectbeast2001

I would not bother turning up, she'll want you more if you play it cool. Just bang her mate she is not dating material.

I have to agree with beast.

I dated a girl like that... the prob with them is that they can have who ever they want... she was keep on telling me that we were good friends, and I didnt really give a shit since she was a hell of a f@#k. Guys were around her like hell but I didn't give a shit and I kept seing her. The day she realised I was dating other girls... she changed... "why the hell did you go out with that girl?" I just answered that she's the one that is saying that were only ****friends so why bother?

Results of this?

I'm married to her now and noguys are around lolllllll

Those girls are able to have who they want... its went a guy doesn't act jealous or is acting like he can go somewhere else if she doesn't make up her mind, that is making her realise "why is this guy is not like the other one?"

**Natty99** · 11-21-2006, 03:09 PM

Originally Posted by neardark

I have to agree with beast.

I dated a girl like that... the prob with them is that they can have who ever they want... she was keep on telling me that we were good friends, and I didnt really give a shit since she was a hell of a f@#k. Guys were around her like hell but I didn't give a shit and I kept seing her. The day she realised I was dating other girls... she changed... "why the hell did you go out with that girl?" I just answered that she's the one that is saying that were only ****friends so why bother?

Results of this?

I'm married to her now and noguys are around lolllllll

Those girls are able to have who they want... its went a guy doesn't act jealous or is acting like he can go somewhere else if she doesn't make up her mind, that is making her realise "why is this guy is not like the other one?"

Dude this is the best advice yet imo. Nice

**prncezzml** · 11-21-2006, 03:16 PM

Originally Posted by MAXIMA5

If you go, spend most of the time with another chick or your friends. She seems like a "collector" to me. She likes to collect boys who worship her and she likes to have them all in the same place at the same time. it makes her feel good about herself. Like they said above, play it cool.

I would definitley have to agree with this. Also,lots of booze+relationship=doesn't work especially if she's out and about all the time, she is not going to exactly be worried about your feelings while shes hammered. Like others have said, find a nice girl who's done partying

**Phreak101** · 11-21-2006, 03:20 PM

Party girls want and are good for only one thing - Partying with no strings attached.

+1 to F IT AND FORGET IT

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