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  1. 11-28-2006, 07:06 PM #1
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    I need help with some life changing decisions.

    OKay so my family is a complete hell hole, except for my sister. Me and her get along great. She recently moved to florida, and has invited me to live with her, because the house sucks. Its cheap rent, its not that bad, but its in florida and i live in pennsylvania, for you UK guys its like an 18 hour drive.
    I wanna get away from all this, Ill be much happier/healthier down there, but there are some downfalls. Ive got an absolutely amazing girlfriend, and a good set of friends. BUt if i moved down there it would kind of be a start over, and loose my friends, and obviously gf. Shes to young to move down with me, because she needs to graduate, and i couldnt ask her to do that. So what do i do?
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    pray...best advice I can give.
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    dude...there will be other g/fs along the way..go down to florida...change of scenery can do wonders .
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    Well see the thing is, shes literally been the easiest gf in the world. Like ive had some bumps, but nothing like the last one. IM known for how sarcastic i am, and honestly, she takes the cake, she bust my balls better then anyone. Shes absolutely georgous, she can party her ass off, Shes fun to be around, Slammin body, and shes absolutely crazy about me
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    Quote Originally Posted by audis4
    pray...best advice I can give.
    i second that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by boarder034
    Well see the thing is, shes literally been the easiest gf in the world. Like ive had some bumps, but nothing like the last one. IM known for how sarcastic i am, and honestly, she takes the cake, she bust my balls better then anyone. Shes absolutely georgous, she can party her ass off, Shes fun to be around, Slammin body, and shes absolutely crazy about me
    cant wait till she graduates?

    why specifically cant you live here? im not clear on that..
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  7. 11-28-2006, 07:46 PM #7
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    I cant live here, cause my house is a hell hole, my rents are complete assholes, and there just Rediculous, absolutely ****ing phsyco's, and she still needs to graduate, so icant pull her away...
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    If she's saying that if you move she's breaking everything off with you then wouldn't you need to rethink your relationship first? Just cause you move doesn't mean everything is over between you and her. Is she about to graduate in may/june? That's not long at all if that's the case.
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    just go to start your new life, if she really loves you then she will come after you when shes ready, if she didnt then u should be glad that u left and find someone else
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    No she never told me that shed dump me, i just wouldnt expect her to deal with that. ANnd she graduates next june, and she said that she would like to move down with me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by boarder034
    No she never told me that shed dump me, i just wouldnt expect her to deal with that. ANnd she graduates next june, and she said that she would like to move down with me.
    ...sounds like you worked it out then?
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    there is tons of good colleges in florida
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    Quote Originally Posted by audis4
    ...sounds like you worked it out then?

    That's what I thought it sounded like, too.
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  14. 11-28-2006, 08:49 PM #14
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    By june, i mean june of 07, so no its not worked out...
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    thats like 7 months dawg. not long at all
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    Quote Originally Posted by boarder034
    By june, i mean june of 07, so no its not worked out...
    ya, thats what you said....you said she said she would like to move down with you....done deal.
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    Wow im a moron june of 08 (typo) sorry
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    dude, time will fly, that will give you a chance to get set up and I'm sure you can be with her over the summer and holidays, right?
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  19. 11-28-2006, 09:04 PM #19
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    That is true, i honestly didnt think of that, its just hard to be away from the ones you love
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