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    IM a fregin moron/dumbass

    Everytime i meet a girl, i vow not to get atttached. I dated a girl for 2 years and walkedi n on her cheating on me on my birthday. Ever since then i vowed never to be close to a girl again. Then i met the one i have now, and i was crazy about her, and things were goin great, now i find out that im just the ****ing rebound of her last relationship. She ignores my calls, and basically just doesnt give a shit. God i feel ****ing worthless right now, i really feel like a complete dumbass for getting attached again.

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    similar stuff happened to me. girls arent too nice.

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    i really want to just give up for forever after this one...

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    She was supposed to come by tonight, **** her man, she pisses me off beyond belief, but i know if i see her, ill just melt again

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    Never trust anyone that bleeds for seven days and remains to be alive

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    Quote Originally Posted by boarder034
    She was supposed to come by tonight, **** her man, she pisses me off beyond belief, but i know if i see her, ill just melt again
    C'mon dude you gotta be stronger than that. I know you have feelings for her but you can't respect anyone who treats you like that.

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    Thats true, im gonna get retarted.

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    girls do suck.its hard to move on but everytime you do it only makes you stronger

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    A good women is so f--king hard to find. Thanks modern society

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chitown Raider
    Never trust anyone that bleeds for seven days and remains to be alive
    One of the wisest things I've ever read on this board!

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    She called me, Straight up told me she didnt like me anymore. TOld me she needed to some things for herself, get her shit figured out. It was nothing that i did. That whole its not you its me speach, which is probably just bullshit. O well. It sucks ass she wants to talk tonight when she gets off work, im already missin her, wishin i could see her. SO i decided im just gettin in rediculous shape and move down with my sister. West palm beach. IM gonna go on the largiest cycle i can find, then cut like a mofo, and go down like arnold just hatin on bitches. Is about the only thing thats keepin my head happy, so im a go with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by boarder034
    She called me, Straight up told me she didnt like me anymore. TOld me she needed to some things for herself, get her shit figured out. It was nothing that i did. That whole its not you its me speach, which is probably just bullshit. O well. It sucks ass she wants to talk tonight when she gets off work, im already missin her, wishin i could see her. SO i decided im just gettin in rediculous shape and move down with my sister. West palm beach. IM gonna go on the largiest cycle i can find, then cut like a mofo, and go down like arnold just hatin on bitches. Is about the only thing thats keepin my head happy, so im a go with it.
    You sound like me, I told myself I would never get attached. Then I met a girl in one of my classes, who broke up with her boyfriend. I spent my time boosting her confidence telling her how pretty she was and how anybody would be lucky to be with her. When I told her I liked her she went back to her ex boyfriend. So I lost out, I felt like shit because I really liked her. You think she would have left it at that, but no. Now when I see her she is always talking about her boyfriend and she even calls him in front of me. Normally that would make me mad. But I can't help it, every time I see her my heart melts all over again. I even lost like 10 pounds over her, just being stressed out, and I hardly slept either. But what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I don't think about her that much anymore, and I'm getting my weight back up. I hope I do see her next semester, when my cycle has kicked in. I hope her boyfriend sees me too. Maybe she'll leave him for me, then I can break her heart. Be strong bro, you have to learn to write these things off. And believe me it gets better.

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    yeah i tell myself this every time too..but i still get attached..its just ur personality

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    Quote Originally Posted by boarder034
    She was supposed to come by tonight, **** her man, she pisses me off beyond belief, but i know if i see her, ill just melt again
    No one will respect you if you do not respect yourself. If she is treating you like shit, cut her off. Don't call her don't speak to her when you see her in public. Move on. Spend some time by yourself and get your head together.
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    Yeah man come on, no need to really worry about a girl, if she is not willing to give you the time of day, you should not be willing to feel like junk over her

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    rule #1: Obtain a shiv
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    Quote Originally Posted by taiboxa
    rule #1: Obtain a shiv
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    rule #4: forget u ever read this.
    haha straight outa jail rules...reminds me off the chappelle show went he shanks the dad and passes the shank...

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    Why do relationships have to be fueled by bullshit? Why cant people just come out and say what they mean insteada ****ing around and playing games.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flagg
    Why do relationships have to be fueled by bullshit? Why cant people just come out and say what they mean insteada ****ing around and playing games.
    for a solution please refer to post #17

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flagg
    Why do relationships have to be fueled by bullshit? Why cant people just come out and say what they mean insteada ****ing around and playing games.
    I don't know. I tried telling a girl how I felt, and it didn't work out that well. I guess the key is not caring. Or treat her like crap, I don't know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by king6
    I don't know. I tried telling a girl how I felt, and it didn't work out that well. I guess the key is not caring. Or treat her like crap, I don't know.

    Even that doesn't work sometimes. I've tried that recently with my on off relationship and then I get "well its not like YOU been texting either"..

    ****ed if you do, ****ed if you dont.

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    I think what you should be most worried about is the status of your girl who has the issues that you pointed out the other day. Has she gone to the doctor as of yet? Please say yes.

