Might get back with ex... help!

[Superhuman]

Okay i have had many threads about my ex and lately we have been talking about getting back together. She's flying out soon for two weeks and we want to figure things out. She says she loves me so much and wants to marry me and yada yada. I love her too and I can see myself married to her, but recently I found out that she had sex with somebody. She has only slept with 5 people in her life now, but she lied to me about this guy for over a month. I found out by signing onto AIM as her and chatting with one of her girlfriends about it. At first she denied it but then she finally admitted she had sex with him ONCE... later i find out it was FOUR times - the 1st time a week before I visited her in october and the last time about 2 weeks ago. This guy is out-of-shape, pasty white, hairy, lost his license to DUI, is an alcoholic, has an average-size penis, and is 22 going to a sh*tty community college and working at a sports authority. The fact that she would go from me to him really hurts me the most - that and the fact that she lied to me about it. I really have no room to talk since I cheated on her when I was with her with like 10 different girls - and i've been with like 6 more since we broke up. I am honestly ready to be faithful to her and I love her to death but I keep thinking about her ****ing this asshole. She says it was a mistake and she wishes she could take it back and that she only loves me and is willing to drop out of school for me. I just have no idea how to get over this... I can't look @ her without thinking about how she's a dirty whore - even though I've been with 4x as many people as her. THE WORST PART IS SHE ONLY KNEW THE GUY FOR 2 HOURS AND ****ED HIM WHILE SHE WAS DRUNK! What should I do?

[DamnYouMSN]

fuk the bitch!! it's not worth the headache. their will always be another girl!! trust me!

[beuleux]

Kill the scrawny guy... that will make you feel much better

[RA]

Sounds like you both need to grow up before making any serious type of commitment.

[dhriscerr]

Hey man, I had a girl like that and I cheated on her all the time and she cheated on me too, and some of the guys were total skeez balls that she hooked up with. The truth of the matter is you think your ready to be faithful and I also thought the same thing but if you cheated on her 10 times when you were together, your going to do it again, I know because i made it like 2 years with my wife and I was all happy and shit and then all of a sudden ooooops. because this chick at school or at a party or walking down the street is going to be this total bombshell and horny, and temptation is always there, not to mention, its really hard to stay faithful because its really hard to have the same exact pu**Y the rest of your life, it gets old. just my .02 hopefully you get it worked out man.

[muscles1981]

once theres that doubt and this other person involved who shes banged everytime you have a row or it goes bad you ll just throw it in her face and like you say you will alls picture this punk with ya bird .not worth the heart ake.if you were meant 2 b you would not of split up

[goodcents]

I thought you were going into porno You wont be happy with just one chic

[boarder034]

Relationships are built on trust, as soon as you cant trust someone, youll always second guess and itll just suck.

I always say this to a girl before we start dating...2 things...

1. DOnt put me in a situation ill be uncomfterable with, and ill do the same to you.

2.NO matter what be honest with me, ill be more mad hearing it from someone else, not you...


TO be honest, only 2 rules, and bitches still cant go by them...

[goodcents]

[QUOTE=boarder034]Relationships are built on trust, as soon as you cant trust someone, youll always second guess and itll just suck.

I always say this to a girl before we start dating...2 things...

1. DOnt put me in a situation ill be uncomfterable with, and ill do the same to you.

2.NO matter what be honest with me, ill be more mad hearing it from someone else, not you...


TO be honest, only 2 rules, and bitches still cant go by them...[/QUOTE]

I was going to flame the response till I read this part

[carguy_z28]

Dude dont do it, I had the same post on here a month ago, and everybody that told me to stay away was right. I shouldhave listened. trust me, DONT DO IT!!!!

[boarder034]

just do the exact opposite of what you think is right, because usually thats what happens with guys, we do exactly the opposite of what we should have done...

[chest6]

Relationships are built on trust, as soon as you cant trust someone, youll always second guess and itll just suck.

Pretty much thats all there is to it.

[nirish_mark20]

i wudnt go there, shes an Ex for a reason! if u do decide to go back tho, dnt hold the past against her, it has happened and that is that. u did things, she did things, and its those things that make u who u r! and u love her despite wot she did, she loves u despite wot u did, so u love that person who has come from the result of these mishaps.

its up to u tho bro, im sure ul get many ppl whol frown at u but just smile and get on with things, its the past.

[prncezzml]

Did she sleep with this other guy while you were broken up or together?

P.S. How do you know how big his penis is??

[l2elapse]

Hey super i thought you were joining the Army

[Schmidty]

I understand what your going through. When i start to freak out about my girl having sex with some other dude while we were broken up I Take really big deeep breathes and cout back from 10. I know this is gona sound creepy but then I say to myself over and over Sarah loves me and knowone else. As stupid and creepy it soundes it does help.

[Schmidty]

And you just have to remember to stay off your high horse. You went out and banged other girls to. As did I and I banged any dirty slut I could but for some reason I wanted to yell at her for sleeping with like two guys

[goodcents]

And you just have to remember to stay off your high horse. You went out and banged other girls to. As did I and I banged any dirty slut I could but for some reason I wanted to yell at her for sleeping with like two guys

Well, that's what happens when you break up for a couple of days

Just for shlts and giggles, how long were you broke up?

[Superhuman]

Kill the scrawny guy... that will make you feel much better

haha I wish but he really didn't do anything wrong

I thought you were going into porno You wont be happy with just one chic

yeah that would be awesome... but at least not now because my parents said they would disown me - i had a long talk with them about it.

if u do decide to go back tho, dnt hold the past against her, it has happened and that is that. u did things, she did things, and its those things that make u who u r! and u love her despite wot she did, she loves u despite wot u did, so u love that person who has come from the result of these mishaps.

you are absolutely right, if we do get back together we need to start fresh and move past everything... because I've done WAY more ****ed up things than she has and I'm surprised she still loves me after cheating on her all those times

just do the exact opposite of what you think is right, because usually thats what happens with guys, we do exactly the opposite of what we should have done...

hmm so I should bring home like 5 sluts from the club tomorrow night and bang them all, record it on video, and send it to my ex??? probably not a good idea lol

Did she sleep with this other guy while you were broken up or together?

P.S. How do you know how big his penis is??

we were broken up, so yeah she didn't cheat on me. bringing out the truth is a special talent i have with her and when she was balling telling me everything she told me how big it was and that she couldn't get wet so she had to use her spit

And you just have to remember to stay off your high horse. You went out and banged other girls to. As did I and I banged any dirty slut I could but for some reason I wanted to yell at her for sleeping with like two guys

yeah I have been such an asshole with her... i brought this on myself. If i didn't break up with her this wouldn't have happened