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    No infact, i found out shes gotten worse, she lost 9 pounds, and shes been sick all day today, i wanna help, but apart of me knows i cant anymroe. Im the only person she told, and im just not in the position anymore to help her. She cut me deep, and i also foudn out she told everyone of my friends at this party she was gonna dump me, then called me the next morning straight up saying she doesnt like me anymore... ive cut her out of my life, cause im just gonna miss her, but obviously she wasnt worth it...if she did all this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    No one will respect you if you do not respect yourself. If she is treating you like shit, cut her off. Don't call her don't speak to her when you see her in public. Move on. Spend some time by yourself and get your head together.

    Excellent advice!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lucabratzi
    haha straight outa jail rules...reminds me off the chappelle show went he shanks the dad and passes the shank...
    the one where they tried to make fun of the real world...that is funny

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flagg
    Even that doesn't work sometimes. I've tried that recently with my on off relationship and then I get "well its not like YOU been texting either"..

    ****ed if you do, ****ed if you dont.
    Yeah, I think the best thing is not to give a fvck. Then you can be pleasently surprised when things work out your way. I just can't stand the friggin mind games. I told a girl I liked her, she went back to her ex. Fine, lets leave it at that. But no. She has to talk about him every chance she gets, and text him, and call him in front of me. Whatev, maybe I should hook up with her mom.

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    Quote Originally Posted by boarder034
    That whole its not you its me speach, which is probably just bullshit.
    The old excuse. Actually it is you because if it wasn't she wouldn't be using that line.
    This kinda of reminds of that song from the 80's by .38 Special "Hold on loosely, but don't let go. If you cling to tightly your gonna lose control".

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    Quote Originally Posted by king6
    Yeah, I think the best thing is not to give a fvck. Then you can be pleasently surprised when things work out your way. I just can't stand the friggin mind games. I told a girl I liked her, she went back to her ex. Fine, lets leave it at that. But no. She has to talk about him every chance she gets, and text him, and call him in front of me. Whatev, maybe I should hook up with her mom.
    If her mom is hot, then do it.

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    You guys need to start employing the KALE Four F's Methodology

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    The only time its good to be the rebound is if your just tryin to smash. But it sucks if you end up getting into a relationship with them and then you find out that they just wanted to use you.

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    If you think that girl banging some other dude on your **ay is bad check this story out. My sister had my brother in law drive her to some other dudes house and fvcked some other dude on his **ay.

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    OH and I was the rebound for this smoken hot girl and she went out of town for like a month. While she was out of town she was talkin to her wx. She gets home and im bangin her in my sisters bathroon sink and she moaned the exs name.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cfiler
    If her mom is hot, then do it.
    Never seen her before, but If she looks anything like her, then I'm in! I had class with her tonight, which is usually hard for me because I like her so much. But tonight she had a booger in her nose for the whole class. That helped a lot!

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    (11:55:36 PM): my deepest apologies for this but chad unfortunately, after everything is done and over with i realized how much i actually do love you. i might not have realized it then but damnit do i see it now, and theres nothing i can really do about it until i get my shit together, it kills me to know that i took me till now to realize that but you need to know, you have the right to

    So found out she cheated on me with my friend, and some dude at a party, got completly hammered doesnt remember it. Then told everyone she was dumping me, next day left me. Today she stays in, shes sick feels like hell, i stay back from class because i feel like death, and i feel like i wont go on...only to find out all this hsit about my friends...and now i hate her, and my friends...and i really dont want her back, its funny how the world works

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    she cheated on you with your friend AND another guy? damn...

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    Kick her to the curb.

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    Kick her in the face you mean?

    Ive already yelled at her about it, then just todl her i dont hate her, ive learned from this and that i really am happy that i learned, because obviously i wont want her back... i still do sort of, but its all good. Sitting here listening to music is filling me wiht hate, and i just wanna call and yell at her, but itd get me no where.

    later guys

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    You posted before about you have the chance to move to FL. I was thinking you should toss her then....so its all good. There will be wall to wall hotness down there

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    My advice is to stay in the gym and start going for the older chicks, thats what I used to do. When the young, dumb bitch see's you macking it with some 35 yr old blonde with a tit job she'll shut the **** up real fast. And you'll be more confident too. It's fairly easy bro, just work on getting yourself really big right now, the older chicks like that. And sometimes it may require some $30 dinner before you can get in their pants, they don't want to feel like whores sometimes, so you have to take them to dinner first, but usually after the initial **** o' rama you can cut right to the chase next time. Also, talk to them about their kids or their asshole ex-husband, let them spill their guts to you, and you drunkenly just nod up and down in an understanding way. I've experienced alot of older women as a young lad, one as old as 44 when I was 22, they are a different animal bro. I told them I was 27 years old often. Actually, this one I was screwing w/, she was 37 and divorced from a Dr. She used to take me out on her boat and she cooked for me all the time, all I had to do was **** her and she treated me like some treasure from Shanger ****in' Lai. Then she had to move out of her house because she couldnt afford it anymore, so she let me come over there and pick out things I wanted for my place!! So I ransacked alot of nice shit, made my place even more pimpilishis so I could impress the next dumb broad who came over. My apartment had leather furniture, a fireplace, nice framed pictures, candles, an expensive throw rug, all sorts of high roller looking shit. Little did the bitches know they were ****ing some broke kid who just graduated high school

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